Meet| Episode Discussion Thread #7 - Page 38

Originally posted by: Mysterylushes

I don't know what I dread most:

Angry husband constantly lashing out at wife.

Ya phir majnu husband who is loyal but also talks a lot about his ex.

Trust me, Meety k liya Meetwa sahi hain. Meety Bokul ki tarah savage nahi hain. She is far more mature. So if MA was a typical Gul Khan ML who is arrogant and snobby toh phir bhi Meety Bokul ki tarah cold shoulder deh k deal nahi kar pati. Ha woh kitkit Karti but most of the time she would silently take in the insults (yes unless something massive spirals)

The way she is dealing with MA's majnupana and a subtle bond of friendship and affection spiraling from that compliments Meet Hooda's emotionally mature character.

Toh Bokul jaisi thi, uske liya Rishi Sahi tha

Meetwa agar Rishi jaisa hota, toh Meety k liya zyada sorry feel hota, as Meety can deal with majnu Meetwa but not angry Meetwa (past episodes yaad kar lo)

I don't know if I have been able to put my point clearly on the table. But hey? I tried.

You put it out perfectly.

Rishi and bokul (atleast initially) were like fire and oil agar Rishi Bina baat ka ghussa karta tha toh bokul bhi chup nahi rehti thi voh palat ke tagda javab deti thi which ultimately kept Rishi grounded and then after Rishi promised himself ki voh Shanti se kaam lega Bina baat ka ghussa nahi karega bokul ko samajne ki koshish karega fir toh baat hi kya thi.

And yaha pe despite their similarities meetA and meetH are like fire and ice meetwa ghussa hota hai toh meety Shanti se usse samjhati hai and samajhti bhi hai like you said meety's emotional maturity is commendable and comparatively meetwa is a litte more pampered and childish (not saying it's a baad thing those are his charms actually and those things help meety be a Little more childish too.)

What was my point again.🤦🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: Princess1398

You put it out perfectly.

Rishi and bokul (atleast initially) were like fire and oil agar Rishi Bina baat ka ghussa karta tha toh bokul bhi chup nahi rehti thi voh palat ke tagda javab deti thi which ultimately kept Rishi grounded and then after Rishi promised himself ki voh Shanti se kaam lega Bina baat ka ghussa nahi karega bokul ko samajne ki koshish karega fir toh baat hi kya thi.

And yaha pe despite their similarities meetA and meetH are like fire and ice meetwa ghussa hota hai toh meety Shanti se usse samjhati hai and samajhti bhi hai like you said meety's emotional maturity is commendable and comparatively meetwa is a litte more pampered and childish (not saying it's a baad thing those are his charms actually and those things help meety be a Little more childish too.)

What was my point again.🤦🏻‍♀️

Psychological stand point se kahu toh as I previously stated I have noticed a craving for validation from family in Meety's behavior. Waisa Meetwa k behavior mey I have noticed this fear of losing. Maybe it stemmed from sudden disappearance of Tej veerji.

Show mein zyada bataya nahi gaya ki exactly Tej veerji kaisa gayab huye.

It almost feels like everything was fine in their lives then he suddenly disappeared.

Same happened with Manushi ( atleast from MA's pov)

Saab accha jaraha tha. Shaadi hone hi wali thi then she disappeared with no explanation.

I know mental health ko leka yeh log toh baat karte nahi. Paar tbh both Meets are very complex characters and have their own layers and stories it will be interesting if they do give us a psychological explaination for their behavior. Paar soch hain humari. Aisa kuch dikhayanga nahi. Mein likh rahi hoon kyunki I find this thought very much intriguing and a lot more plausible in this bizarre circumstance.

mje smj ni aa ra ye chl kya ra h… phle MH nikli tub se … fir MA nikla tub se… manager ne Manushi ko bathrobe dene bola Wo liya ni… to Meet Hooda ko dene bola whi pehna degi… usne liya or pehna dia … ab manager towel dilwa ra h Meet Hooda ko.. ye chl kya ra h.. Meet Hooda js watching like a pendulum between her husband and sister… her husband has some indecipherable expression on his face….

Originally posted by: Mysterylushes

Psychological stand point se kahu toh as I previously stated I have noticed a craving for validation from family in Meety's behavior. Waisa Meetwa k behavior mey I have noticed this fear of losing. Maybe it stemmed from sudden disappearance of Tej veerji.

Show mein zyada bataya nahi gaya ki exactly Tej veerji kaisa gayab huye.

It almost feels like everything was fine in their lives then he suddenly disappeared.

Same happened with Manushi ( atleast from MA's pov)

Saab accha jaraha tha. Shaadi hone hi wali thi then she disappeared with no explanation.

I know mental health ko leka yeh log toh baat karte nahi. Paar tbh both Meets are very complex characters and have their own layers and stories it will be interesting if they do give us a psychological explaination for their behavior. Paar soch hain humari. Aisa kuch dikhayanga nahi. Mein likh rahi hoon kyunki I find this thought very much intriguing and a lot more plausible in this bizarre circumstance.

Mental health issues Itv mai disscus nahi hota jyada I've only seen it in anupama and voh bhi ek episode sirf uske baad uspe kuch followup nahi kuch nahi.

But you are right I've noticed it too meety seeks validation especially from her dadi she lost her only and major support system that to a major one and her mother loves her yes but she never really supports her or take a strong stance for her.

And meetwa has a fear of sudden changes tez k exit has affected him a lot. He was so close to him (atleast bato se toh yehi lagta hai) and ek din achanak he is gone. Manu ka bhi vahi he imagined a life with her was really excited for it and then he suddenly found out she is gone to and not even 30 mins later another change was that he had to marry the bride's sister who is also the girl about whome he had major misunderstandings.

(I feel even babita aunty is heavily traumatized and she projects it on meetA in the form of over protectiveness. I also noticed she doesn't really hate Sunaina coz Sunaina ke suiside ke time her reaction was not hridayparivartan it was genuine fear for her daughter in law)

I sooo hope they talk about this angle it would be beautiful

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

mje smj ni aa ra ye chl kya ra h… phle MH nikli tub se … fir MA nikla tub se… manager ne Manushi ko bathrobe dene bola Wo liya ni… to Meet Hooda ko dene bola whi pehna degi… usne liya or pehna dia … ab manager towel dilwa ra h Meet Hooda ko.. ye chl kya ra h.. Meet Hooda js watching like a pendulum between her husband and sister… her husband has some indecipherable expression on his face….

So they are gonna normally move on in life as if yeh roz ka Hain?

basically didi Meet hooda ko guilty feel kra kr.. and Meet Ahlawat ka dil jala kr chli gyi… Meet Ahlawat ka monologue…”jab mai ise puri trah bhula dena chahta hu to ye mje akela kyu ni chd deti” and again fb… again he remembers Manushi telling k Meet Hooda ki wjah se shaadi ni hui… bhai mje lg ra h he will believe her in the end… or ye hi kaand hoga…

babita day dreaming about Tej….

ye Meet Hooda ko akal kaise ayi? she is questioning Manushi ka decision to do job…jb usne aj tk teeli na hilayi.. (MH words not mine) … and now she is working in the same hotel where she and MA are staying… chakkar kya h? she is asking right questions …👏

Manushi was trying to create a doubt in MH’s mind about MA…

Manushi bht badi drama queen h…. kya drama kia h… Meet Hooda ko convince kr dia….😲 talk of self respect and all….🤓

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

ye Meet Hooda ko akal kaise ayi? she is questioning Manushi ka decision to do job…jb usne aj tk teeli na hilayi.. (MH words not mine) … and now she is working in the same hotel where she and MA are staying… chakkar kya h? she is asking right questions …👏

Manushi was trying to create a doubt in MH’s mind about MA…

Iss larki se hi hoga👏

I feel yehi nikaalagi sachai ko ki Parth hi Kunal hain