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Originally posted by: Anjureads

I will have to watch but from the written update I felt so. Like its some mature couple discussing. Meetwa was literally running away from Meety 2 episodes back and now he confesses and is ready to go for another one 🤔 thats too fast in 2 days. Not the type of sparks i found in the initial couple. They are becoming more of a role model at the cost of their love story.

Originally posted by: mehraan

Yahi yo prblm hai…. It was so easily said n done n dusted…. My issue is there was no therav nor depth in MAs sudden feelings that cme out pouring suddenly today… if this dhobigaat epsde had happnd aftr few dys showing the tussle between his mind n heart…. his instropection as to what he had felt or maybe even a word with Deep ….thn it wud somewhat cud have connected…Bas aaj fatak se, Bande nei boldiye, flirt kiya aur intimacy ke liye bi tayyar…. So my issue is why werent we shown on tis aspect from his side….. MH feelings were transparent n clear from Day1….i never felt that connectivity lost from her but MA ka kuch samaj nahi aya…… its jus like yesterday there were in some mood, today they are in some other… there is no uniformity in emotions…. Its like aaj ye karlo .. kal ye karlo!! Upar se twitterwasis r happy n i feel guilty enough that am i a fool🤪…. Kyunki mujhe transition n progression samaj nahi ayi!!!

exactly… and aj b usne koi love ni bola… he said “tum mje bht psnd ho” … so this is not love .. this is an actual arranged marriage where a couple progressed smoothly from one phase to another… if Meet H love realization is rushed (I never felt it was rushed but I have been told) then Meet A love realization is non existent….. kuch jyada hi realistic bna dia… aise kaise connect krenge audience se …

Originally posted by: mehraan

Is it only me who nvr understood the head n tail of tis episode… !?? Cvs ka acha hai, thy take us to such a height n thn tada… they throw us down bahut bedardi se… !! 😕 I dunno wat to say…. The whole dhobighaat had me in confusion, though standalone epsdes hotey tho ye bahut acha lagta par aaj na koi continuity hai na smooth transition in tracks..Aisa lagta hai tat Cvs r in some race to finish the last lane….thy are jumping tracks one aftr another a jet speed…. Neither i get to see the insight n thoughts on MA, no progression on tis aspect when it comes to his feelings or attraction to MH…. Its jus phatak se boldiye aaj n he is Jus like on FACEVALUE but andar se i find no connecitivity as a viewer with his sudden confession out of blue….. Cvs r in hurry to brush this under the carpet as This track had the very potential … n it moreover it had to be focussed more on MAs journey n his feelings towards his wife….But yaha focus is again shifted to MHs father n other mudune stuff… Why do they always bring 2 to 3 things together at a time? Why cant they just concentrate on Meets n let them have their moments for a while…a. As a viewer, im not satisfied with the way they always neglect the important scenario in the show, that is their lovestory which is also half hearted narrated n presented…Seriously kya tha ye aaj?!!

I warned you mehr ki what you are expecting is difficult to get here..look its clear cut thing its just acceptance as a viewer people just don't want to accept.

For both meets it was a arrange marriage,very common practice in India,hmm their arrange marriage included boys heartbreak and mus from his side towards girl not to forget she was not someone whom he wanted as a life partner ever like ever.

So they get married with a thought in their mind ki yup they are in this mess for lifetime and they had to make it work as many more arranged couples.

But mus and heartbreak of boy was the first thing for the girl to deal with,as she was somewhere tiny bit respomsible for this mess,so she took it as responsibility and repentance on her part and side by side guy came to know her trueself and girl start to get that support from him which as a partner every girl wants.

So finally they came at a point where in this arranged journey they came to a conclusion of being friends becoz its the easiest way to be together without burden but back of their mind they both knows ki they are not just friends but a couple.

Meanwhile both these things combined and boy's care for her and her family made girl to fall in love with him becoz she never had planned all these things,she never thought her ideal type,she never ever thought she will ever get married,uparse she had not any baggage and not to forget she was made to believe like unwanted so she is someone's bestie,his support system and how much wanted as a friend by him,ho gya use pyaar,she get that jiffy,she got butterflies and fall in love forgetting ki the boy whom she got married has experirnced a very painful heartbreak.

And that heartbreak not only broke his heart but his dream of having a perfect life partner as well as his trust over love,meetA was never aversed to idea of intimacy,for him intimacy is not an emotion,its necessity as husband wife he holds himself back becoz he doesn't want to make meetH uncomfortable,he maybe matured and came to know that life is not fairytale and you didn't gets what you want everytime,sometimes you had to make adjustments,certain compromises to be happy,to keep everyone around you happy.

Sometimes its not necessary that what is good for you should also be liked by your heart,sometimes you accept it becoz its best for you.

MeetA understand this unlike his old self who thought ki marriage should not be compromise,with time he accepted that compromise in not bad always,as he once told meetH while discussing sunaina-ravi ki sometimes you should accept things which are good than wanting hopeless love.

From that time only,for me relationship from his side was always like this,he accepted his arranged marriage with willingness to adjust and carry on with it till lifetime.

MeetH was never the girl he chose she is the girl who was forced on him but with time he accepted it.

Simple.

I am not shocked with the episode I kind a knew it on same lines after all the bts and my understanding of them respectinely with their relationship.

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

Thank you Mehr for saying this… I thought I am the only one who felt the disconnect… I just posted the same thing that I lost interest mid episode and have no inclination to watch it further.. even though everything is great… kuch click ni kia… why are they turning it into a all in all social message show and have no depth in terms of their love story… from today’s episode, it looks everything is fine between them… and even love is blooming… bht feeka ho gya sb….😔

I agree partly with all of you. What is missing is MeetA introspection. Like i said the entire fandom is playing does he does he not and the CVs choose to leave us all lingering.

But overall I actually liked the episode a lot. He was running away from her. He said it was a mistake and he didn't take a minute to let the kiss itself sink in. For him it was the logical step in the relationship. Whether he is in love or not ... And after the kiss he didn't show any effects and we want him to show that.. think about it get affected and here is where most of us are feeling disconnected I think.

His worry was what would Meet think.

Today's episode reconfirmed 2 things for me. MeetA might be in love or not, he may not be able to live without MeetH for a single day but he won't say I love you so easily... He will call it all he wants but not love and definitely not so soon.

Now as an audience we thought this track was his love realization track but they are taking it a step further back. It is more of a dating track. There will be cute moments but not like buddies but more like the GF BF which later results in love.

They were too much in the buddy zone i always wondered how they will show attraction between the leads. I saw 3 instances today. One he was ready to kiss her again. Albeit teasing her but he was. 2nd he leaned in to lick the icecream off only when she stopped him, he pulled out his handkerchief. 3rd when he said bahut sunder hai.. he kept looking at Meety.

Our first question is he even attracted to her as the girl he thought he likes or is attracted to or the ideal girl according to him is no way close to MeetH. This will show us that.

He said today you are my wife , I like you a lot. We all knew that. Kuch naya bolo and that is where it felt incomplete . We wanted answers and we didn't really get any. I personally feel this is a build up towards the love track. Angst or love confession ke liye writers may choose when they separate, she goes for her training. They will need to show something there as well na.

Take the hint MeetA said today. Shuru se shuru kartein hain and that is where the CVs are going. Back to step one. Initial attraction. He said mein tumhe pataaunga aur tumhare nakhre bhi uthaunga. MeetH will get her romantic love story. Just we wanted it to start from here and the CVs have decided to rewind it to the beginning.

There is a lot more scope.. she might ask him to maintain a distance, tease him I am your girlfriend... And he will have to woo her. What I all in all liked is Meety knows where she stands in the relationship while MeetA is figuring it out. She has that security she knows she is special . Thank God for that. That poor kid has suffered enough. What she is getting is complete acceptance and security in the relationship and that is also important.

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

Asking without watching the episode so I might be very wrong with my questions 😁

Wese was it actually a love confession?

Nikki you said he only used the word 'like'?

So like toh he does only na or why would he take her to dates, Vday celebration ya phir fashion show wali PDA and being touchy touchy all the time?

And if he doesn't even like her and doing all these gestures will MH's words be not true that he was acting fake all this while? And she toh doesn't know only the kiss was drunken one?

Obviously wanted to see more of MA's thoughts but may be his behaviour was the hint by the writers? Obviously it was insufficient provided. Kabse unke pov janne k liye wait kar rahi thi😭. But wo janna tha.

I have not watched the episode na , only then I will be able to know, but can't stop myself from asking out of curiosity. 😁😁

Originally posted by: Nephy

I warned you mehr ki what you are expecting is difficult to get here..look its clear cut thing its just acceptance as a viewer people just don't want to accept.

For both meets it was a arrange marriage,very common practice in India,hmm their arrange marriage included boys heartbreak and mus from his side towards girl not to forget she was not someone whom he wanted as a life partner ever like ever.

So they get married with a thought in their mind ki yup they are in this mess for lifetime and they had to make it work as many more arranged couples.

But mus and heartbreak of boy was the first thing for the girl to deal with,as she was somewhere tiny bit respomsible for this mess,so she took it as responsibility and repentance on her part and side by side guy came to know her trueself and girl start to get that support from him which as a partner every girl wants.

So finally they came at a point where in this arranged journey they came to a conclusion of being friends becoz its the easiest way to be together without burden but back of their mind they both knows ki they are not just friends but a couple.

Meanwhile both these things combined and boy's care for her and her family made girl to fall in love with him becoz she never had planned all these things,she never thought her ideal type,she never ever thought she will ever get married,uparse she had not any baggage and not to forget she was made to believe like unwanted so she is someone's bestie,his support system and how much wanted as a friend by him,ho gya use pyaar,she get that jiffy,she got butterflies and fall in love forgetting ki the boy whom she got married has experirnced a very painful heartbreak.

And that heartbreak not only broke his heart but his dream of having a perfect life partner as well as his trust over love,meetA was never aversed to idea of intimacy,for him intimacy is not an emotion,its necessity as husband wife he holds himself back becoz he doesn't want to make meetH uncomfortable,he maybe matured and came to know that life is not fairytale and you didn't gets what you want everytime,sometimes you had to make adjustments,certain compromises to be happy,to keep everyone around you happy.

Sometimes its not necessary that what is good for you should also be liked by your heart,sometimes you accept it becoz its best for you.

MeetA understand this unlike his old self who thought ki marriage should not be compromise,with time he accepted that compromise in not bad always,as he once told meetH while discussing sunaina-ravi ki sometimes you should accept things which are good than wanting hopeless love.

From that time only,for me relationship from his side was always like this,he accepted his arranged marriage with willingness to adjust and carry on with it till lifetime.

MeetH was never the girl he chose she is the girl who was forced on him but with time he accepted it.

Simple.

I am not shocked with the episode I kind a knew it on same lines after all the bts and my understanding of them respectinely with their relationship.

But y the hell did they promote it a luvstry then🤪… Yahi bataya hai na from day 1….i hve signed to see a fictional. luvstry…not ghar ghar ki kahaani…🤣 … See i hve no problm in intimacy….. its jumping of emotions from place to place…. Kabhi kuch aur to kabhi kuch aur….. i dont see a smooth transition … i dunno wat to say…. I will watch this episode again with a cool mind

Originally posted by: fanktlk

I agree partly with all of you. What is missing is MeetA introspection. Like i said the entire fandom is playing does he does he not and the CVs choose to leave us all lingering.

But overall I actually liked the episode a lot. He was running away from her. He said it was a mistake and he didn't take a minute to let the kiss itself sink in. For him it was the logical step in the relationship. Whether he is in love or not ... And after the kiss he didn't show any effects and we want him to show that.. think about it get affected and here is where most of us are feeling disconnected I think.

His worry was what would Meet think.

Today's episode reconfirmed 2 things for me. MeetA might be in love or not, he may not be able to live without MeetH for a single day but he won't say I love you so easily... He will call it all he wants but not love and definitely not so soon.

Now as an audience we thought this track was his love realization track but they are taking it a step further back. It is more of a dating track. There will be cute moments but not like buddies but more like the GF BF which later results in love.

They were too much in the buddy zone i always wondered how they will show attraction between the leads. I saw 3 instances today. One he was ready to kiss her again. Albeit teasing her but he was. 2nd he leaned in to lick the icecream off only when she stopped him, he pulled out his handkerchief. 3rd when he said bahut sunder hai.. he kept looking at Meety.

Our first question is he even attracted to her as the girl he thought he likes or is attracted to or the ideal girl according to him is no way close to MeetH. This will show us that.

He said today you are my wife , I like you a lot. We all knew that. Kuch naya bolo and that is where it felt incomplete . We wanted answers and we didn't really get any. I personally feel this is a build up towards the love track. Angst or love confession ke liye writers may choose when they separate, she goes for her training. They will need to show something there as well na.

Take the hint MeetA said today. Shuru se shuru kartein hain and that is where the CVs are going. Back to step one. Initial attraction. He said mein tumhe pataaunga aur tumhare nakhre bhi uthaunga. MeetH will get her romantic love story. Just we wanted it to start from here and the CVs have decided to rewind it to the beginning.

There is a lot more scope.. she might ask him to maintain a distance, tease him I am your girlfriend... And he will have to woo her. What I all in all liked is Meety knows where she stands in the relationship while MeetA is figuring it out. She has that security she knows she is special . Thank God for that. That poor kid has suffered enough. What she is getting is complete acceptance and security in the relationship and that is also important.

Wese I toh have not seen the episode , may be it was the build up as you said. I hope so that it is.

I forget your user spelling so could not tag. Please check my previous post once😁

Originally posted by: mehraan

i do understand Nephy abt arrange marraiges… as i also had it😆… n yes 80% consummate on the day of their marraige… Intimacy is integral part n parcel… its a necessity… Agreed!!

But y the hell did they promote it a luvstry then🤪… Yahi bataya hai na from day 1….i hve signed to see a fictional. luvstry…not ghar ghar ki kahaani…🤣 … See i hve no problm in intimacy….. its jumping of emotions from place to place…. Kabhi kuch aur to kabhi kuch aur….. i dont see a smooth transition … i dunno wat to say…. I will watch this episode again with a cool mind

Watch it mehr and read my comments as well it wasn't that bad.. definitely one of the better episodes.

Originally posted by: Physics_girl

Asking without watching the episode so I might be very wrong with my questions 😁

Wese was it actually a love confession?

Nikki you said he only used the word 'like'?

So like toh he does only na or why would he take her to dates, Vday celebration ya phir fashion show wali PDA and being touchy touchy all the time?

And if he doesn't even like her and doing all these gestures will MH's words be not true that he was acting fake all this while? And she toh doesn't know only the kiss was drunken one?

Obviously wanted to see more of MA's thoughts but may be his behaviour was the hint by the writers? Obviously it was insufficient provided. Kabse unke pov janne k liye wait kar rahi thi😭. But wo janna tha.

I have not watched the episode na , only then I will be able to know, but can't stop myself from asking out of curiosity. 😁😁