#3 letter to Dr. Abhimanyu Birla on pg 5 - Page 5

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9

Noor, after writing such a heart warming letter, why are you saying it's crappy 😭

So beautifully written about the part on showing one's emotions. As you rightly pointed out, hasna, rona, gussa karna, and apne feelings ko sacche mann se accept karna, is important to stay true to ourselves and others around.

That's what Abhimanyu is doing. He knows what's happening to him and he expresses his emotions accordingly. As you rightly said, he's self aware. That's a quality of a person who's honest. If he feels good or bad, he accepts the feeling and emotion. Then deals with the situation as best as he can understand.

Logon ka kya hai... logon ka kaam hai kehte rehna. Really loved this line: "you are not obligated to fit in any one category" 👍🏼❤️

And as for the name-calling that you've seen in reality, here's a tight hug 🤗😳 I know it can get difficult to get over those harsh words, but sending all the strength and love for you ❤️🤗

Sharton mein kabhi mat bandho, and aaauon ki keemat nahi ho sakti!! These lines really stood out. Amazing analysis 👏👌

It's not you know as good as the first two letters isiliye... Ye jaldi jaldi mein likha hai... Udhar main aaram se lines likh rhi thi na isiliye

Exactly... I was pretty clueless when all the name calling started. I was like okay baaki sab chalta hai but cry baby hit harder than I imagined it would be.

And yes, he is aware of what he is feelings and he gives importance to his feelings which is absolutely necessary. Atleast wo apni feelings ki kadra karna jaanta hai. There are so much of accepting your feelings and letting it out in a mental health but when it comes to accepting it, each and everyone starts calling name.

And aisa nahi hai na ki wo sirf rota hai aur kuch karta nhi hai. But if he wants to cry then what's the issue?

Thank you ❤️ I guess, everything that happened made me a little more strong. Added another brick of resilience in me and helped me in becoming what I am today. And thank you for the hug 🤗

I was pretty mad when mamma used to say that. I know sabke saamne nhi rona chahiye kyunki sab kadra nhi karte but just because someone does not value, we forget to feel? We have our own hands to wipe our tears.. and that's it is all about. What we do!

Those are my favourite too ❤️

Originally posted by: Khayali_pulao

True!!!! 👏

I too agree with you and I have gone through the same feelings and still going through. You are wrong whatever you do. I have faced I don’t know what all comments (even racist remarks not outside but in our own country!!! Sorry for being too personal here) until now. But I made I never cried in front of anyone because they are not worth seeing my tears is what I felt. I used shut myself in a room or sometimes in the bathroom cry it off and come out. We have always been taught to be aware of the society what they think about us or how they treat us. But after a point I realised, no matter whatever you do they are going to be behind you. My dad always taught me just remember, logon ka kaam hi hai doosron ke baare mein bolna. If you are taking them seriously you are never going to move on in life.

I loved this letter❤️. It’s so relatable, baaki sab ka pata nahi par mujhse bahut juda hai.

A big hug to you my love ❤️🤗

I totally get how that feels. Even though, I had to deal with a total different set of taunts, I know how heartbreaking, exhausting and helpless one could feel.

Exactly... Ye mat karo, ro nhi, rone se kuch nhi hoga, aisa kyu kar rhe ho, ye kya pehna hai and etc etc... Life mein kabhi khul kar jiya hi nahi and they says they fear death.

We all our vulnerable in some way or the other but what we have to embrace is that vulnerability. There is no shame in crying. No shame in letting all the anger out. It's a part of us as it should be.

Your dad said correctly... Kisi aur ki lagayi bandishon mein bandhna galat hai aur apne hi darr ke wajah se aasman mein na udna hamari galti hai. Kyu ki logo ka toh kaam hi wahi hai.

This letter is may not be written in the best words but I guess, it will relate the best ❤️

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9

A big hug to you my love ❤️🤗

I totally get how that feels. Even though, I had to deal with a total different set of taunts, I know how heartbreaking, exhausting and helpless one could feel.

Exactly... Ye mat karo, ro nhi, rone se kuch nhi hoga, aisa kyu kar rhe ho, ye kya pehna hai and etc etc... Life mein kabhi khul kar jiya hi nahi and they says they fear death.

We all our vulnerable in some way or the other but what we have to embrace is that vulnerability. There is no shame in crying. No shame in letting all the anger out. It's a part of us as it should be.

Your dad said correctly... Kisi aur ki lagayi bandishon mein bandhna galat hai aur apne hi darr ke wajah se aasman mein na udna hamari galti hai. Kyu ki logo ka toh kaam hi wahi hai.

This letter is may not be written in the best words but I guess, it will relate the best ❤️

@bold when you pay heed to words you just stamp your confidence with your own legs. This I have learnt through my experience.

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9

Dr. Abhimanyu Birla, I won't say much to you because I have said so much already and now it feels like I don't have words to say anything because you make me attach to you in a way that I feel every heartbreak of yours

I know you were called many names but one of them was cry baby and that shit hurted me like no other.

Log ajeeb hote hai pata hai? Wo pehle kehte hai ki rona, hasna, gussa karna ya apne emotions Jatana sahi hai aur ek insaan ko karna chahiye par jab hum ye karte hai toh humein ek dibbe mein band kar dete hai. Kabhi rondhu, kabhi toxic, kabhi galat toh kabhi sahi ka naam hamare naam ke aage jod dete hai.

But I want to tell you this, if you want to cry, then cry. If you want to shout at the top of your lungs and talk about your hurt then shout! If you want don't want to talk to a person then don't!

You are not obligated to fit any one category.

Aapko jab jab chot pahuch Rahi hai tab tab cheekhe, jab jab dard ho rha hai toh roye.

Pata hai main bhi bohot roti thi aur sab mujhe rhondu rhondhu keh kar chidhate they. Ab main nahi roti hu toh sab emotionless kehte hai ya dukh, dard ya kasht mein hu kehte hai (it's not necessary. Par log pagal hote hai) aur mummy kehti thi ki jitna tum logo saamne rouge utna tumhare aasuon ki keemat ghat jayegi par kya aasuon ki bhi keemat hoti hai?

Ye toh galat hai na?

Toh aap aur main same same huye... Aapko bhi log tarah tarah ke naam dete rehte they aur mujhe bhi dete hai.

Par jaisa aapne aaj kaha, sharton mein bandhne ki aadat nahi hai aur na hi honi chahiye.

Thank you for telling people ki agar rona aa rha hai toh rone mein koi burayi nahi hai

~someone who understands what is it to be called names

Noor

P.S. I know it's a crappy letter but I just want to say this out here

Noor Fabulous Post🤗

Abhimanyu all I want to add to this is you are not obligated to meet anyone's expectations of proper behavior. You are entitled to your emotions, feelings, and pain! They will not spare any action thus or that! Today when you are doing what they want you to do they are still not happy. So, do what you want and make yourself happy because it is impossible to make people happy as these people say that "Chaand mein Bhi dhaag hai aur Suraj Bahaut garam hai" and yet they use their light shamelessly!

Love

Blue Blue

Originally posted by: Eternized_Blues

Noor Fabulous Post🤗

Abhimanyu all I want to add to this is you are not obligated to meet anyone's expectations of proper behavior. You are entitled to your emotions, feelings, and pain! They will not spare any action thus or that! Today when you are doing what they want you to do they are still not happy. So, do what you want and make yourself happy because it is impossible to make people happy as these people say that "Chaand mein Bhi dhaag hai aur Suraj Bahaut garam hai" and yet they use their light shamelessly!

Love

Blue Blue

Amnu 🤗🤗

Thank you so much ❤️

And bang on Blue. They will never be happy. No matter how much or whatever he does. One need to be patient to see what he is doing and why...

And he is a flawed human and not everyone will love him and it's okay. I get irritated by those posts but now I guess, we should just stick by writing stories or our short posts now and share positivity. Bas

Bold: ye lo dil le lo

Aur aaj, Blue Blue aasman mein hogi khushi se? 😳

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9

Amnu 🤗🤗

Thank you so much ❤️

And bang on Blue. They will never be happy. No matter how much or whatever he does. One need to be patient to see what he is doing and why...

And he is a flawed human and not everyone will love him and it's okay. I get irritated by those posts but now I guess, we should just stick by writing stories or our short posts now and share positivity. Bas

Bold: ye lo dil le lo

Aur aaj, Blue Blue aasman mein hogi khushi se? 😳

Mujhe dil de degi toh Jawline ke liye kya bachegi!

Khushi ka toh thinkana hi nahi hai!

Originally posted by: Eternized_Blues

Mujhe dil de degi toh Jawline ke liye kya bachegi!

Khushi ka toh thinkana hi nahi hai!

Main Dr Aashiq ki tarah dil ka model dungi usko 🤣

Originally posted by: jani_faizal

Reserved

Jani, if I ever come first in Hall of fame of YRKKH, have a chocolate from my side. The credit is almost all yours ❤️

Sammy🤗

how's you, hubby and Kiddo?

I am on a mission to unres all my posts!

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9

Dr. Abhimanyu Birla, I won't say much to you because I have said so much already and now it feels like I don't have words to say anything because you make me attach to you in a way that I feel every heartbreak of yours

I know you were called many names but one of them was cry baby and that shit hurted me like no other.

Log ajeeb hote hai pata hai? Wo pehle kehte hai ki rona, hasna, gussa karna ya apne emotions Jatana sahi hai aur ek insaan ko karna chahiye par jab hum ye karte hai toh humein ek dibbe mein band kar dete hai. Kabhi rondhu, kabhi toxic, kabhi galat toh kabhi sahi ka naam hamare naam ke aage jod dete hai.

But I want to tell you this, if you want to cry, then cry. If you want to shout at the top of your lungs and talk about your hurt then shout! If you want don't want to talk to a person then don't!

You are not obligated to fit any one category.

Aapko jab jab chot pahuch Rahi hai tab tab cheekhe, jab jab dard ho rha hai toh roye.

Pata hai main bhi bohot roti thi aur sab mujhe rhondu rhondhu keh kar chidhate they. Ab main nahi roti hu toh sab emotionless kehte hai ya dukh, dard ya kasht mein hu kehte hai (it's not necessary. Par log pagal hote hai) aur mummy kehti thi ki jitna tum logo saamne rouge utna tumhare aasuon ki keemat ghat jayegi par kya aasuon ki bhi keemat hoti hai?

Ye toh galat hai na?

Toh aap aur main same same huye... Aapko bhi log tarah tarah ke naam dete rehte they aur mujhe bhi dete hai.

Par jaisa aapne aaj kaha, sharton mein bandhne ki aadat nahi hai aur na hi honi chahiye.

Thank you for telling people ki agar rona aa rha hai toh rone mein koi burayi nahi hai

~someone who understands what is it to be called names

Noor

P.S. I know it's a crappy letter but I just want to say this out here

Kuch to log kahenge,

logon ka kaam he kehena..

Forget all the names that u r bing called Abhimanyu.. No one can understand ur state of mind, ur heatbreak.. Ur heart knows Akshara loves u, but hen y does she not accept it.. U r trying to make her accept her feelings.. Jaadu ki jhappi meri taraf se🤗🤗🤗🤗