A Cancerian male
Whatever he may tell you, however much he may deny it, solicits and enjoys being babied and fussed …Cancer men will never admit it, but they love to be petted and babied by females… especially by his mom or his love.
He is normally gentle, considerate, and courteous, almost old-fashioned in his attitude toward women, especially toward his own woman. She is, in a way, his possession, and Crabs value their possessions highly.Nonetheless, he may demand a great deal more than he gives on occasion,expecting every sniffle and every cranky spell to be lullabyed and rocked away.
He is unduly sensitive, and quite easily hurt. He’s not nearly so thick-skinned.
If allowed to go too far when there is an argument he’ll retreat into his shell, and no compromise is possible. Crabs hang on tenaciously to arguments and to their own opinions
He is a gentleman, and will blossom under the slightest praise and encouragement, keep reassuring him, until he has no more need.
The Crab expects it as his due, and never gives up seeking it. Respect, Understanding, Love, Affection,Appreciation.
The Crab is inclined to be shy as a young man, growing more confident and sure of himself, and developing a marvelous sense of humor as the years pass. He’s loaded with charm,he has a soft way of speaking, and a softly soothing manner – yet his mind is quick and clever, and he, too, possesses a very hard head. It’s been said that Cancer has a soft heart and a hard head.
Don’t expect this man to bare his soul when he first meets you. Cancerians never confide in strangers, and there are certain things even their best friends don’t know. It will take a long time and a fair amount of patience to really know him.
He can be flirtatious and fickle, but he can also be sensitive and loyal. Without warning, that wrinkled frown can be replaced by a gentle smile. His crabby complaints and gruff manner can warm slowly into a tender tone, just before he breaks into a deep chuckle, a muffled giggle or loud, hysterical lunar laughter. When he’s sad and wistful, you’ll want to put your arms around him, and soothe away his melancholy. When he’s showing off his sharp, intuitive mind, you’ll stare at him in awe.
Cancer man is true to himself. His nature never deviates from its basic mold, despite the changes of expression that play on his features. Always try to remember that although a Cancerian’s manner can be rough and aloof, his heart is always soft and affectionate, and so full of sentiment it often makes him feel too vulnerable.
If he asks to take your picture, don’t grab your babushka and run. Photography is a common lunar hobby Although, he may engage in light flirtations, it may be many years before he becomes seriously enamored,because it isn’t easy for him to find a woman he feels is worthy of his interest. When he finds her, he’ll be beautifully sentimental,and he’ll lavish her with gifts and admiration.
He’s naturally shy of rushing in, but once he’s sure, he won’t be easily rebuffed. Cancerians can play the role of the romantic lover artfully. After he’s declared himself, and has some hope of winning you,his timidity will switch to tenacity overnight, and you’ll find yourself being courted by an earnest, determined man who won’t take no as an answer for any proposal he has in mind. He’s likely to stuff himself in your mailbox(figuratively, of course), camp on your doormat and monopolize your phone.
Capricorn female
She can be ultra-feminine, flirtatious and charming enough to make a man feel like a giant grizzly bear who can protect her from the cold, cruel world. Or she can be icy, quiet and aloof, sitting securely on her marble pedestal and challenging you to be clever enough to win her superior hand. Whichever personality she projects,underneath her womanly wiles or her practical, sensible manner, she has the same goal-a steely determination to snag the right man, who can become important, make her proud!!
Don’t be misled into thinking she’ll never sacrifice her career for marriage. Just give this girl half a chance to be a social leader and the mistress of a well-run household,and you’ll see how quickly she loses interest in her job (one of the few things she’ll do quickly). If you need her to, the Capricorn woman will gladly continue working to help you climb up the mountain of success-she won’t be lazy. Otherwise, however, she’s happier enjoying her position as your wife,provided the position is a good one, and there’s enough financial security.
Capricorn women have a fresh beauty of their own. You’ll rarely find one who’s not unusually attractive. Yet they are timid and unsure about their appearance, and you may find them needing constant reassurance that they’re pretty.
Patiently help your Capricorn woman overcome her lack of personal confidence. She’s not unimaginative just because she doesn’t court delusion. Try on a couple of her practical dreams for size, and you’ll find they’re surprisingly comfortable. Stubbornness may be one of her vices,but she’s not a whiner or a nervous nag. She’ll push you toward success, yet be tender and devoted.
She’s a typical Capricorn, she’s probably rather quiet and demure, even self-effacing. Always willing to help out in a time of trouble. (Goats are truly superlative in a crisis. Emergencies are their specialties, and bring out the very best in their characters.) Still, she won’tallow herself to be used beyond a reasonable limit, not even for the sake of love.
She has a strong mind of her own. This is not a lady to flutter her lashes and hint about anything.What she really wants, she will either ask for directly – or go after, tooth and nail. What she likes, she will simply take, what she dislikes, she will remove from her life, in short order. There’s nothing pliable or submissive about her. She doesn’t noisily struggle against things which upset her. She just tunes it out, then takes care to avoid the person or situation, sometimes permanently.
The Capricorn woman is inclined to be rather plain as a girl, growing visibly more beautiful as the years pass, one of her ruler Saturn’s rare,but solid rewards. Along with her beauty, however, comes a very hard head (also a gift from Saturn).She is no mere fluff of feminine fancy. This girl is fortified with fortitude –and lots of it.
There’s no denying that wisdom, caution, and self-protection are the Capricorn female’s inheritances from her ruling planet, Saturn, but she is, for all that, a woman… with all the feelings,all the dreams and longings of a woman. Femininity needn’t be synonymous with culpability. She possesses a timid (therefore, ultra-appealing) sort of sentiment, the kind which is all the more touching because it’s not indulged in casually. It’s not phony, but very real, and comes from her also very real heart.
Their bonding
A Cancerian male,whatever he may tell you, however much he may deny it, solicits and enjoys being babied and fussed over, and could at times take advantage of the Capricorn girl’s strong sense of responsibility. Cappy will try hard to please the man she loves, without complaints or self-pity, but if he requires her to lean too far over backward to cope with his changing moods she’ll balk, no matter how much she loves him.
The Capricorn woman is not unduly sensitive, and so she may have to be careful with the Crab, because he is unduly sensitive, and quite easily hurt. He’s not nearly so thick-skinned as she is. If she should criticize or seriously contradict him,he usually won’t let the matter rest until she “takes it back,” tells him she loves him, and confesses that he has no real faults as far as she’s concerned.He’ll first try cajoling or being humorous, making little half-hearted jokes about it, then he’ll turn to stronger hints, and as a last resort – pouting.He’ll have all sorts of reasons to offer to defend his position, for this man will not rest in peace and calm until there is some sort of agreement after a quarrel.
The Capricorn woman will have to keep reassuring him, until he has no more need to force her to admit what a grand person he is, and how she adores him.
Cancer and Capricorn take their physical closeness as seriously as they do everything else, yet it’s hard for them to let on to each other what their intimacy really means to them. She’ll say simply, “Look at the way that sunbeam touches the top of the pine tree. I can almost smell the needles from here. Shall we take a walk?” – when what she really means is….after we’ve been close, I feel so special, and the world looks so much brighter.
He’ll reply only,“Yes, let’s take a walk. You’re right. It is a beautiful morning” – when what he’s really saying is, you’re beautiful…I love you. Their relationship, especially if their Sun-Moon aspects are harmonious,can be rich and meaningful, the sort of deep experience that results from the powerful pull of those bar magnets of their astrological polarity – the opposition of their Sun Signs. It can be, in fact, so sacred to them, that sometimes they’re even uncertain if such passion really happened, or they only dreamed it.
The Goat Girl is sensible enough to realize that yesterday always appears more beautiful in dreams than it was in actuality so she’s more interested in creating a real present, which is the way yesterday only seems to have been, a solid improvement over the past. After all, the past didn’t include their discovery of each other. But the present does, and so,now, will the future. When she turns his vivid Lunar imagination around from yesterday toward tomorrow, they’ll be traveling in the spiral direction of the Circle, wherein is contained the alpha and omega answer to the riddle of love.
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