Originally posted by: nikkiGarg
ohh that way.. no man… for me there is absolutely no reasoning which can support Meet Hooda accepting the challenge unless and until she wanted to buy time to expose Manushi… and that’s why I am rooting for Meet Ahlawat blasting her .. not because he believes the letter or something but for accepting the challenge and humiliating herself and their relationship.. not to mention treating him like a trophy or some toy about which two sisters are doing cat fight… no amount of apology can compensate for that…
I also want him to be angry. But I also want him to let her explain why. She has so many reasons to get insecure. She did not want to accept, and it is not right too, but we all do mistakes or act unlike our character in many cases. And she is very young too.
At that time, even he was not believing her. There was no one to support her, everything was against her. She could have solved it if she thought little rationally but many times our brain stop working at such times. She was told so many times that she is not worthy enough for him, she saw him pinning for her sister even when he was married to her.
And this one time she became selfish, not wanting to let of one relation where only she is not the giver and also receives . She trusted him at toughest times and again and again her patience is tested.
Or we can say, she is in a hanging position in the relationship where she doesn't know if he would ever accept her. In this situation too at first she opposed the idea and later she also told that she would walk out if he doesn't want her. Sometimes in hanging situations we want a situation to show us the result - ya toh iss par ya uss par.
That doesn't mean she is correct. It is just that at sensitive times like human beings do take wrong decisions. And she took a wrong decision too under pressure. She was always weak in case of relationship.
I also stand by the fact that this is not the correct way to act, absolutely not. But even best people do mistakes and take wrong decisions. Many times it is very difficult to act in the right way when we are there in their shoes.
Obviously we would have reacted differently as different people, but we can't expect the same kind of actions from others too.
How much maturedly can we expect her to act when you she her being brought up in the household she is? A mother who can't stand for her, a daadi who always insulted her or a sister who always made her feel inferior. Would she not want to hold on to that one person who is currently the best she have except her parents out of which the one closer to her is no longer alive?
How much rationally can she act when she faced so big accusations, just escaped a kidnapping, shocked by her sister's true face, shocked by Daadi's behaviour and also at the same time the fear to lose her husband?
Edited by Physics_girl - 3 years ago