Thst was hilarious 🤣🤣
Sorry ketty i will have to go against u for ur topic on rupi rocks
Pardon me, just my pov
My sincere opinion from what i see so far
Rupi destroyed both daughter's life
I find him a weak father not able to make wise decisions despite being a loving father.
In tejo's case
First
He still allowed her to marry jass despite knowing that she was not ready and she had her own dreams. He always give in to tejo's and families' request without being firm. No means no. Tejo will only concentrate on her dreams.
He did talk to her before she said yes to jass proposal. Come on , u are the father, u know her in and out. He know what she wants. So just be firm whether she likes it or family likes it. Tejo will not get married to sacrifice her dreams to fulfill family's canada dreams. If only he had been firm at that time, tejo wont be marrying jass and facing betrayal in the first place
Second
Was it necessary to force her to marry fateh knowing he doesn't love her but her sister. Was it wise to push tejo into the flames. U know ur SIL doesn't love her so what u expect . Magic to happen and he will fall for tejo. U know how obsessed he was for jasmin. He even left his family for her. Still u want ur older daughter to marry him. To save from humiliation. People will talk today forget tmrow. Ur daughter comes first or society ??People will talk. Just ignore.
Third
When EMA exposure happened
Pack her things and bring her home not allowing her to return and get her divorced. Don't give in to kushveer's demands.
In jasmin's case
First
Should have told her fateh didn't get the canada job before jasfa marriage. Kushveer requested him to break the news and he promised to do so. Kushveer didn't allow fateh to tell her stating rupi will handle. But rupi didn't have the courage to tell her thinking she will break the marriage. Tejo's marriage also broke. So will face another humiliation. Even tejo told on marriage day , jasmin need to know the truth but he warned her not to tell . Rupi knew canada was everything for jasmin so why didn't tell her. He knew his own daughter.
The marriage became blunder tejo made to sacrifice
Destroyed both daughter's lives
Second
U know jasmin is in virks under same roof with tejo why at that time didn't take any action. Why Keep going to virks but ignoring her knowing she is destroying sister's marriage. Bring back home either one of them. Don't allow to live under same roof. Either would have brought tejo home or Jasmin home. Why allow both to live there
And virks
Shameless hippocrates.
Selfish for son, allow mistress to live under same roof
At that time where was ur family reputation??
U forgot??
In fateh's case
He was not ready to marry tejo still pushed into the fire.
To save that once upon a time family humiliation during fatejo forced marriage, they ended up destroying three lives in a go and faced even more humiliation
Fateh jasmin tejo are not to be blamed fully.
The families are the actual culprits especially the parents. Both mothers are weak and useless as well. Till today sati never give jasmin even one slap . Mamiji gave at least one. Families' foolishness destroyed the children
Sandhus dream for canada destroyed Tejo
Pushing fatejo marriage destroyed Jasmin
Coming in between both sisters destroyed fateh
Started off from jasfa marriage to jasfa prolonged EMA , i blame the parents more than the kids. Fatejo marriage was arrange marriage. The parents could have handled wisely.
Why does kushveer need to keep tejo under the same roof with jasfa??
Why rupi allowed that to happen??
Why gurpreet selfish for son couldn't see tejo's pain
Why sati never raise her hand on Jasmin and pull her out of virks
When parents are selfish and useless , how to blame the kids fully.
Regarding family humiliation, society has changed. Punjab has become modern. The villages have developed. People's thinking is changing. They will talk a while then forget. Don't spoil ur kids lives just to save urself from humiliation.
Remove the tag
What people think??
Because when ur kids' lives are ruined , no one will come for support. Matlab ka zamana.
Edited by Aniash - 3 years ago