I don’t understand the Goenkas with their thum dono - Page 2

Originally posted by: Amru4krish

Pakka karge.... I think that will be the last episode of this season..🤣. Or she can be saved if neil marries her 😆

But neil is too sweet for her ... Unless she changes to be good

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I had read somewhere that Ak & Ar to repeat mahima manjiri history.. article pura nahi padha maine just read the headline

IMO the Goenkas are largely responsible for the way Arohi and Akshu's relationship has turned out. Since they were children the family has been papering over the cracks in their relationship and leaving it up to a (then very young) Akshara to feel the responsibility of bridging the gap and placating her sister.

When children are being unreasonable or learning the wrong lessons or behaving badly, you teach them the error of their ways until you're sure they've learned that lesson. You don't just wave your hands about ineffectually and say "oh bas karo tum dono, why can't we all just get aloooooong?" 🤔 They grumble about Arohi's behaviour towards Akshu behind her back, but somehow are terrified of saying so to her face.

We treat children equally, but not the same. If one child needs more lessons in maths, for example, we don't also send the other child to tuition to make everything "equal". A basic example but the same principle largely applies.

Arohi is equally loved by the family, for sure and as it should be, but her treatment of Akshara over the years has gone pretty much unchallenged by the elders in the family, other than token "hush nows". No wonder she thinks she can say anything she wants without reproach. It's supremely unfair and a huge burden on Akshu to have to be the only one constantly trying to mend that relationship.

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

When my brother and I fight my parents dont say both of you are wrong every time. Sometimes I am wrong and sometimes my brother is. Because they love us equally they don’t have to keep proving that equality to us. They can focus on correcting us when they think we are wrong, which is their duty as the parents. Who else will we learn from but our parents. But the Goenkas by never correcting Arohi are doing her a disservice because she thinks she and Akshu are equally right or wrong in this fight. And Akshu things she is wrong because that is what her family has told her.

Originally posted by: RaniZelda

IMO the Goenkas are largely responsible for the way Arohi and Akshu's relationship has turned out. Since they were children the family has been papering over the cracks in their relationship and leaving it up to a (then very young) Akshara to feel the responsibility of bridging the gap and placating her sister.

When children are being unreasonable or learning the wrong lessons or behaving badly, you teach them the error of their ways until you're sure they've learned that lesson. You don't just wave your hands about ineffectually and say "oh bas karo tum dono, why can't we all just get aloooooong?" 🤔 They grumble about Arohi's behaviour towards Akshu behind her back, but somehow are terrified of saying so to her face.

We treat children equally, but not the same. If one child needs more lessons in maths, for example, we don't also send the other child to tuition to make everything "equal". A basic example but the same principle largely applies.

Arohi is equally loved by the family, for sure and as it should be, but her treatment of Akshara over the years has gone pretty much unchallenged by the elders in the family, other than token "hush nows". No wonder she thinks she can say anything she wants without reproach. It's supremely unfair and a huge burden on Akshu to have to be the only one constantly trying to mend that relationship.

I’m surprised Suhasini Goenka who used to be Powerful and have the last word just stood there

Originally posted by: Moonlight493

I’m surprised Suhasini Goenka who used to be Powerful and have the last word just stood there

Originally posted by: Indira1211

suhasini Goenka aka k dadi…has done some of the most stupid things I’ve seen on this show…and now she’s also partly responsible for this big mess…if she had let abhimanyu speak the other day and said who he wants to marry this chaos would have been prevented … But she was so excited as if he was proposing to her ..lol 😂….and didn’t give the poor guy a chance to Speak properly 🤦🏻‍♀️

It would have been amazing if she was this excited during Kartik and Naira’s wedding but no she was a villain back then, wonder what happened to all her ghamand and bitterness. Old Dadi would definitely take a stand for her granddaughters and actually try to understand Abhimanyu and let him speak instead of rushing everything.

I loved how you said it yaar, especially shaadi Karo dono, that too the the same guy dono. They are equal to them in every way right, might as well get them married to the same guy too, to make sure everyone got how equal they treat their daughters🤣

And I don’t think that is equally treating Akshu right. Arohi gets away with everything but Akshu has to sacrifice everything for Arohi’s happiness, that’s not equality. Are they all scared of Arohi.

Originally posted by: jani_faizal

I loved how you said it yaar, especially shaadi Karo dono, that too the the same guy dono. They are equal to them in every way right, might as well get them married to the same guy too, to make sure everyone got how equal they treat their daughters🤣

Think abhis plight.... Bechara.... 🤣He cant go to hospital or come home with two biwis .... And akshu cant take anything against aaru.... Abhi will change his profession then... 😆