Originally posted by: RitikaS99
Because he went to his vedu jaap.imo
We still don't know if it has started or not. While I hate it myself I don't understand why are we being so harsh on him for that. Its not like he is drooling over her or confessing his live for her. He just called her what he used to call her for years. Probably just felt very happy that she put so much effort for him. If we justify Priya's behaviour citing her past why not the same treatment for Ram? He too is a product of his past.
Brinda is like a sister to him whereas vedika is his ex. Who is not even subtle about this. She throws their history on everyone's face. And even now priya's sister knows about ram and vedika's past. It is disrespectful to be this close to your ex when you were claiming few days back to her husband that you don't want to come between them. This totally a reason why any husband/wife can feel insecure no matter however progressive they are. Exes is a dangerous territory.
Its just a dance. And he doesn't even seem involved in it. He did not insult Priya in anyway. He doesn't know Vedika keeps throwing their history in front of everyone or is trying to separate Priya and him. Moreover he has never been gooey eyed toward her after marriage. Always has kept his distance.
Most Probably is doing the dance out of courtesy/some plan. I will wait till the episode airs. Agar kharab hua toh then bhadas nikalu gi Ram pe🤣
Yes you are right she stays in her shell but recently she started to open up and she herself came forward to ask for help which is a big step for her.
They just make every decision without talking to each other
However much we justify Priya, we do it because we have seen her perspective. We have seen her pain and struggle. We get to hear her monologues. So we sympathise with her. But Ram doesn't have this insight. For him he should take her behaviour and talk at face value. Only recently she started to care for him. Before marriage and even after marriage he usually got treated with taunts at every step. She never let him help her in anyway. He was usually scared to speak to her thinking she might get offended with something. She hasn't been extremely kind to him either. As said by her mother herself that its not easy to love Priya. In real life too it is difficult to understand such people. Its not easy to be nice to people who are rude to us for no reason. They both are not at a stage where they can understand and trust each other completely even without words
He agreed to the annulment after that itself. It was after the interview that he decided they should give another chance to this marriage because priya again came to his aid publically. The only reason I'm this furious is because she has been always supporting him publically but if he is going to dance with his ex in a grand party with all the people they know and when their past is not a secret to anyone except priya, It is disrespectful to any wife. Vedika and nandini wants priya to be a laughing stock 👏👏and he played right into their hands.
One can't really blame him for that. Both were equally responsible for what happened during the annullment drama. They assumed the worst about each other and never bothered to communicate. He never really wanted the annullment. She assumed it seeing the papers in his office. When she married off Shivina, he didn't intend to annull the marriage. He never told her to go to her mom's place. Infact he was more pissed off that she went away without talking anything. She told she will sign it directly assuming he wanted it. Yes he didn't directly say he wanted her to stay but neither did Priya. She was quite negative about the marriage that time.
When has she always come to his aid publicly? During interview fiasco both needed each other
He doesn't know what Nandu and Vedu are trying to do. Heck, even Priya doesn't know that. Yes, as an audience its very difficult to see but we can't put the whole blame on Ram for this.
We a know that, but the point is a sorry can't always be good enough.
I'm not saying that he is wrong and she is right but right now he is in a little wrong. He has a problem if neeraj brings priya something which is cooked by her sister or they even acknowledge each other when Priya doesn't even pay attention to neeraj but he doesn't apply the rules to himself. That's hippocracy.
Yeah sorry can't be enough. But if someone does a mistake unknowingly, should he not be forgived? Its not like he will ne trying to insult her deliberately.
I agree that it is hypocrisy on his part👍🏼😆 But then again he never told he doesn't have a problem with her ex🤣 he has always maintained he hates Neeraj. Whereas Priya always mentioned she is okay with him loving someone else and she will always nibhao it🤣 ab bhugto🤣
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And let me clarify. I have nothing against Priya. I love her a lot for her no nonsense attitude❤️ but sometimes I feel Ram gets to be at the receiving end unnecessarily😆
I love them both. They both are flawed but still lovable characters❤️
And nothing against any members or you😆 Please don't take it that way. I am just giving my opinion on the characters. We all can have different opinions on the same scenes/characters and still have a good discussion
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