Originally posted by: shalu79
Sorry yaar, mein todha tujhe abhi pakka ne wali hu
I get what u said that why expect Imlie to understand Aryan when he himself is not understanding nor accepting what he feels for her. 💯 right.
However, with Imlie n her all relationship has always been of deeds/actions. Adi for first 50 episodes was unbearably horrible to her still she saw his concern for her thru small gestures like handing her cream, n all. Also, when Senior Tripathis were cruel to her that time to she justified their actions as anger.
Phir, Aryan ke saath itna sautela behaviour kyu... when Aryan though saying that she is just employee for him has gone beyond n helped her, saved her numerous times.. Not expecting her fall for him so soon n all but sometimes her behaviour looks so uncalled for.. downright rude... No doubt Aru was not expecting anything from her.. But slowly he has started expecting things from her.. be it as simple as expecting her to order/share food on that dhabba or getting upset when she asked him to go back to R house.
Is she really that oblivious...
Ur thoughts????
Tagging few
See what I've understood of Imlie...
She needs to wrap concern from other person in a blanket, unconditional love/concern she does not know...
She is used to rude behaviour because of her illegitimate parentage, she learnt to fight it early on. If someone is being rude to her without reason she can take it with a stride she's done that all her life
From Tripathi's/adi also she expected rudeness and then whatever scraps of love/concern she received it overwhelmed her so she keeps trying to justify it under the contrived Ghar ki Beti rishta in denial of the fact that their love is transactional / conditional at best.
With Rathores she's blindsided by their unconditional kindness and love. While she can still handle Arpita and narmada. She's made a relationship with them "didi" and "kakima" is her blanket there...
And Aryan refuses everything so she has to justify his kindness in her mind, so she deludes herself that he has some motive behind behaviour.
Aur wo usko jaanti hi kitna hai? It's been what 1-4 months (not sure their stupid timeline)
And she has seen his concern only for few people. And she's seen him hit people around more than that 😆
Another thing I want to point out was, with aryan... It's not a constant fight for her to be the best.
Today she accepted her failure and that she's not ready for a big responsibility.
Contrast with her role at T nivas being responsible for saving life of your husband (now ex)
Also, she had malini to compete with all the time for attention of family/adi
and remember her trauma about not being able to save him in the hut.... hum imlie hai, hum BS ko bachane me fail nahi hote hai!
By God. This relationship amazes me every day... It makes her life more normal everyday I'm so gald.