My Dear AT Friends,
I did not want to come to AT today as work was hell and January feels like a giant Monday. So I came home, saw the episode, and then opened IF thinking I would say Hello to you all lovelies and call it a day. Then I hit that little bell icon on the top right, and there you all were, and I read every single post you ladies tagged me in today, and I knew it was not going to end with a hello today.
Today, I do not want to talk about the episode or how brilliant HC was. Today, I want to talk about us. I want to tell you that I see you, feel you, and hear you. I understand your frustrations. I was there two weeks ago, ask Noor. I will be there in the future that I am confident of! Why will it happen? Because I am human and remember, so are you. Beautiful, flawed, feeling humans.
The forum has become a fest of hate and negativity. Something that was the reason for happiness is becoming dreadful. But remember my friends, this is also the place where we met. We laugh with eachother and deal with eachother’s mood swings as well. This show gave us that. Remember that you do not have to meet anyone’s idea of appropriate behavior.
People who accuse you of being immature, inhuman and questioning your womanhood are just passing on their insecurities to you. They will find a fault in everything and anything. Confront a manipulator about what they did wrong and watch them make it about you. They will find an issue with everything and anything. For these people even sun is too bright, rain is too wet and snow is too cold.
Come here, Adore Abhira and Ignore the hate.
No Response is a Response. And its a powerful one.- Unknown.
Love,
Blue Blue
Amnu, I read this bcoz just when I logged in, you have tagged me to this and and I read it again, and again. And the conversation started. I wanted to reply to this when we dont have notifications rush and to talk so much. So I put this on pause.
Yesterday was too bad for a day especially after what happened in the morning but then we moved on and I laughed. We even finished the AT, restarted AbhiRa AT, talked, laughed and hold on to each other.
Because we knew, things gets better. It was not only me who was called names... Everyone of us who tries to present the point have been called that. And each and everyone of us cheered the other.
When I made an IF account, I knew I am not going to a silent member but to get friends and be the bada baccha of the whole group, we shared a bond I did not knew I will.
Everyone of has been frustrated and everyone had each other back or someone.
We even had difference of opinions but we present it and there was always a middle ground which we all end up roasting.
The forum is filled with too much bashing and personal attacks and none of us even go through main page but still we come back because just like AbhiRa have their love to sail, we have each other to hold on.
And Amnu, thank you for this ❤️ and even yesterday, no matter how bad the day went, I laughed like crazy, a grin always graced me and I am sure everyone else too when we talked.
Amnu, you know, if this was twitter, Abhi Abhi bolo would be trending 🤣
So, to everyone who had my back no matter what, thank you ❤️ and yep, like Amnu said, sun will always be too hot and so will be our Abhimanyu Birla ❤️ aur aaj tak koi kahan hi sooraj se aankhein Mila paya hai jo usse poore tarike se samjh paayega.
To my favourite girls here... Jaadu ki jhappi to you 🤗
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
Seher Hone Ko Hai
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Anupamaa
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