Is anupama really an inspiration?

I think sirf dil se bhot jyada bhola hona kaafi nahi hota hai..some more qualities are required in this world to survive ..to live with respect..and I am sorry guys but i think anupama me aisi or koi bhi quality nahi hai ..kyunki agar sirf extra mahaan hone se sab accha ho jata thn why is she suffering so much..?? aadhi zindagi nikal gayi uski tab bhi abusive environment se fed up nahi hui wo..

Please share ur views and tell me..do u want ur daughter to be like anupama?

Honestly in real life living with such type of person is big no. Who are constantly in delusion and just lives in their own Mahan world. Thinks their family just because it belongs to them is better than rest of the world

Forget about immediate relative, I wouldn't even want someone such as neighbor.

Dont worry, no one here thinks anupama as their inspiration🤣

No one should consider lady like anupama as their ideal even if she is the last living woman on earth🤣

Kitni hi mahanata ki baatein kar lo lekin zindagi bhar khud gadhe ki tarah kaam karte raho...kya matlab ki aisi life. Aur anu ka sabse bada criticism hamesha se yahi raha hai ki wo hypocrite hai, double standard hai uske. Wo duniya ko jo gyan baat ti hai wo khud kabhi follow nahi karti...phir kya fayda aisi ideology ka.

Hi Priyanka, this is Priyanka here too🤗..its a tricky question coz there are some qualities in her that make her a good human being..she is dumb enough to not understand Vanraj's intentions but matured enough to respect Anuj's feelings for her. She was stupid to not stand up for herself when Baa ill treated her but raised her voice when she knew Nandini cannot bear a child..she couldnt defend her own dignity but stood up for Anuj infront of whole mohalla..so its a mixed bag..of course some qualities are exaggerated for itv purpose but she is someone who deserved to be loved and cherished..we all bash her here on her stupidity but deep down we want her to win and move on in life

.so yes I would want my daughter to be like her at heart but also know when to use her brains like kavya

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

Dont worry, no one here thinks anupama as their inspiration🤣

No one should consider lady like anupama as their ideal even if she is the last living woman on earth🤣

Kitni hi mahanata ki baatein kar lo lekin zindagi bhar khud gadhe ki tarah kaam karte raho...kya matlab ki aisi life. Aur anu ka sabse bada criticism hamesha se yahi raha hai ki wo hypocrite hai, double standard hai uske. Wo duniya ko jo gyan baat ti hai wo khud kabhi follow nahi karti...phir kya fayda aisi ideology ka.

I guess we get to see what some folks lives are like. I'm sure we only want Anuj and friend like Devika in our lives. Others are sheer useless bunch as role models.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

I guess we get to see what some folks lives are like. I'm sure we only want Anuj and friend like Devika in our lives. Others are sheer useless bunch as role models.

Even anuj shouldn't be role model if you think seriously.

Only devika is the relatable and normal one

I would like to stay so so so far away from anupama type lady ! She can’t be inspiration for me ! I feel anupama se zyada strong and independent toh Meri domestic helper hai !

Meri beti par toh mai galti se bhi anupama type gadhi lady ka saaya bhi na padne dooo 😡

Muje apni beti ko strong independent fire woman banana hai ! Anupama ke jaise abusive sasural walo ki bakri banne dene ka mai soch bhi nahi sakti ! 😡

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I would like to stay so so so far away from anupama type lady ! She can’t be inspiration for me ! I feel anupama se zyada strong and independent toh Meri domestic helper hai !

Meri beti par toh mai galti se bhi anupama type gadhi lady ka saaya bhi na padne dooo 😡

Muje apni beti ko strong independent fire woman banana hai ! Anupama ke jaise abusive sasural walo ki bakri banne dene ka mai soch bhi nahi sakti ! 😡

@bold 🤣🤣🤣

But actually this is true. Now weaker sections of society are also so aware about their rights and thankfully the cases where lady is trapped in marriage with abusive man are standing up for themselves.

Those stories about- mera pati daru peeta hai, jua khelta hai, mujhe roz maarta hai phir bhi main use chhod nahi sakti kyunki hai to pati hi na... Thankfully we hear less about them now.

Originally posted by: sunshine36

Hi Priyanka, this is Priyanka here too🤗..its a tricky question coz there are some qualities in her that make her a good human being..she is dumb enough to not understand Vanraj's intentions but matured enough to respect Anuj's feelings for her. She was stupid to not stand up for herself when Baa ill treated her but raised her voice when she knew Nandini cannot bear a child..she couldnt defend her own dignity but stood up for Anuj infront of whole mohalla..so its a mixed bag..of course some qualities are exaggerated for itv purpose but she is someone who deserved to be loved and cherished..we all bash her here on her stupidity but deep down we want her to win and move on in life

.so yes I would want my daughter to be like her at heart but also know when to use her brains like kavya

Yes dear..I am.not denying the fact that anupama is good at heart..she is..but still she is suffering because of her goodness only..

Thodi clever hoti..thodi smart hoti..to.life definitely isse to better hoti..clever hone ka matlab bura hona nahi hota hai..so it's a good quality to have..

Main anupama jaisi nahin hoon naur na main anupama jaisi banogi but anupama is very good person as from anupama nature being too good then i can expect from anupama ki woh sapne mein bhi dusman ke bare mein bura nahin soch sakti