Sai and Atrangi re (spoilers inside) - Page 3

This show is really going down now ….its a bout too much o see sad all the time like a spoilt brat fighting and wanting to run away from the house instead of standing and fighting

Still quick if you count the days from his marriage and till Vasanth Panchami. That’s when he asks whether she sees him as someone to love. Of course vishu’s is instant.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Virat never felt bad because she failed to acknowledge his efforts or support . He has a monologue stating that . He was hurt when she said she doesn’t have anyone as her own . Virat was always insecure of his position in her life due to Sai’s words and actions . In the anniversary track , she has repeatedly made him feel the relationship is nothing but deal and compromise for her . He did put all this back and tired to read her actions , that’s why we see him not being bitter after her accident because he understood her actions ignoring her bitter words . The feeling was back when she again confirmed his suspicion that he means nothing to her . In the show , Virat’s insecurities, hurt have been ignored while giving prominence to Sai’s feelings .

For once I am happy that he took offense . Sai when she is insecure shows that by questioning his character and belittling his efforts which takes away the focus from her insecurities . It’s time Sai learnt to not deal with her issues in public . It’s time Virat learnt to stand up for himself . It was downright insulting what she did and glad Virat expressed it .

Though Sai didn't mean what she said it broke Virat's heart. If any on us would have been in his place we would have reacted the same way. Sai always says and does without thinking when she's angry and this is her drawback which she as to change. This doesn't work everytime. And, this isn't a good trait either.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yeah what I am saying is he usually is patient in understanding her but now the circumstances forced him to be blurry. I was surprised when he asked her about her speech. The usual virat doesn’t let it out. Like in the monologue. I am glad he did it because sometimes it is better he shows her that he has expectations too!

I'm happy that he showed his emotions and unhappiness. It's high time he tells her loud and clear he too has expectations. And, why shouldn't he? When Sai too has expectations then why can't Virat have any expectations and I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

To us the audience watching the show and Virat, we could see Sai's "ishaara" in her speech... But to the people gathered there it was only that she's emotional about her parents not being there in this momentous occasion. She acknowledged her new "family" post marriage n their support but was honest about how thats never going to be as unconditional as her parents.

But Virat's priority is only his own pain, how he feels rejected, how he feels unimportant, how he feels insecure, how he is making an effort, how he is helpless- only self pity, self victimization- but he almost always sidelines how Sai feels. even when he acknowledges Sai is upset he thinks - jhel loh kuch din- The only times he truly recognizes Sai's pov and the impact of hus behavior is when he has inadvertently crossed the line way too much and in the immediate aftermath of such events. So right after food denial, ghar seh kick out, hospital tracks, he is in this guilty + understanding pati mode but within a few days its always back to his own feelings. How will Sai reciprocate his feelings if she is always taken for granted by him and has never been told how he feels....he is the one who had a past, who had baggage, but he never followed through on his attempts to tell her how he feels. He expects her to just understand..how?! She is not a mind reader..this expectation to understand his unsaid emotions will only come many years down the line. Its utterly impractical to expect a 20 year old to just understand things..also if she is made to feel the way she is, ofcourse she will latch onto the word "deal" and protect herself n her self respect. Even the word deal is something Virat started. Sai merely uses it as her shield. Will anyone who truly has no f**ks to give about a relationship or truly think of a relationship only as a compromise or deal get SO affected by him, his ignorance, his absence to this degree that she is crying over it, so emotional about it.

Even now he has brought up the speech but not registered that Sai said she didn't even want to be there in that event celebrating her if he wasnt going to be there. He didn't register how she is so hurt that he told her he was taking the day off FOR her but instead dedicated all the time to this dost ki biwi without even an explanation. Even if he cant disclose the full thing, he could have said my friend isnt around and it was a medical emergency. He didn't even have the courtesy to text his wife that he was running late.

When Sai made plans to go on PD lunch he got mad because he had made plans that got cancelled but Sai didnt even know about those plans. Here he told Sai he was gonna spend the whole day with her n cancels on her without any explanation. And to top it off he is blatantly lying about "last minute" changes in his plans even though right after his talk on the phone with Shruti the previous night he knew he would not be available. Ya, he was expecting to make it for the function but he did know he wasn't going to take her shopping. Does she not even deserve the intimation that he is cancelling a plan via a call or text, let alone the reason for the cancellation.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Though Sai didn't mean what she said it broke Virat's heart. If any on us would have been in his place we would have reacted the same way. Sai always says and does without thinking when she's angry and this is her drawback which she as to change. This doesn't work everytime. And, this isn't a good trait either.

I am not surprised to see Virat’s insecurities, hurt and pain being ignored and label him as the self centered . The man who has always gave importance to others feelings , ignored Sai’s bitter words , never expected apology is definitely self centered. I am glad he is self centered this way . ITV is full of BS who believe in focusing only on FL feelings and I am happy few people who can see this and call it out .

Virat never intended to spend time with Shruthi the whole day . He had planned to visit her and then take Sai for shopping but unexpected labor pains changed his plan .so “last minute” wasn’t a lie. A man who celebrated his wife’s success at every stage deserves to be trusted .

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I'm happy that he showed his emotions and unhappiness. It's high time he tells her loud and clear he too has expectations. And, why shouldn't he? When Sai too has expectations then why can't Virat have any expectations and I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Agree , it’s a natural reaction. That’s why her actions and words contradict because she utters rubbish when she is angry . Relationship is two way street , one cannot expect the other to always understand. Communication is important. She can express her disappointments and anger in the right way .

And this is where she's going wrong. She simply doesn't want to communicate. She only knows to scream from top of her voice and prove herself right.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I am not surprised to see Virat’s insecurities, hurt and pain being ignored and label him as the self centered . The man who has always gave importance to others feelings , ignored Sai’s bitter words , never expected apology is definitely self centered. I am glad he is self centered this way . ITV is full of BS who believe in focusing only on FL feelings and I am happy few people who can see this and call it out .

Virat never intended to spend time with Shruthi the whole day . He had planned to visit her and then take Sai for shopping but unexpected labor pains changed his plan .so “last minute” wasn’t a lie. A man who celebrated his wife’s success at every stage deserves to be trusted .

Agree with you. How can Sai forget all the favours he has done for her?