Jija saali romance - Page 10

Originally posted by: apacs

then he should have told BADE PAPA look i want an open relationship with both of your daughters because my mom and I can't agree on which one to anoint as BAHU

not SAATH NIBHAANA KA VADA AND ALL 🤣

and if commitment is meaningless why is he even doing this nakhra baazi for his mom's health he should just get a GIRLFRIEND and do SHAADI DRESS UP

all the characters are in the GUTTER but the ones who keep shouting they have TAMEEZ are the most irritating

Last I know , abhimanyu has spelled it out that it's an arranged marriage. There will he rishta only and kairav figured out , "no love" , and btw they said yes bec their heera Dr was adamant. Nai accept karte loveless shadi ka rishta ?

What is stopping akshara from spilling out the truth ? She is also "main kabhi jhoot nai bolti", n goenkas r like "humari betiyan heera hai, , hum jhoot nai bolte" . Oh akshu can't say the truth Bec she cares for arohi, it's a Mahan tyag 🤪 if akshu told abhimanyu the truth about fire Incident , and "I love you" wala feeling , he wouldn't have to think of any other girl. All this happened bec arohi wanted dr abhimanyu

Yeah all characters r in GUTTER but for me those who r dishonest n started this mess r the most irritating .

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

Akshara might not be living with fear. But she is uncomfortable. I felt the disgust and discomfort when she said, "mat karo aise, please" when he scared away the intern.

I am not saying I agree with whatever Aarohi is doing either. She is bad, not doubt. But she clearly says to him that she will make sure things will change and she will find a place in his heart and will earn the hak to call him Abhi. He should have told her then and there itself that he won't be giving her the chance to do that because he will be busy ogling and touching her sister. Should have told Manish, that this is a marriage for the sake of it, and he won't be fulfilling any of the marital relations or the duties of a husband. But he said apart for pyaar, sab kuch honge iss shaadi mein.

I would say he wasn't clear to Aarohi in their business transaction about the stipulations. 😆

What is this involuntary intoxication? If Abhi and Aarohi got drunk involuntarily and do this shit, while he was in a committed relationship with Akshara, will that be okay? Or anyone who is in a committed relationship doing this, is okay?

My problem is the moral high ground Abhi and Akshara seems to be taking. Oh, we are too good, the people we love come first. If the people you love comes first, then have better self control. Or just stop giving bhaashan to everyone else. Their moral righteousness is what is annoying to the core.

Akshara is only uncomfortable because of her sister otherwise this is no way similar to what actual victims of harassment or stalking feel. Yes the show is reckless for portraying Abhi in this manner because it does give out a bad message but again, I don't think it's the same thing simply based on the intention.

I do agree that Abhi should have been more clear and I have mentioned he is stupid to agree to this but in my book, arohi is the cause of this entire mess. I dont think I will ever be able to understand how someone can expect a normal relationship where the other party has stated they can love no one else. Its barbaric and I have no sympthay for Arohi at all. She is not in the dark to any of this which is why she is always afraid of losing him because she knows she is in the wrong.

In short, I cannot attack Abhira to defend Arohi because i do not feel they are wrong when I look at the whole picture.

Involuntary intoxication is a perfectly acceptable defence yaar. It happens to many people. I am not comparing just giving an example: if an individual is drugged and then assaulted, we cannot hold the individual liable for causing his or her own assault. Thay would be terribly unfair. Similarly, Abhira have not decided to get drunk themselves, it was a mistake. I personally dont think it's fair to blame someone if it was out of their control because I always look at the intention.

I also hate the hypocrisy most ITV leads have but Abhi has never claimed to be perfect. Hes one of the few male leads that has been shown to be problematic and not perfect. Hes openly admitted to his flaws.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

Akshara is only uncomfortable because of her sister otherwise this is no way similar to what actual victims of harassment or stalking feel. Yes the show is reckless for portraying Abhi in this manner because it does give out a bad message but again, I don't think it's the same thing simply based on the intention.

I do agree that Abhi should have been more clear and I have mentioned he is stupid to agree to this but in my book, arohi is the cause of this entire mess. I dont think I will ever be able to understand how someone can expect a normal relationship where the other party has stated they can love no one else. Its barbaric and I have no sympthay for Arohi at all. She is not in the dark to any of this which is why she is always afraid of losing him because she knows she is in the wrong.

In short, I cannot attack Abhira to defend Arohi because i do not feel they are wrong when I look at the whole picture.

Involuntary intoxication is a perfectly acceptable defence yaar. It happens to many people. I am not comparing just giving an example: if an individual is drugged and then assaulted, we cannot hold the individual liable for causing his or her own assault. Thay would be terribly unfair. Similarly, Abhira have not decided to get drunk themselves, it was a mistake. I personally dont think it's fair to blame someone if it was out of their control because I always look at the intention.

I also hate the hypocrisy most ITV leads have but Abhi has never claimed to be perfect. Hes one of the few male leads that has been shown to be problematic and not perfect. Hes openly admitted to his flaws.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

Akshara is only uncomfortable because of her sister otherwise this is no way similar to what actual victims of harassment or stalking feel. Yes the show is reckless for portraying Abhi in this manner because it does give out a bad message but again, I don't think it's the same thing simply based on the intention.

I do agree that Abhi should have been more clear and I have mentioned he is stupid to agree to this but in my book, arohi is the cause of this entire mess. I dont think I will ever be able to understand how someone can expect a normal relationship where the other party has stated they can love no one else. Its barbaric and I have no sympthay for Arohi at all. She is not in the dark to any of this which is why she is always afraid of losing him because she knows she is in the wrong.

In short, I cannot attack Abhira to defend Arohi because i do not feel they are wrong when I look at the whole picture.

Involuntary intoxication is a perfectly acceptable defence yaar. It happens to many people. I am not comparing just giving an example: if an individual is drugged and then assaulted, we cannot hold the individual liable for causing his or her own assault. Thay would be terribly unfair. Similarly, Abhira have not decided to get drunk themselves, it was a mistake. I personally dont think it's fair to blame someone if it was out of their control because I always look at the intention.

I also hate the hypocrisy most ITV leads have but Abhi has never claimed to be perfect. Hes one of the few male leads that has been shown to be problematic and not perfect. Hes openly admitted to his flaws.

I don't know whether it should matter why she is uncomfortable. She is uncomfortable with what he is doing. Period. At least that's how I think.

I am not discounting Aarohi's actions. But Abhi is not a small child who can be led by other people. He is a grown up man, a smart doctor at that making terrible choices. It's not like Aarohi put a gun to his head and is making him marry her. Agree his mom is sick. Any sensible person would try to have a conversation with their mom, probably promise her he will get married but need sometime to deal with the heart break and move on. (Yes, I understand Abhi marrying Aarohi is a plot device, but they did that at the cost of Abhimanyu's character according to me)

I don't even know how we can compare someone who's drugged and assaulted to what AbhiRa are doing. The assaulted person is a victim (passive in the assault with no way to fight back) and there is use of force. No way the victim is at fault. But there's no force involved here. They are both actors (as in committing the action) in this situation.

I do think Abhi is a hypocrite. Because he keeps saying he has so much tameez and the next moment is literally destroying public property and shouting at his dad. He keeps saying he respects women but right now he is not. He says he is full.of seedhi Baath and no bakwaas but he is so full.of bakwaas at the moment.

I totally understand we are both looking at this from very different point of view and we might not be able to convince each other. Let's just agree to disagree. 😊

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Arohi is responsible for this mess as she wants Abhi. She wants to make her place but at the credits of Ak as foundation which is a lie so the building will fall anytime. She has not gone close to him nor made a friendly vibe with him as he is not allowing her till now. Abhis mistake is nid to his mother for Arohi. For me if he is doing it for his mom's happiness whoever tha girl is koi bhi he will do the same not only for Arohi sister of Ak. Because his heart is still struck there and he can't make any move. In anger he made decision but he is very clear he can never be close to her nor give her love. Delusional mata should come out of her illusions and see the truth. She knows both are hurt and in pain but she doesn't want to go back. Only way of solving this trash is Arohi backing away or Abhi rejecting Arohi or Ak confessing her love. Don't know which way they show in uniting Abhira..as per promo it will be Abhi knowing Arohi truth and holding Ak hand. Need to wait for it orelse a three lives are spoiled..

Just want to point out that Arohi, despite her fantasies in her head, actually kept her distance from Abhimanyu as he requested, acted professionally with him, and was not the one who asked him to marry her. She is an opportunist so she jumped at the chance when it came to her but she did not engineer any of this. This whole situation falls squarely on three people - Abhi for not doing the seedhi baat he’s always priding himself on and actually talking to Akshu before taking a proposal to the family and for not understanding the complicated family dynamics between the sisters despite the evidence in front on him, Akshu for her continued bad decision to refuse Abhi as though a loveless marriage will do anything to heal her sister, and raita mata Manjari for unfailingly jumping to the wrong conclusion and then influencing her equally dim witted son, who like her uses his emotions over his brain to make impulsive decisions. The whole situation is artificial and unrealistic but it’s a soap so of course it will be dragged out to some hyper dramatic resolution 😆

Originally posted by: Prettywitty

Just want to point out that Arohi, despite her fantasies in her head, actually kept her distance from Abhimanyu as he requested, acted professionally with him, and was not the one who asked him to marry her. She is an opportunist so she jumped at the chance when it came to her but she did not engineer any of this. This whole situation falls squarely on three people - Abhi for not doing the seedhi baat he’s always priding himself on and actually talking to Akshu before taking a proposal to the family and for not understanding the complicated family dynamics between the sisters despite the evidence in front on him, Akshu for her continued bad decision to refuse Abhi as though a loveless marriage will do anything to heal her sister, and raita mata Manjari for unfailingly jumping to the wrong conclusion and then influencing her equally dim witted son, who like her uses his emotions over his brain to make impulsive decisions. The whole situation is artificial and unrealistic but it’s a soap so of course it will be dragged out to some hyper dramatic resolution 😆

Let's not forget that Aarohi manipulated and forced Akshara to give up on Abhi and during the fire incident she lied to both of them cause she knew akshara's vunerable and might confess. That girl forced her way into this relationship, if things go wrong she have no one but herself to blame. And don't even get me started on how badly she treats Akshara.

My question...if engagement break.... something will change...ak will never accept it...... it's aarohi backing out from the marriage can change the table

Originally posted by: Nyxigniflex

Let's not forget that Aarohi manipulated and forced Akshara to give up on Abhi and during the fire incident she lied to both of them cause she knew akshara's vunerable and might confess. That girl forced her way into this relationship, if things go wrong she have no one but herself to blame. And don't even get me started on how badly she treats Akshara.

Arohi has not forced anyone to do anything - she has indulged in emotional blackmail and tantrums and she has taken advantage of other people’s poor decision making and stupidity. If someone puts a gun to your head, threatens your life/livelihood/family’s life - to me that’s force. Arohi has no real leverage to bind anyone to a decision. Akshara is the one who does - she set this entire situation in motion by saying no to Abhi and thinking this will allow her sister a happy life (yeah because marriage to a man who doesn’t look at you and chases your sister is THE recipe for a happy life 🤣). If people are stupid enough to give in to emotional blackmail and react to provocation by making idiotic impulsive decisions out of their own free will, I have for one have no sympathy for them (only popcorn to eat while watching them squirm 😆)

Originally posted by: Prachi1967

My question...if engagement break.... something will change...ak will never accept it...... it's aarohi backing out from the marriage can change the table

That’s the question - will Akshara (and families) agree to one more bride swap if Arohi backs out. Answer is yes but of course there will be a lot of drama first 🤣