Jija saali romance - Page 2

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

I agree Aarohi is not justified for her zid of wanting Abhi. How is Abhi justified though? He promised Aarohi a loveless marriage, but still a marriage. He gave the dialogue of saath nibhana and all when he came to ask her hand for marriage. But then he's canoodling with the sister of his fiancée.

Same with Akshara, she is sacrificing her love for her sister, but she is all over her sister's fiance. She says once Aarohi is happily married, their relationship will get better. But how? Abhi is never gonna love Aarohi which Akshara knows. Aarohi will only blame Akshara for her failed marriage. For the samjadhaar ladki, this doesn't make sense?

Also, right now Abhi and Akshara both made a promise to Aarohi, and it feels like they are cheating behind Aarohi's back.

And if they want to do that, go ahead do it, but stop giving moral lectures and pretending like they are "morally right". Abhi shouldn't say TAMEEZ TAMEEZ anymore and Akshu should just stop her Aaru Jaap, when she is all over Aaru's fiance.

But Aarohi did force and manipulated akshu into giving up on Abhi, she lied to Abhi that Akshu left and told akshu, Abhi left. Please it was deliberate from her part she didn't wanted them to meet.

As for the hug it wasn't of romantic nature. Yes he's emotionally cheating, if you could call that cheating because he made it clear that it would always be the case and she agreed.

Originally posted by: Waidehi

apacs give him best name idhar udhar aadmi I will never forgive this dumbo man lol to his love talks 🤣

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Originally posted by: India_TV

gif of idhar udhar is wonderful....😂

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Originally posted by: sidnilove

Yes, it's not a normal marriage and Abhi has made it clear that there'll be no love from his side. But that doesn't mean that he'll disrespect Aarohi and his relationship with her. It also doesn't mean that he'll cheat on her. Fact of the matter is that he is in an official relationship with Aarohi. If he's so particular about spelling it out to her, he also should have mentioned that he'll romance her sister, hug her, dance with her etc.
So, Aarohi is justified because Akshu decided to give up Abhi and Abhi decided to marry Aarohi. They are 2 adults who took certain decisions and they need to stand by them.

We know what Aarohi has done but Abhi doesn't. So, that makes him wrong in my book.

Plus..we should not forget that akshu will never do this in her senses..they were drunk and their real feelings poured out . I see no problem with that. Infact I am glad together they r making this "dirty picture " 🤣 Maza aa gaya.

Arohi has been given everything but the “ulta” feet by the writers to drive it home to us she’s a no.1 chudail to Akshara. But that doesn’t make Abhi’s actions ok. He told her family that this was an arranged marriage where companionship and support is more important than love. Remember as of now he DOESNT know Arohi lied - all he knows is Arohi likes him, she persuaded her sister to defend his honor against Ruby’s accusations, she saved him from the fire and she prayed for his beloved Maa health. Then look at how he treats Arohi (a person he thinks saved his life) - won’t look at her or talk to her, refuses to give her a lift and is acting towards her sister as if she’s the one he’s engaged to (can’t get over the “normal” episode where he grabs her physically and LIES to Arohi they were just talking). And the possessiveness is just gross - he can marry Akshara’s sister, she can’t even talk to another dude? WTF? He is definitely not behaving with Tameez to anyone, leave alone acting companionably or politely to the woman he asked to marry.

I’ve brought this up before but he only stipulated he can’t give Arohi any love. A marriage is more than a wedding. Even people in arranged marriages share a room, a bed, finances, emotional support and fidelity to each other right? He didn’t say he won’t give her the basic rights of marriage. So that’s the unspoken expectation here from everyone in both families including Arohi. Does Abhimanyu really think his mother is going to be happy with just a wedding and not demand pota/poti?

Abhimanyu is a surgeon - he must have some brains and maturity and hopefully integrity too. Arohi did not actively manipulate him yet - he jumped to all the wrong conclusions himself while she kept strategically silent and then he made the dumb impulsive decision to marry the sister of the girl he loves instead of literally any other woman on earth. And he’s just making things worse instead of behaving sensibly and talking to his dimwit mother to explain the situation to her (remember all his former cozy confiding chats with her - what happened there?). God help his patients if this is how he thinks under pressure in the OT!
He keeps saying he cant help canoodling with Akshara, after all it’s not like he’s breaking the Hippocratic oath. He is a total hypocrite and his actions are disgusting. The fact he and Akshara are in love does not justify them - in the eyes of several of us anyway, I’m done debating with those who feel differently at this point.

Every man committing infidelity uses two excuses- he’s in love and/or his current partner has some deficiencies. Abhimanyu is acting like this without any idea of Arohi’s dark side - thats a stain on HIS moral character, regardless of the stains on hers. The exact same track played out with Kartik and Naira where they justified an EMA by demonizing Vedika into a crazy person. So its a standard play by DKP - this is just awful regressive unimaginative writing by them. But showing illicit romance between prospective jija/Saali is B-movie level nauseating to watch for me 🤢

Originally posted by: sidnilove

Yeah wish these hugs did not happen when their official status is of Saali-jija

Aarohi is going to talk a lot of shit and it will be justified too so yeah i'm in 2 minds about the hugs.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

How is arohi justified? I'm sorry but I fail to see the reasoning behind this.

From what I can ses, this is no normal marriage. Abhi has made oral clauses to their marriage. He will never love her and he has made it clear that this marriage is namesake only. The most she can get out of it is a title and his wealth. It is Arohi who has decided to ignore this and foolishly believe that she can create love in the future as if love grows on trees and she will pluck it once time is right.

It is like Arohi is a thief who wants to rob Abhi's house and the only fault of Abhi is that he has willingly laid out a red carpet for Arohi with a welcome sign to burgle. In my book, Arohi is more wrong here for stealing compared to Abhi who is only being reckless. The malice is with Arohi only.

Originally posted by: sidnilove

Yes, it's not a normal marriage and Abhi has made it clear that there'll be no love from his side. But that doesn't mean that he'll disrespect Aarohi and his relationship with her. It also doesn't mean that he'll cheat on her. Fact of the matter is that he is in an official relationship with Aarohi. If he's so particular about spelling it out to her, he also should have mentioned that he'll romance her sister, hug her, dance with her etc.
So, Aarohi is justified because Akshu decided to give up Abhi and Abhi decided to marry Aarohi. They are 2 adults who took certain decisions and they need to stand by them.

We know what Aarohi has done but Abhi doesn't. So, that makes him wrong in my book.

In my eyes this is not even a true marriage so maybe that is why I am siding with Abhi. In real life, such marriages would be classed as void.

If anyone ever forces someone to marry them and expects faith in return then I'm sorry that's bs.

Morally speaking, it is wrong obviously but if i look at all the factors and events that have happened then I cannot side with Arohi. I'd have felt sorry for her had she been in the dark but everything is out in the open to her. She magically expects Abhira to forget their feelings for each other. The most they can do is try and they are doing that.

Neither of them have technically cheated yet, hugging and touching ain't cheating.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

In my eyes this is not even a true marriage so maybe that is why I am siding with Abhi. In real life, such marriages would be classed as void.

If anyone ever forces someone to marry them and expects faith in return then I'm sorry that's bs.

Morally speaking, it is wrong obviously but if i look at all the factors and events that have happened then I cannot side with Arohi. I'd have felt sorry for her had she been in the dark but everything is out in the open to her. She magically expects Abhira to forget their feelings for each other. The most they can do is try and they are doing that.

Neither of them have technically cheated yet, hugging and touching ain't cheating.

What I don’t get is who forced Abhi? He himself brought the marriage proposal to the Goenkas. Arohi certainly did not force him.

So if touching and hugging is not cheating, would you be ok with your significant other behaving this way with another woman for whom he/she has romantic feelings? I know I wouldn’t.

Also I don’t think anybody can side with Arohi at this point but it doesn’t change the fact Abhi’s behavior is appalling.