Teja - Midseason review - Page 4

Originally posted by: Bluehue

she was alone for 6 hour straight standing there people could see it if they wanted to help aise hi kar dete why were they waiting ke help mange to kare... they didn't because it was not thier duty jiski hai wo bhi suna raha tha jiski nahi hai wo to kya hi karenge.

No one will help you if you don't ask...

Originally posted by: KJasoosChulbulP

This is what I think of Teja….

She has an endearing quality that she wants to be liked by all. This is also a limiting quality where one wonders why she needs this validation.

Hence she is territorial about kitchen. She wants to come across as how she is caregiving and even offers hot breakfasts. You tell me when hungry and I will make it.

Same issue when she insisted on going after Shamita repeatedly and saying. Please tell me yaar. Why aren’t things normal and you keep going after me.. And Shamita was like. Please be used to this every wkv. Same thing happened when she cleaned up the trash due to smashing of trash can smash by Nishant. She does want to be liked and just starts wondering. Why don’t they like me. Versus it’s what it is…

She does do this and expect others to treat her nicely. While this may make sense irl (to an extent) - this is BB house. Do things that you want. Without expectations. And the minute you say “I did this for you” anyways paanee phir jaataa hain on what you do (in BB house or IRL).

Finally she does have a delivery problem. She can be irritating and condescending. She is totally unaware of this. As this is her instantaneous reaction if you notice (even when sallu bashed her). Her blindside.

Finally - her key strength is she doesn’t believe in unnecessary fights and inserting herself in every mudda - that’s more of — I am self assured in my skin. Almost contradictory to the self validation she seeks for people to think she is nice.

But all this actually makes her genuine as well as she is who she is. Seen enough this BB season to realize this isn’t fake. Like it. Don’t like. That’s your choice as a viewer…

Something I have admired about your posts is objectivity, this was the last of the reviews for the top 3 and I quite appreciate it. Going to add my two cents to this

1. I think it is less of validation and more of ' i don't want bad blood / grudges' she likes clean slates. This of course can be both good or bad but that is who she is. For some people fights and things really get to them and hence the prefer cordial relationships... Teja seems to be one of them

2. She is fond of cooking, and yes she is territorial about the kitchen. She likes making food and the caregiving. She is genuinely a very nice person, probably the kindest I have seen on BB. Yes it can seem fake or as seeking validation but is not. She is like that. Neha was complaining about how she will spend her bday alone and Teja was like I won't let that happen, despite all that Neha has said and done. She even made Nishant eat because she felt guilty that he is taking out his anger on food.

3. I actually think she is very clear with her points. She knows when to intervene and when not to and what she wants to say. This in contrast to people who get really out hand and dirty saying really awful things in fights. She can appear 'rude' or condescending but as I have noticed that is always a reaction and not a action or provocation.

Lastly, she is very genuine and I like that!