When Things Fall Apart

What a heart wrenching episode and Mukku and Anuj nailed it.

When nothing seems to augur well for you, the utopia you created comes crashing before your eyes it not only breaks your hear but your faith, your confidence and your hope. The broken Anuj Kapadia is this type. It now makes sense why he reacted the way he did when Anupama stood up for him in public, he reacts in disbelief on his return home. When he has a close brush with death he realises that it isn't worth to dwell only in the past. The present the now is important as well.

When he finds in Anupama a kindred soul, someone who understands and genuinely Empatheses with him he longs she walks with him forever.

It is in this way that Anupama has begun to shape his thought process.

Malavika has lost the support system called family quite young. Being the bubbly person she is she has borne her pain stoically. She fell for a man who emerged a gold digger Anuj married her off to a monster who battered her black and blue. Anuj in his protective/ responsible mode has sought to solve all her problems and create an ideal world for her. Malavika would have loved to fall/ fail and rise to discover herself but the excessive care of Anuj denied her that . She thus chose to run away from her problems. It is not having less or nothing that is her issue but having too much bestowed on her that is.

The business venture with Vanraj is not to try her hand at money making but to see what folks do for the sake of money. She is candid in expressing her views. She feels a soul connect with Anupama which is why she never says anything bad to her.

The needs of each varies. The means to attain it too varies, some resort to deviant manipulation read Vanraj.

Some choose an easy way out, read Paritosh.

The trio has to pick the shattered pieces and create a new work of art like the Japanese. The adhesive that binds them is love and care. It is a journey where the bridges need to be burnt and a new beginning needs to be made.

Here's to new beginning s for the Kapadias,

Today's episode was heartbreaking

It could be heart wrenching agar makers beech mein jabardasti shah ko na dalte but khair unki marji

Mukku's pain was unbearable for me

Anuj has to come out from his guilt

These brother sister duo need to talk and soothe each other

They both are in so much pain dono ne bahut kuch saha h now they deserve every happiness in their life

They were finding solace and wo solace unhe anu ki godh mein mili ❤️

These trio need healing and they can actually heal each other and their first priority should be mukku right now

And yes they have to go for professional help urgently

I turn to do other stuff when Tamashah House is focussed. 😉

Originally posted by: moonwearer

I turn to do other stuff when Tamashah House is focussed. 😉

but problem is pura scene ka flow kharab ho jata h

actually wo waise bhi ho gaya precap mein vanraj ko dekhkar🤡

So well said Vidz, mainly about the Trio!!! I have nothing to add. Am yet to watch so might come back later and add on.

I love that you brought up the practice and art of Kintsugi 😍

I believe it’s the perfect metaphor for how we deal with pain, disembodiment, and fissures in our life. The emotions and energy perpetuated by trauma can be fashioned to make us stronger, unique and resilient. These fractures in our soul can heal and meld to make us insurmountable and sturdy. If anything these scars just make us more beautiful and further a part of the fabric of life. Most important thing is to piece ourselves together, accept ourselves, form a stabilized self and take pride in the peace of self-awareness.

lovely post as always, thank you for tagging me ☺️

Originally posted by: moksha89

I love that you brought up the practice and art of Kintsugi 😍

I believe it’s the perfect metaphor for how we deal with pain, disembodiment, and fissures in our life. The emotions and energy perpetuated by trauma can be fashioned to make us stronger, unique and resilient. These fractures in our soul can heal and meld to make us insurmountable and sturdy. If anything these scars just make us more beautiful and further a part of the fabric of life. Most important thing is to piece ourselves together, accept ourselves, form a stabilized self and take pride in the peace of self-awareness.

lovely post as always, thank you for tagging me ☺️

So beautifully put. Self deprecation is Anujs hamartia. If the trio adopt Kinstugi and emerge vibrant selves how refreshing it would be.

Looks like we share common interests and beliefs.

Wonderful. Well analysed. The show now deals with two important angle. One Rich and famous need not necessarily be happy always. They have their own problems . Perverted men is pervasive everywhare. While such DV s at lower income group comes out to the street quickly , the same in wealthy section is wrapped for a long time. It may be because of social status / power / position ..... etc., , where the woman is suppressed.

I hope these two aspects are handled sensibly and sensitively .... give solutions and not just show the trauma. If Anu's problems are shown as mostly mental and emotional trauma .... she is financially not independant and not much educated .... Mukku's problems also include physical trauma, and not able to handle inspite of financial independance and good education. The show has covered almost the entire spetrum of this important problem in the society. These two are good contrast to put forth Women empowerment in the right perspective by showing how such people comes out of their trauma. What alternative they have?

More than 25 years back , there was a real incident. Don't want to divulge names. A rich and famous man married a beautiful and well educated girl. It turned out the man was an alcoholic and died at a very early age. The wife using the money she got , started an institution to cure addicted persons and did a yeomen service to the society.

I wish that DKP doesn't deal with this issue as a ITV masala . If they bring Vanraj in this serious matter and make him use this opportunity for his personal gains ..... that would be the greatest injustice to this topic itself. Many women who silently suffered and still suffering would be carefully watching this track. I wish DKP empathise with such women and deal the matter in matured way.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

What a heart wrenching episode and Mukku and Anuj nailed it.

When nothing seems to augur well for you, the utopia you created comes crashing before your eyes it not only breaks your hear but your faith, your confidence and your hope. The broken Anuj Kapadia is this type. It now makes sense why he reacted the way he did when Anupama stood up for him in public, he reacts in disbelief on his return home. When he has a close brush with death he realises that it isn't worth to dwell only in the past. The present the now is important as well.

When he finds in Anupama a kindred soul, someone who understands and genuinely Empatheses with him he longs she walks with him forever.

It is in this way that Anupama has begun to shape his thought process.

Malavika has lost the support system called family quite young. Being the bubbly person she is she has borne her pain stoically. She fell for a man who emerged a gold digger Anuj married her off to a monster who battered her black and blue. Anuj in his protective/ responsible mode has sought to solve all her problems and create an ideal world for her. Malavika would have loved to fall/ fail and rise to discover herself but the excessive care of Anuj denied her that . She thus chose to run away from her problems. It is not having less or nothing that is her issue but having too much bestowed on her that is.

The business venture with Vanraj is not to try her hand at money making but to see what folks do for the sake of money. She is candid in expressing her views. She feels a soul connect with Anupama which is why she never says anything bad to her.

The needs of each varies. The means to attain it too varies, some resort to deviant manipulation read Vanraj.

Some choose an easy way out, read Paritosh.

The trio has to pick the shattered pieces and create a new work of art like the Japanese. The adhesive that binds them is love and care. It is a journey where the bridges need to be burnt and a new beginning needs to be made.

Here's to new beginning s for the Kapadias,

Everyone acted amazingly in the episode...

But I wanted Malvika to depressed because of something else apart from domestic violence

Anyways a nice analysis

I was recalling last episode, Vanya betrayal on her 25th wedding anniversary had shaken Anu to the core. She had broken in front of Devika at that time and never spoken that incident in front of anyone from her own mouth. But now to heal Mukku and for sake of Anuj also she had spoken that incident in front of Mukku, Anuj . Anuj was also shocked and he literally felt her pain.So all three will heal eachother not just Anu but Mukku and Anuj also. The trio needs each other trully .