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But there is a difference.

Anuj knows anupama from college, so his love for her never decreased over the years.

Incase of your cousin, the girl just met him recently, and because of her past bad experience in marriage she wants to make a decision only when she is 100 percent sure of him.

And somewhere on the same lines even anu rejected anuj's love, because she already suffered a bad marriage from past 26 years and doesn't want to get into another so soon.

Anyway, hope so things turn out for good for your cousin.

When Anu got married, he also tried to move on with his life, but failed to do so.

Now that Anu is singal, and has no one in her life, as a companion, he is being her friend and supporting her.

Yes i will make generalide stattememt because i have seen real life after certain age divorce ki baad shaadi bahut muskil se hoti hai

Aur jin logon ki. Doosri shaad hoti i woh jub 5,10 year doodhte hai tub jaa ke hoti hai . Anupama ki tarah uski ko 6 mahine mein anuj ki tarah farishta aur rich bilkul perfect guy nahin nahin mil jaata, kisi divorce woman ko

Aur jinki doosri shaadi hoti hai agar woh three children ki maa hai aur 12 th paas hai use to anuj jaise business tycoon to nahin milega

That depends honestly.

You are seeing the world only through your lenses, rightly so, because everyone does that.

People have different priorities and different things they look for in their potential partners.

Some marry for financial stability, some for good looks, some for a soup connection, some to start a family, some for only companionship.

See, anuj is in his 40's, he has surpassed that stage where he is looking for superficial things in his future partner.

He has attained all the success in his career, had sexual relations (maybe based on the mandir wala scene), now he is just looking for Anu's companionship, not her status, how she looks, what's her past, etc.etc. his love for her is beyond this.

When he fell in love with anu, it was just HER, her simplicity, her nature, not her status.

Yes, in reality it's rare to find such people, agreed, but not impossible.

There are many real life love stories which have surpassed race, gender, status, family, etc.

But maybe unless you don't experience it first-hand, it's difficult for you to understand.

Log ke 2 mahine mein nature change ho jaate hai. Agar anuj jaisa real life mein hota bhale hi usne anupama se 26 year love kiya ho but agar anuj jaisa real life mein hota to itna bada business tycoon banne ke baad to usi yaad hi nahi rehta ki usne kisi se 26 year pehle love kiya tha aur ab tuk. Woh kisi doosre hi shaadi kar leta

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yes i will make generalide stattememt because i have seen real life after certain age divorce ki baad shaadi bahut muskil se hoti hai

Aur jin logon ki. Doosri shaad hoti i woh jub 5,10 year doodhte hai tub jaa ke hoti hai . Anupama ki tarah uski ko 6 mahine mein anuj ki tarah farishta aur rich bilkul perfect guy nahin nahin mil jaata, kisi divorce woman ko

Aur jinki doosri shaadi hoti hai agar woh three children ki maa hai aur 12 th paas hai use to anuj jaise business tycoon to nahin milega

Again you are seeing this world from your perspective and from a very narrow lenses.. this world is vast and big. Lots of crazy unheard shit happens in this world. You can certainly say I haven't seen this happen around me as that is your experience, but you cannot make a nonfactual statement like it absolutely doesn't happen in this huge world of again 7.7 billion population.

Anuj spent most parts of his adult life in America. He has seen the world, he is educated and very very progressive for many indians and in the show for Shahs to comprehend. And I understand that as well. That is why people like Vanraj and Baa are unable to digest Anuj and his way of life or his love for Anupama. Unfortunately, many people in the eastern part of the world are still stuck in patriarchal ways (i will take south asia here as an example), but Anuj had the opportunity to go out and explore the world, learn new things and ideas. He is a true feminist by nature. A person like Anuj who has seen the world and is so knowledgable, and a freaking feminist, it is absolutely believable that he doesn't find a woman unworthy just because she's a divorce, a mother with 3 grown kids, a woman who was confined in the patriarchal norms for 25 yrs.

And u r talking in very impractical way and too. Unrealistic

Do u really think business tycoon will marrry. A divorcee Who is just 12 paas abd mothher of three children A business tycoon in real life ?

Agar main practical aur realistic baat kar rahi hoon to mera mind narrow aur regressive ho gaya

Wow kya baat hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

And u r talking in very impractical way and too. Unrealistic

Do u really think business tycoon will marrry. A divorcee Who is just 12 paas abd mothher of three children A business tycoon in real life ?

Agar main practical aur realistic baat kar rahi hoon to mera mind narrow aur regressive ho gaya

Wow kya baat hai

Yes I can believe that it can happen.

It is ur Believe and u can surely think. So but that does not mean i am pointing real thing my thinking become regressive and narrow minded

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yes i will make generalide stattememt because i have seen real life after certain age divorce ki baad shaadi bahut muskil se hoti hai

Aur jin logon ki. Doosri shaad hoti i woh jub 5,10 year doodhte hai tub jaa ke hoti hai . Anupama ki tarah uski ko 6 mahine mein anuj ki tarah farishta aur rich bilkul perfect guy nahin nahin mil jaata, kisi divorce woman ko

Aur jinki doosri shaadi hoti hai agar woh three children ki maa hai aur 12 th paas hai use to anuj jaise business tycoon to nahin milega

This is the exact thought a serial like Anupama is trying to change....that someone at that age, with kids too can start a new life.

Being a business tycoon is just an added career of Anuj. Assume that Anuj was Anupama's colleague at her workplace or some regular office going friend, then would you say it's realistic to fall in love with a divorced mom of 3?

Also there are a lot of popular celebrities (tycoons) who have married divorced people with kids...Arijit Singh for example married his childhood friend who was divorced and had a kid. So such things happen in real life where a person with a financially stable background chooses to marry/love someone for their nature and not just for their past.

I have seen a lot of divorced people remarrying by choice at younger and older ages...it's totally normal these days.

I agree a lot of divorcees face remarriage issues, but that's the stigma this show is trying to remove.

Arey it is not about divorcee cannot get remarriage. Yes divorce can get marry aur hoti hai divorce ki marriage real life but yeh itna easy nahin hota jitna anupama mein dikhaya gaya hai

And i am telling ki real life mein koi business tycoon jisne chahe kisi kitna sacha pyaar kiya ho but 26 year kisi ke liye kunwara nahin rajegs

Ya mba b tech paas ki shaadi to mushkil se ho rahi hai yahan 12 th pass ko easily business tycoon mil raha hai kitna unrealistic hai