When Things Fall Apart - Page 2

Very well said. Involving Vanraj especially after Anupama s narration of her pain would be adding insult to injury. Vanraj bullied Anupama then and bullies Kavya now. Men like him get away easily. They need to end that.

Anupama bore it stoically for the sake of her children and in laws. Her wings were clipped and she was not independent.

I know a very successful doctor being abused by her radiologist husband. It was a love marriage and her doctor parents warned her not to divorce. Her daughter was traumatized seeing the mother beaten. Children are doctors now. But she is still enduring it. Very sad state of affairs.

Anupmaa makers ne ek aur unique kaam kiya , ye sab domestic violence pe lecture ek man (Anuj) ke muh se bulwaaye naa ki ek woman ke 👏.

As Anuj Kapadia is every household name now and very famous makers ne Anuj ko bhi Anupama ke tarah lectures dene ke liye use karna lage, waise its very good on their part ki Anuj ke muh se Domestic Violence jaise sensitive topic pe lecture dena is all worth👏

Jab Sexual harassment ka case utha ja Kinjal ke case mein to Anupama ka full lecture tha .

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Everyone acted amazingly in the episode...

But I wanted Malvika to depressed because of something else apart from domestic violence

Anyways a nice analysis

Anuj said Malvika childhood se bahut sensitive thi agar Anuj usse bachpan mein gusse se bhi ghurta tha to wo sahem jaati thi so ye domestic violence wala part was soul shattering for her to uska depressed hona and medicines lena make sense.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

I turn to do other stuff when Tamashah House is focussed. 😉

the worst thing that they do is bring in such clones in between serious scenes...😈

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Anupama bore it stoically for the sake of her children and in laws. Her wings were clipped and she was not independent.

I know a very successful doctor being abused by her radiologist husband. It was a love marriage and her doctor parents warned her not to divorce. Her daughter was traumatized seeing the mother beaten. Children are doctors now. But she is still enduring it. Very sad state of affairs.

This is the sad sad part of our society Vidz!! When will people realize that it is NOT great in enduring such things. When will we change man??? This is so pathetic and I feel so ashamed :( :(

Originally posted by: magicalM

Anuj said Malvika childhood se bahut sensitive thi agar Anuj usse bachpan mein gusse se bhi ghurta tha to wo sahem jaati thi so ye domestic violence wala part was soul shattering for her to uska depressed hona and medicines lena make sense.

he said agar majak mein ghoor bhi leta tha to ye sehem jati thi

Originally posted by: RainFire125

the worst thing that they do is bring in such clones in between serious scenes...😈

Originally posted by: moonwearer

What a heart wrenching episode and Mukku and Anuj nailed it.

When nothing seems to augur well for you, the utopia you created comes crashing before your eyes it not only breaks your hear but your faith, your confidence and your hope. The broken Anuj Kapadia is this type. It now makes sense why he reacted the way he did when Anupama stood up for him in public, he reacts in disbelief on his return home. When he has a close brush with death he realises that it isn't worth to dwell only in the past. The present the now is important as well.

When he finds in Anupama a kindred soul, someone who understands and genuinely Empatheses with him he longs she walks with him forever.

It is in this way that Anupama has begun to shape his thought process.

Malavika has lost the support system called family quite young. Being the bubbly person she is she has borne her pain stoically. She fell for a man who emerged a gold digger Anuj married her off to a monster who battered her black and blue. Anuj in his protective/ responsible mode has sought to solve all her problems and create an ideal world for her. Malavika would have loved to fall/ fail and rise to discover herself but the excessive care of Anuj denied her that . She thus chose to run away from her problems. It is not having less or nothing that is her issue but having too much bestowed on her that is.

The business venture with Vanraj is not to try her hand at money making but to see what folks do for the sake of money. She is candid in expressing her views. She feels a soul connect with Anupama which is why she never says anything bad to her.

The needs of each varies. The means to attain it too varies, some resort to deviant manipulation read Vanraj.

Some choose an easy way out, read Paritosh.

The trio has to pick the shattered pieces and create a new work of art like the Japanese. The adhesive that binds them is love and care. It is a journey where the bridges need to be burnt and a new beginning needs to be made.

Here's to new beginning s for the Kapadias,

wonderfully written moon, bold my favourite, here’s to new beginnings for the Kapadias