Why it happen with anuj?

I loved that they show a very sensitive social issue but can't understand that why it happen with Anuj only. Makers only get Anuj to feel guilty whatever happen in past- guilty for parents accident, adopted child and guilty to choose wrong life partner for his sister. Why?

Anuj who loves most two ladies in his life - Anu and Mukku and both have painful past.... why? Anuj feel guilt for everything that he even does not do in any intention but vanraj cheat anupama and he can't feel guilty but always feel superior to anupama and even justify his actions or cheat as his parents choose her for him. What is this?

If they show such track then why they choose anuj sister? Why they can't choose vanraj sister? Atleast baa and vanraj also goes with this pain and understand the feeling of girl when she hurt from her husband.. why?

Every parents or brother choose best partner for their daughter but sometimes even they do mistake to choose. Same happen with anupama, her mother choose wrong partner for her in the form of vanraaj. Why anuj feel guilty? He does not do anything wrong with her sister intentionally but it happen due to destiny.

har insaan ki personality alag hoti h nature alag hota h

anuj us kism ka insaan h jaha wo kisi ko dard dene ka zariya bhi ban jaye to wo guilt mein doob jata h which is actually very wrong aise logo ko bhi bahut pyar ki aur samjhane ki need hoti h

like anuj ke parents ki death usme uska koi haath nahi tha uske parents ki death us din destiny min likhi thi wo bss zariya bana but uska guilt use aaj tak h

akshay maater he was not at all wrong koi bhi bhai yehi karega but uska guilt bhi usne dil mein rakh liya khud ko galat maankar

now this matter yaha bhi parents ya koi bhi apne according accha hi ladka dhoondte h but wo aage kaisa niklega it is destiny but arrange marriage mein aksar parents khud ko dosh dene lagte h in fact love marriage mein bhi kuch log khud ko dosh dete h

to ye bhi wahi dikhaya unhone jo reality mein hota h

wo adopted tha issiliye already vulnerable tha usne khud hi khud ko unka ek tarah se karzdaar bana liya aur unke sukh dukh ki sari responsibility khud par le li

and this increased his guilt manyfolds

but most important thing is itna dard sametkar bhi ye log khush rehne ki koshish karte h itna haste rehte h wo sabse important cheej h kisi ko takleef nahi dete❤️

Kismat karab hota hai kisi kisi ka

kabhi kushi nahi milti sirf gutthe rehte hain

Fate plays impt role in life

Second your character in life is impt

Anuj is too good and helping so all troubles he attracts

Acche insaan hon ko yeh duniya wale jeenee nahi dethe

That too rich good people are always mocked and targeted

Its like some oficer who never takes bribe or follows rules sab uske dushman hote hain

Same way for anuj bhi yahi hai

Zindagi baar dusro ke liye jo karthe hain woh kabhi kush nahi ho pathe humesha ansu aur gham unke naseeb main hota hai

Anuj should become selfish to be hapy say no to malvika no to anupama kick out vanraj toshu

Tabhi he can be happy in life

If you keep all negative and bad people around you can never be happy in life

anuj has done that by saying yes to everything anupama and mukku says or does

put your foot down and say no this i will not accept

if you like getting humiliated always all ppl will only humiliate you

take a stand in life

Do not keep always pleasing lover wife sister brother parents friends

Kabhi khud bhi kush raho

I know this has been precisely my point too.

Despite being worst Shah's have a blessed life and Kapadia have gone through hell..

Agree it was destiny but only good people suffer. Makers for sure are biased in some weird ways towards Vanraj. And very cunning in way when they put all these guilts on Anuj, oh are showing him as human, how he is broken and beautiful. I don't have faith on them anymore, after all it's business for them and in end it's all about money.