Member Topic: Your Thoughts On Marriage 💒 - Page 10

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

I say fun.

I dated my husband for 9 years before tying the knot. North-South divide and nerd-jock divide was there, so had to go against the entire family and convince them in order to get married. In the middle of this there were 4 years of long distance during our specialization, so we really came to appreciate each other.

It's daunting, I guess, if you don't find the right person. Too many people around me are getting divorced or are just plain unhappy, so I get why people are so reluctant.

But I had super romantic and happy parents and found the guy I would marry when we were so young, so I have a very optimistic view about marriage.

At times it's frustrating, but there's something to be said about ending your day knowing someone really cares for you.

So true..also at a young age we r open to suggestions, lifestyle changes, r adaptable n all..we lack maturity but learn from mistakes..

All this becomes difficult with age when we r comfortable in a particular lifestyle n used to staying independently..become sort of stubborn in our outlook.

There r some beautiful quotes on the bold in my mother tongue..but translating them is a task

So why don't you tell us the most valuable insight you got out of this?

Originally posted by: M.Wheeler

panchali was married to 5 losers . So it is not far fetched that she would consider marriage an overrated concept

Well, after the war, she did call all 5 lunatics who should be locked away and treated for insanity 😆. I think we can safely say you're right about her feelings on marriage.

@ff

Can I borrow your aadhashaadi.com idea for my writing?🙏

Thanks to some personal issues, I ended up with major block, but what you said triggered some ideas.

Originally posted by: Terenaina

I saw an interview where srk said he reads everyone’s message on social media think it was Twitter but don’t reply to all since it’s too many but he said he knows most of the usernames by now so he probably is thinking why is everyday her birthday lol

That’s the AIB one. I think he knows super fans and haters who spam him daily 😂

For men, it’s different.

For women, it can get very difficult.. especially if it’s a traditional / conservative home. Because women are expected to mould themselves according to the needs of the man. Not knowing the person at all is a bit dangerous too. Small habits are fine if adjustable , but what if he is a aggressive etc towards gf/spouse? There is no way of knowing.

Originally posted by: HearMeRoar

@ff

Can I borrow your aadhashaadi.com idea for my writing?🙏

Thanks to some personal issues, I ended up with major block, but what you said triggered some ideas.

Of course you can. When you get famous then please remember me. 😆

Originally posted by: HearMeRoar

@ff

Can I borrow your aadhashaadi.com idea for my writing?🙏

Thanks to some personal issues, I ended up with major block, but what you said triggered some ideas.

consider my interest piqued

I just realised I know you guys from Mahabharat forum 😆

You were in CAS forum too. How many times do you keep changing your UN 😆

@Guenhywar - what made you change from Shyam to this 😆