Pallavi’s past vs raghav’s past - Page 2

Originally posted by: dhara88

first of all what is pallavi’s defination of love????

Relationship is balanced only if physical love and emotional love(care,respect,support,understanding your partner,taking care of his/her sadness/making them happy)

When raghav tries to go close to her….she runs away..

When raghav is angry she tries to get closer to him and madam was depending on honeymoon just to make things right???
Usually womens are like this only😂😂😂 currently i am observing men and womens a lot these days…

But pallavi ka example mare khud ke ghar mein hai😂

I agree raghav was dishonest

But his biggest issue is fear of loosing people…and thats the reason he hides the things…which is categorised into dishonesty!

They need to be open to each other and speak - him about his insecurities and her about her pain. Dono never open up and others take advantage of the situation to cause trouble in paradise.

I don't think Pallavi should be blamed for lack of intimacy. It's her first time, she can be hesitant and wanting to take it slow. Unka writers ne humesha timing bigada hai and hence I am waiting to see if we ever get a con :(

Originally posted by: joliefemme

They need to be open to each other and speak - him about his insecurities and her about her pain. Dono never open up and others take advantage of the situation to cause trouble in paradise.

I don't think Pallavi should be blamed for lack of intimacy. It's her first time, she can be hesitant and wanting to take it slow. Unka writers ne humesha timing bigada hai and hence I am waiting to see if we ever get a con :(

This track is heading there..

Originally posted by: joliefemme

When have Raghvi had a decent conversation post Hyderabad? All of Raghav's guilt, his emotions and behakna is all for Pallavi. Esha toh doesn't matter to him at all, she holds the same place in his heart like Mandar did to Pallavi. I was sad to hear Pallavi question his love for her. Uska pyar sabko dikhta hai bas usse nai dikha jisko mehsoos hona chahiye tha. Is this the faulty dialogue writing?

Yes because he's a man his violation has no uproar but I'm waiting for the confrontation scene to see if this will be addressed (low-key hoping it will be). Today Milind ke dialogues hinted in this direction.

Agree 100%. I interpret the behekna dialogues the same way. Just that nothing was openly discussed between the two so she doesn't have the right context.

Pallavi's questions make sense though, because of her black or white approach. If Raghav made no mistakes then he loves her, if he did make mistakes then he doesn't/never did. Life doesn’t work like that and it was interesting to see Sanki and Milind voicing their doubts so explicitly. Raghav as always showing her that there is a gray option too.

I'm really hoping that him being the victim is addressed, even more so after watching him withering and his monologue today. The emotional torture is a sign of Esha's plotting being successful to a large extent.

I was skeptical about the coal scene but the justification in the precap won me over. The writing is like OG episodes. Why oh why is this show ending?

Originally posted by: subbuappu

Yes... It's definitely lazy writing... I wonder how Milind and VD are sensing that something is not right but Amma failed to see it... And yeah... Didn't like that dialogue of not loving... Anyways I am sure writers will not address that once truth is out even though we expect it.. There is a lot of potential missed with Raghav and Milind scenes...

I'm loving the parallels with these two and the Rajni track, very interesting that the audience isn't up in arms about Milind crossing lines.

Also, considering Raghav fell for her nature not her looks, speaking of him getting bored of her seemed below the belt but I understand that she is very hurt and doesn't know what to believe at this point.

Yes... Time and again he said that he fears losing people and actually that was the statement that made both Pallavi and RR close in that shower scene even though Raghav isn't in senses... Yeh banda hamesha wrong timing mein ludak jaata hain... I find people even finding him faulty when he uttered the dialogue that I will never let you doubt my love to Pallavi... I don't understand banda kare toh kya kare???? People have issues when he pacifies her saying he is shameless and planning to touch her.. agar nahi karta hain then people says he is rude to her... Basically it looks like his existence itself is a sin.. Definition for love is different for each and everyone... As far as i followed the show right from the start love for Raghav was never a physical need. It's an emotional clutch that he wants to hold it and get drown into... That's why I didn't get surprised when he said I love you and I love my whisky too... Because till then Alcohol was his support system and glad makers has shown him that way right from the start though I personally don't like alcoholics...

Physical love comes to him after emotional one.. that's why he never felt anything physically for Pallavi before that safety pin scene which happened after he get to know her and her spirit.. people were talking about his harmones at that time.. I always like when soul takes over the body... i would really like to see if writers will show the dialogue about love rendered by Raghav in first episode again before the show ends... That was the dialogue that got me hooked to the show...

Originally posted by: inlieu

Agree 100%. I interpret the behekna dialogues the same way. Just that nothing was openly discussed between the two so she doesn't have the right context.

Pallavi's questions make sense though, because of her black or white approach. If Raghav made no mistakes then he loves her, if he did make mistakes then he doesn't/never did. Life doesn’t work like that and it was interesting to see Sanki and Milind voicing their doubts so explicitly. Raghav as always showing her that there is a gray option too.

I'm really hoping that him being the victim is addressed, even more so after watching him withering and his monologue today. The emotional torture is a sign of Esha's plotting being successful to a large extent.

I was skeptical about the coal scene but the justification in the precap won me over. The writing is like OG episodes. Why oh why is this show ending?

They should wait to play the things out….i had said in previous posts…from 15th raghav or pallavi may start getting the clues of isha’s game.

Originally posted by: dhara88

exactly life is all about timings….!!!! Agree…writers..😡How she can blame raghav ki uska man bhar gaya hai even after giving 100% to this relationship….How she can say raghav se pyar nahi mila?? Thats unfair…but this track was much needed…!! hope pallavi will Now respond to intimacy!

This track is heading there..

Woh sab chodo, she learned to do business from him???? When did this happen? He never involved her in his business matters and his illegal ways were not what she learned.

I'm so confused. Did I miss something?

Originally posted by: inlieu

I'm loving the parallels with these two and the Rajni track, very interesting that the audience isn't up in arms about Milind crossing lines.

Also, considering Raghav fell for her nature not her looks, speaking of him getting bored of her seemed below the belt but I understand that she is very hurt and doesn't know what to believe at this point.

Frankly Jean... In hurt people are bound to say that they don't intend to... Thats why when she said he doesn't love her or earlier she when she said that he might not like her the way she is, i didn't give much weightage... Because we as audience know that looks doesn't matter to RR.. Milind is not RR to blaze the guns... So viewers bhi bhool bhool... But tell me one thing... I didn't follow much on Milind and Rajani scenes... Is Rajani really different one?? I am hoping she is Sulo only and this way they want to white wash her???

Milind who replaced his wife with her lookalike is a great character witness for Raghav's fidelity to Pallavi.

Vijay who insisted on taking a loan against Sharada's wishes, and gave her an ultimatum that he would die if she went to look for Pallavi, can surely vouch that Raghav loves Pallavi too much to hurt her.

If Raghav loved Pallavi, it would be unthinkable to slit his wrist or walk on coals. If he loved her, he would recognize her love for him and know that hurting himself would cause her pain. Instead of egoistically declaring that no one can call his love false, as if it's all about him, he would think of Pallavi first. To whom can she talk without feeling ashamed? Who can console her? Has Raghav thought to confess to Siddhesh and Pavani?

Banging on a door is not love. Planning a murder is not love. Putting a gun to one's head is not love. Love doesn't just show up for the drama. Love is a consistent habit - a lover is self-motivated to call his wife and say, don't worry, I'm staying safe until I can come home to you.

True love is patient. A true lover wouldn't get drunk to avoid communicating with his wife. True love is trusting. A true lover wouldn't bruise his wife's arms because he saw her talking to a police officer. True love is quiet when it's time to listen. A true lover wouldn't gag his wife and throw her over his shoulder, just because she was babbling.

Actions speak louder than words, Raghav, and you've spoken enough.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Woh sab chodo, she learned to do business from him???? When did this happen? He never involved her in his business matters and his illegal ways were not what she learned.

I'm so confused. Did I miss something?

I think She meant to say that he asked her to design jewellery for him