Originally posted by: SriRani
I completely agree with you...also what I observed is Devo didn't raise the issue until the task is over. She kept collecting items from the guard Bichukule. She needs to straight away refuse such and stop taking favors for such demands as this gives mixed signal. He wanted to show on national tv that look - Debolina kissed me on my cheek other than that I don't see he was looking for some pleasure in it. If that's the reason that's how's unaware he is. But whatever I see both are wrong.
Ah yes, classic vicitm blaming. No the victim DOESNT need to straight away refuse or say anything. No the victim and harraser are NOT both wrong
This argument is what sleazy lawyers used to victim blame whenever harrasment cases were brought up. Oh but she didn't say anything initially. Oh but she was giving mixed signals
Today in almost every country even the courts have started rejecting this argument and people know thats not how psychology works. Even the worst lawyers have stopped using this excuse. We know many women freeze or ignore something just not to create a scene. Its 100% natural and a well studied phenomenon
Its really pathetic that some people still have this 18th century mentality of victim blaming. And use the miracle of modern century like the internet and social media to spread these views. Reminds me of Chadda saab from the movie Damini
No wonder india has the reputation of being one of the most unsafe country for women when we still have these outdated views
Edited by Harish111 - 4 years ago