Them and their emotions - Page 5

Kv is told as depended on Ak by sirat when kids were introduced. So he is always a small bro only. When he has seen Abhis love for Ak and akshus love for him , Arohi turned down time he could have asked instead of going for Arohi. He could have brought it to elders. But like you told none will replace parents. If Naira was there kids were never this way. With sirat, they all went ahead for Arohi and even she was giving them equal love she can't control Arohi. They all need proper anchor in life. For Ak it is Abhi as shield next.

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

Ya even I can understand. Its really difficult for such people to open up cause they feel anyway we have to suffer, why to share with others and bother them as anyway the scenario is not going to change. Its due to the certain traumas or situations in life that make a person become like that as a way of self preservation. When you open up, when you share your problems, you are making yourself vulnerable in front of the other person and which you may not be ready with for the fear of getting hurt or maybe lack of support.. so its always a china wall around yourself with a smile and portray yourself as the strongest candidate. Actually you or such candidates are strong mentally and can survive most of the crisis in life but when you share your weakness and vulnerabilities, it builds a strong bond with the other person.. and parents play a huge role in that especially at the tender age. And no naani or daadi or anybody else can fill up that vacuum.

I understand this because I was sort of separated from my parents for certain years at a very tender age. Others were loving and took care of me till I was together with my parents but they could never be your parents or replace them as such and you learn to bottle up your emotions and thoughts. And its certainly not easy to change that overnight. It stays with you life long and your whole life is spent in pleasing others. You think 10times before speaking whether you will hurt somebody with your words even if they have brutally hurt you. You just get conditioned like that. Thankfully I have a younger bro who is just my opposite and immediately gives back tit for tat.

I can understand Ak to a certain extent in that matter because she got conditioned in that manner. So even though this whole mess is due to her, my heart goes to her, poor soul.. But our abhi will teach her, push her, force her to take baby steps and evolve her to be stronger version for herself rather than for others.

We feel why didnt Ak share atleast to Kv, but whats the use? Did he behave like a matured elder bro. He was the one who completely messed it up. First instance before the tilak fiasco, ak shared her confusions to him. As an elder brother, he should have called Abhi and clarified in that instant which he failed. Second any lay man during the trip could make out the attraction or vibes going between Abhira. Even Kv had doubt but what did he do when Abhi told the truth in the tilak, he instead of calmly asking Ak went and bombarded Abhi and messed it up. He knows Ak loves Abhi with the court case, but did he disclose that fact to elders and goenkas. No right, which paved way for Arohi. I dont think in her position I would have trusted such a brother to share my problems or issues. As sibling we understand each others strength and weakness and act accordingly to the other person, and in their best interest, so that our sibling is always protected even if we get thrashed. My younger bro would have handled so much better!!

Anyway no point in cribbing, Ak nor kv gona change within one day not even one year. It will take hell lot of time for them to change that too if they have somebody like Abhi in their life. And meantime our brains will get roasted and hopefully learn patience!!!

Your every words are so true. This is why I sit and think about Ak character a lot. If people think she is unreal itv character this girl is very much real in real life too.

First tilak time story or not the way they behaved with her. Then itself their was no hope even as a spectator I didn't have one how the girl will have any. The trashing they did with abhi when he rejected aarohi why didn't they do it for akshu. That question had always irked me.

To these people aarohi bleeds it's buckets of blood. If akshu bleeds it's tomato sauce. If they tell akshu to forget abhi and move on or get her married to someone else I won't be surprised.

Just like how you said about your younger brother I have a younger sister who holds me back. I have always felt telling no is the biggest crime I would commit and whenever I go and do that my sister always condemns me. I am now changing but yaar that habit creeps in without even me knowing. Even my 7 year old cousin knows it and uses it.

This is why I have felt none of the characters in this show unreal. Their is a akshu, aarohi, maybe a abhi( I haven't seen any guy love someone like that so hey ), I can even show a kairav too.

Originally posted by: hari15

Your every words are so true. This is why I sit and think about Ak character a lot. If people think she is unreal itv character this girl is very much real in real life too.

First tilak time story or not the way they behaved with her. Then itself their was no hope even as a spectator I didn't have one how the girl will have any. The trashing they did with abhi when he rejected aarohi why didn't they do it for akshu. That question had always irked me.

To these people aarohi bleeds it's buckets of blood. If akshu bleeds it's tomato sauce. If they tell akshu to forget abhi and move on or get her married to someone else I won't be surprised.

Just like how you said about your younger brother I have a younger sister who holds me back. I have always felt telling no is the biggest crime I would commit and whenever I go and do that my sister always condemns me. I am now changing but yaar that habit creeps in without even me knowing. Even my 7 year old cousin knows it and uses it.

This is why I have felt none of the characters in this show unreal. Their is a akshu, aarohi, maybe a abhi( I haven't seen any guy love someone like that so hey ), I can even show a kairav too.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

I don't comment Ak or Abhi anytime. Akshu is like my baby I want to hug her and give her that love when I am seeing her. And I always think her character is what it it because I saw from start and understand why she is this way. I don't think she can jump like her mom in a night. She needs to grow up slowly. Arohi uses her weakness and attacks her. Abhi is straight and does all tactics to pull her out of the shell.

I scolded abhi only when he proposed aarohi because that's a black dot in their life. Ak even when everyone scolded her today I just wanted to go all out and defend but none of them would understand it. It's only more and more argument useless battle. So I just kept it here. I don't mind her this way and abhi being her shield. She will grow each and every day. By the way it's a serial for next five years not a 3 hr movie where hero becomes rich after intermission.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Kv is told as depended on Ak by sirat when kids were introduced. So he is always a small bro only. When he has seen Abhis love for Ak and akshus love for him , Arohi turned down time he could have asked instead of going for Arohi. He could have brought it to elders. But like you told none will replace parents. If Naira was there kids were never this way. With sirat, they all went ahead for Arohi and even she was giving them equal love she can't control Arohi. They all need proper anchor in life. For Ak it is Abhi as shield next.

True. Abhi will be that anchor and shield which was very much required for her. Till now she was nahi ghar ka na ghat ka.. like whenever her siblings felt threw her out and whenever they needed her, held her back.. she was just exploited from head to toe. Now Abhi will be that anchor, hold her tightly to him, give her that security which she always lacked and protect her from each danger. In future too, arohi would be able to create conflicts between abhira only by manipulating ak and since she has the habit of bottling up the issues and emotions, it will give rise to disputes. Manipulating Abhi is not easy as now, he will be able to read her through and through. Hope Neil always helps them out and Abhi turns out more smarter and controls his anger issues.

Originally posted by: Nyxigniflex

Ok, it's like calm after the storm. To poetic...

Is Abhimanyu's stunt surprising or out of character ?

Well, not really.

Am I disappointed?

Yes, wanted akshu to do it without being forced on her own free will.

They can still redeem this, if Abhimanyu leaves after the confession, like he had to be on the verge of death to make her confess.

And that hideous dress is assaulting my eyes.

Ok have more thoughts but interval's over

@ Bold: Practice ki hai bande ne....itni jumps maari hain...har mauke per...to ab ped se .....

Spiderman, Batman sab isi drame mein mil raha hai...and mein inn sab se bhag kar aayi hun yahan...😂

@ Blue: yesssss Force kyun kiya....May be execution would be better...lets c.....Pata nahi isse pehle kya kya hoga...so may be there may be a reason for this....as 2-3 days hain...pic aaj mil gayeee....to 2-3 din karenge kya?? Kuch to aur hoga before this.....

Lets wait and watch...

Arohi and goenkas and birlas...sab akshu ko bura bhala kahenge....Hopefully sab sahi ho....😂

Originally posted by: surbharati

I agree with your post..........Sirat might have loved Kairav & Akshara as her own but as soon as Aarohi came.........she just put responsibility on their shoulders (like for Mother love she gave to both of them..........no one in Goenka clan ever realized how their base was forming (any way no hope from these Goenka clan) ) with take care of your sister, she is your responsibility, adjust with her what not....

Yes we had seen that Sirat loved both like their own........but not sure if she would have been alive there would have been any major difference.............Till Kartik was alive may be yes but later I doubt............if there was such situation and she was alive..........I am sure still Akshara would have done the same due to her upbring of responsibiltity

I haven't seen sirat at all but the little bits , she was an orphan who was very bitter towards her mother (or was she her step mother ) bec she remarried or don't know what the story was .

Now , sirat giving the responsibility of arohi to akshara was really stupid as akshu was also a child at that time. Responsibility dena does not mean give in to all her demands and tolerate her tantrums . That's not pampering that's spoiling the kids rotten . That's what akshu was doing till date . I understand where she comes from. She lacks an anchor n arohi has always bullied her. But I hope akshu shows some growth and realizes that her approach to tackle arohi was terribly wrong.

I understand her urge to sacrifice everything , put arohi above everyone but don't spoil a third person's life for it. If abhimanyu didn't love akshu , if he was a normal guy whom arohi was using to become #1 , even then it was wrong ..if she didn't love abhimanyu, even then it's wrong to start a relationship based on lies , like arohi was doing. The guy should be forewarned .

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

True. Abhi will be that anchor and shield which was very much required for her. Till now she was nahi ghar ka na ghat ka.. like whenever her siblings felt threw her out and whenever they needed her, held her back.. she was just exploited from head to toe. Now Abhi will be that anchor, hold her tightly to him, give her that security which she always lacked and protect her from each danger. In future too, arohi would be able to create conflicts between abhira only by manipulating ak and since she has the habit of bottling up the issues and emotions, it will give rise to disputes. Manipulating Abhi is not easy as now, he will be able to read her through and through. Hope Neil always helps them out and Abhi turns out more smarter and controls his anger issues.

Originally posted by: hari15

I scolded abhi only when he proposed aarohi because that's a black dot in their life. Ak even when everyone scolded her today I just wanted to go all out and defend but none of them would understand it. It's only more and more argument useless battle. So I just kept it here. I don't mind her this way and abhi being her shield. She will grow each and every day. By the way it's a serial for next five years not a 3 hr movie where hero becomes rich after intermission.

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

True. Abhi will be that anchor and shield which was very much required for her. Till now she was nahi ghar ka na ghat ka.. like whenever her siblings felt threw her out and whenever they needed her, held her back.. she was just exploited from head to toe. Now Abhi will be that anchor, hold her tightly to him, give her that security which she always lacked and protect her from each danger. In future too, arohi would be able to create conflicts between abhira only by manipulating ak and since she has the habit of bottling up the issues and emotions, it will give rise to disputes. Manipulating Abhi is not easy as now, he will be able to read her through and through. Hope Neil always helps them out and Abhi turns out more smarter and controls his anger issues.

Neil he is another story to tell. The guy is very much a practical guy and smart one. The day he told to aarohi what's so good about you apart from being a doctor. He had all my heart.

We should at times explore other characters for more entertainment.

One thing I felt how makers showed abhira as a match at the same time neil and aarohi. He knew where to trigger the girl to get her vamp side when he spoke how akshu would never snatch abhi but something else might happen. He even triggers her playful side and at times I feel she isn't a vamp when she is with him she did behave like a girl with him isn't of Miss no. 1. The makers showed it at the beginning. Like how abhira can understand each other. Neil understands aarohi, well he had understood everyone and he gets all her emotions out whenever needed. Be it vamp side, cool side or anger side. I know everyone will feel bad for him but if it's anyone who can hold aarohi back is him. He is a practical guy with right and wrong sense he won't blindly support her wrongs even if he falls in love with her.

When called akshu today I was actually rolling out.

Then for the second time I hear this guy tell after what Bhai and mom had done for him. So eagerly waiting for that story now.