what to do? what to do? i want to cry

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hi everyone i am new here and this is my first post. So here is the thing.

There is this guy that i liked and he liked me too but my friend also liked him so rather me going after him i tried my best to set those two up. but he didn't want her. and than she found out that i liked him and thought that i was trying to keep him to myself even though i was trying to set them up. so basically she stopped talking to me and i told him that i don't feel comfortable dating him after all that happened and give me some time. so he agreed.

so recently i started liking him again but i was scared to tell him. but i did but this time he told me he thinks of me as a friend which is totally fine. but the thing is that i'm nota ble to get over him. and i don't know how i hould get over him or how to get over him.

but that there was this other guy that i liked but he hid the fact that he had a gf from me and i stopped liking him and i got over him but recently him and his gf broke up and he told me that they broke up because she wasn't me and he likes me./ but i told him i want to be friends with him only and he thinks it's only because i'm still not over the first guy. and now this one is being such a a** with me.

so i need help what should i do? and how do i get over the first guy?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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All I can say is that u need time!!

Ignore them both and do the things that makes u happy and u like the more.

Expalin to ur friend how u sacrifice ur crush for her friendship. Its hard to get over a guy but sometimes its u have to.

Points to remember

~Never go with a guy who broke up with his gf for u coz one day he might leave u for someone else.

~ Never waste ur tears behind someone who can't do the same

Good Luck👍🏼

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hi Nisha.. ur situation is quite tricky & confusing..but all you can do is just be with yourself..till the time your completely sorted out..In this confused state ..dont think about any guy..b'coz ur still confused & that will make u feel uncomfortable in the presence of either of them..
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Posted: 17 years ago
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All i can say is that...take ur time, and think everyhting over. @ get ur self together!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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thanks guys....so I decided I'm going to forget about both of them....and guess what....I did and I'm mush more happier now lol
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Posted: 17 years ago
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well u shd jus take some time..stuff's got a lil messyy....nd if i were u...no of dem deserve u....ull gt a better guy...!! 👏

njoy!!

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