Member Topic: Do you follow your heart or your head? - Page 3

I'm so practical that even my heart has a head of its own.

In some matters though, I wish I had followed my heart.

Originally posted by: DushtKanya

As in are you more of a "act through your instincts/via impulses" or a "think/analyse well before acting?"

If this is what it means then I guess I've mostly thought from my heart in most of my life. I've suffered because of taking impulsive decisions.

So now I think and analyze alot before making decisions. This has also not benefitted me much because I take too much time reaching a conclusion and second guess everything.

But still no matter how much I think or analyse, I ultimately still end up going by my instincts. Because otherwise I'm unable to be at peace. The heart still wants it wants!

I think both are different questions.

With relationships and romance, always heart. Unless the opposite person is not really connected or equally into you, then use brains to come out of the situation.

With other important decisions not involving emotions, always the brain.

However if one is depressed severely and can't make decisions, seek someone to help and understand. I don't mean paying for a psychologist.

Originally posted by: moonv

I think both are different questions.

With relationships and romance, always heart. Unless the opposite person is not really connected or equally into you, then use brains to come out of the situation.

With other important decisions not involving emotions, always the brain.

However if one is depressed severely and can't make decisions, seek someone to help and understand. I don't mean paying for a psychologist.

One can flip a coin between the head and heart

I follow what other people do

They eat, I eat, they go to school, I go to school, they work, I work

I follow the organ which tells me to do the right thing.

When comes to imp decisions in life I follow head