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@surabhi I don't think kisi ko bolna ki hum ek doosre ko samajhne ke baad shaadi karnge is giving bhaav. It's being sensible.

And also, "divorcee lady bhi bhaav de rahi hai" makes it sound like being divorced is something wrong, jaise woh kisi aur se kam hai. Aise mat baat karo yaar, divorce hua to kya hua, can't she choose her next husband carefully?

Waise shaadi itna important kyon hai? Koi accha mila toh karo, lekin nahi mila to nahi hua, it's fine. People make too much of a big deal about it.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

It is common believe that divorcee woman ko ek. Certain age ke baad doosri shaadi bahut mushkil hota hai bilkul naa ke barabar chances hote hai agar kisi woman ne after 35 divorce liya hai to us woman ki doosri shaadi na ke barabar hoti hai

But i have seen in real life ab to divorce boy ki. Bhi doosri shaadi bahut mushkil ho gayi hai

My cousin Brother divorce two year back. Abhi tuk uski doosri shaadi nahi ho paayi hai. Now uska engament kisi divorcee bank officer lady se ho gaya

Aur jub engament ho gaya to woh divorcee lady boli ki abhi hum ek saal ek doosre ko samjhange. Jub lagega ki ab hum dono ek. Doosre se adjust kar paa rahe hai tabhi shaadi karenge

Yen to haal hai aaj kal. Jub ek divorcee boy ki. Doosri shaadi nahin ho paa rahi use ek divorcee lady bhi bhaav de rahi hai

To jo anuj ka jo itna caring dikhaye hai anupama ki taraf us to gale ke neeche bhi utarna bahut mushkil ho raha hai

well frankly this thing should be followed divorcé single or anything you should give time to understand ek saal bhi less hain i dont understand the concept ek din main dekha and final marwadis does that so i though i am happy single only to take your life decision in just one day 15 days a month is too much risk these relationships need time its better if our society change and allow u=to date to know the person if arrange is there atleast one year or jab tak they both are not sure if love marroage is there its different thing.

i agree anuj jaise nahi hote issliye mere jaise single rehna hi prefer karte hain who to get involove in too much complications when you can liva a respected life on your own single though there is no such isslues at home also so when pakhee said that i can undertsnad her completely yaha log problems na dekhne ke baad bhi single rehne ka decision lete hain usne to bahut kuch dekha hain frankly that is no way wrong here its better for both of them

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

@surabhi I don't think kisi ko bolna ki hum ek doosre ko samajhne ke baad shaadi karnge is giving bhaav. It's being sensible.

Waise shaadi itna important kyon hai? Koi accha mila toh karo, lekin nahi mila to nahi hua, it's fine. People make too much of a big deal about it.

i second that 🤗

itv ne shadi ko duniyan ka sambse important kaam bana rakha hain jaise uske begair life ruk hi jayegi

It is not about ek doosre ko samjhane ki baat

My point about divorcee second marriage

Jub ek divorcee lady itna bhaav de rahi hai to jub yeh anuj jo ki ek bada business man hai woh jub ek divorcee woman ki caring kar ta hai to yeh baat unbelivable lagti hai

My post about second marriage of divorcee jo ki real mein bahut muskil hoti hai jitna aasan anupama mein dikha rahe hai ki anuj itni. Jyaada divorcee aur teen bachon ki maa ko importance de raha jo real life mein nahin hota

Real life koi itna bada business tycoon divorcee woman with three children se shaadi nahin karega

Ek doosre ko. Samajh kar hi shaadi karna chahiye ismein khuch bhi galat nahin hai but my point was about marriage about second marriage after divorce

Ki ek certain age ke baad be it men or women jub woh divorce leta hai to uski doosri shaadi bahut mushkil hoti hai

girl that lady is showing bhav and all its just she is being carefull she is already divorced how was her relatioship were we dont know much so we cant judge

rahi anuj jaiso ki baat i am not saying ki aisi log exist karte hain yes nahi karte karte bhi honge to bahut less but here anuj loves her from start not now when neither she was married nor wife nor mother she he love her from those days and jinlogon ki aap baat kar rahi hain unhe shadi karni hoti hain bas koi chaihye hota hain jo unka khayal rakh sake as guys cant do that themself pehle maa karti hain phir wife but here anuj loves her loves dont see you are marroed not married mom saas or anything pyaar sir dil dekhta hain aur woh pyaar karta hain usne aage badne ki koshish ki nahi hua marriage kisi se bhi ki ja sakti hain pyaar nahi anuj pyaar karta hain woh anupma a=ke haan bolne pe bhi shadi nahi karega jab tak usse khud vishwas na hoga anupama yeh uske liye nahi apne khud ke liye kar rahi hain so love is very different it dont see anything.

marriage if you tell you will work if you tell you dont know houlsehold work not much interested if you are fat if your are short to bhi nahi hoti bahut mushkil hota hain in life i have seen manny people wnats to marry but cant because of these things too its not just that ki divorccee ki hi mushkil se hoti hain and manny people marry yeh sab hone ke bafjood bhi because they have money so that tpic is itself very confusing

Bhaav se matlab ki woh bhi aisi hi. Shaadi nahin karne jaa rahi jub use lagega ki. Woh aur uske future husband ke saath taal mel dikhage tabhi woh shaadi karegi

Bhaav to ek kahawat ho gayi ki

is baat ko point forward rakhne ki aaj kal. Doosri shaadi after divorcee na ke barabar hai

I am sorry but your statements about divorced women is a very generalized statement. Just because you might not have seen or met someone like Anuj Kapadia in your life, for you to claim that such a person doesn't exist in this entire world of 7.7 billion population is an extremely generalized and frankly a nonfactual statement. Sure, its very rare to find someone like him in this world, but it is not impossible, or something that has never been heard. You don't have to go far, you can find example in india itself. Please read a biography on Ratan Tata.

And for you to again make a statement like a man wouldn't wanna be with a divorcee woman with 3 kids is again a very generalized and frankly a regressive statement. Sure, in India, a country where patriarchy is still very much prevalent in its society, finding a man like Anuj is rare... but again it is not impossible. Not every man in a such a society are patriarchal either.

Anuj's love for Anu can be understood because he's known her since they were in college. He fell in love with her in college... its not like Anuj met Anu today and few weeks later he fell in love with her (keeping in account her being divorce and a mother of 3 kids).

Edited: Its okay to fall in love at a later age, at 40s and 50s. Its okay to fall out of love after being married for several years. Its okay to love someone one-sidedly for years. Its okay to not want to get married. Its okay to know your partner for few months/yrs before getting married. Its okay to be in a live-in relationship. We are living in 2021, not 1900s

What is not okay is physically, mentally or emotionally torturing or abusing a woman for years.

It is not regressive it is about reality ,certainly after 45 when women get divorce with 2 adult children and with 1 teensge child ki and that divorcee woman is just 12 th paas use real mein anuj jaisa business tycoon to nahin milega that i am sure

Originally posted by: surabhi01

It is not regressive it is about reality ,certainly after 45 when women get divorce with 2 adult children and with 1 teensge child ki and that divorcee woman is just 12 th paas use real mein anuj jaisa business tycoon to nahin milega that i am sure

No again you are making a very generalized statement. Just because in your circle or people around you you haven't seen this happen, doesn't mean it doesn't happen in actuality.

I have seen women in their 50s and 60s get divorced from their partner and get married again by choice. Now are you gonna tell me that "aisa toh nahi hota".

Edited: Coming out as a homosexual was also uncommon in india and many parts of the world just until few years ago. Homosexuality was criminalized in india just until couple years ago. USA legalized same-sex marriage just in 2015. It didn't happen back in the day but now it does. So are you telling me that a divorcee woman with 3 kids getting married is more uncommon than homosexuals being accepted and getting married in this world. I have seen many homosexuals from indian community come out and get married in the recent years. Just because something didn't happen always or is uncommon doesn't mean it will never happen. Change is constant. People progress and grow with time.