Is anupama really an inspiration? - Page 3

Sometimes, yes. She took divorce from her husband which is still difficult for women in pur society , fought courageously against a terminal disease, wanted to start working & learning new things at her age, she doesn't keep malice in her heart for anyone, she corrects her children & is willingly to get corrected by them too (Samar explained to her about Anuj).

Other times , no. She never stands upto Baa for herself, helps Vanraj & Kavya even after all they did to her. Her desire to be mahaan exists.

Yes, Baa was totally wrong in the way she spoke to Bapuji but I understood her as a wife & mother. Bapuji had a factory but still watching your young son work to fend for the house & get his sister married off breaks a mother's heart. Add to that the property tax that Bapuji forgot to pay for 20 years & you can see that Bapuji is careless when it comes to his professional life. In Baa's generation, women were generally homemakers & she and her children were financially dependent on Bapuji. Baa wasn't 100% wrong there. A good father needs to provide for the family too so that the children can fulfill their responsibilities & dreams well. Anu saw Bapuji's guroor but not Baa's mother's heart inspite of being a Mom herself. Anu takes stands totally for or against someone when most of the Shah family is grey. I believe as per WU, she signed the property papers which gave Vanraj property rights instead of Bapuji. This coming from a lady who had been the victim of a loan scam by signing fraud papers.

I think anupama is good. Period. She's not really dumb, not even not clever. Her faults are not that she is too good.arrey, goodness ki toh bahut kami hai is duniya mein, anupama jaisa koi saath ho toh accha hi hai. I think anupama's problem is that she has been brought up on a false ideology.. That sasural is greater than your individuality. And the mistaken hindustani ideas on womanhood. If this same woman had been given a more balanced view of duties and rights.. She is courageous enough, has tremendous strength of will, and is never unwilling to learn.

No person is perfect every person has his or her own share of flaws, so no personal is inspirational it's upto us whom we consider inspirational

Anupama strong point

She never lose hope

She has immense strength inside herself which she herself is not aware of currently

In worst situations also she ends up finding solutions & manage to get hold of situations

She fights till d end what ever will be d result but she still try .

Anupama negative points

Highly emotional

Let people take her for granted

Never learn from her mistakes

Easily trust wrong people & easily forgive people

Trying to keep everyone Happy on account of her own happiness & forgetting about herownself.

overly mahan.

Anupama is mixture of many qualities so she is not inspirational.

Anupamaa is not an inspiration. She has not been able to do one thing on her own. Always need support and check mark from baa.

At the same time I genuinely feel an inspiration show with strong female lead wont interest trp aunties.

Originally posted by: sunshine36

Hi Priyanka, this is Priyanka here too🤗..its a tricky question coz there are some qualities in her that make her a good human being..she is dumb enough to not understand Vanraj's intentions but matured enough to respect Anuj's feelings for her. She was stupid to not stand up for herself when Baa ill treated her but raised her voice when she knew Nandini cannot bear a child..she couldnt defend her own dignity but stood up for Anuj infront of whole mohalla..so its a mixed bag..of course some qualities are exaggerated for itv purpose but she is someone who deserved to be loved and cherished..we all bash her here on her stupidity but deep down we want her to win and move on in life

.so yes I would want my daughter to be like her at heart but also know when to use her brains like kavya

Yes dear I knw some qualities of her makes her a wonderful human being..I agree..par baat ghoom fir kar wahin aa jati hai..k anupama jaisa accha banna bhi accha nahi hai agar aapko itna hi suffer karna hai to..

Baaki I dnt think kavya n anupama dono ki qualities ek bande me ho sakti hain😆 yaar dono alag hi level ki hain..inhe match karna is impossible 😆

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

No person is perfect every person has his or her own share of flaws, so no personal is inspirational it's upto us whom we consider inspirational

Anupama strong point

She never lose hope

She has immense strength inside herself which she herself is not aware of currently

In worst situations also she ends up finding solutions & manage to get hold of situations

She fights till d end what ever will be d result but she still try .

Anupama negative points

Highly emotional

Let people take her for granted

Never learn from her mistakes

Easily trust wrong people & easily forgive people

Trying to keep everyone Happy on account of her own happiness & forgetting about herownself.

overly mahan.

Anupama is mixture of many qualities so she is not inspirational.

Agreed..but the fact is she is good for everyone else on this earth and her own self respect is nothing to her..or agar self respect hi nahi rakhi to kya rakha fir..

So for me a person without his or her self respect is not inspirational at all..

Hellllll no.............😆

Anupama jaisi toxic lady can never be inspiration for anyone.....👎🏼she is not normal and i want to be surrounded with normal and loving people.

And I would want my daughter to be strong and independent. I would want her to love herself, Put your happiness and needs first before anyone else. Never do wrong to others but at the same time do not let wrong happen to you also.

I would want her to be like ----Eant ka jawab pathhar se 😆