Reason why Anupama is blamed always

D reason for which Anupama is blamed always by jhooladevi , kursiraj , Toshu is that she is their punching bag as well as problem solver .

I noticed in some old episode which includes rakhi d 3 idiots were blaming Anu later she finds a solution & it worked so Toshu was praising her by saying mummy ne phir sab sahi kar diya .

So they blame Anu so that she finds a solution for them as jhooladevi & kursiraj has huge ego they can only create problems but can't find solution.

Before anuj entry when kavya gave rakhi check before her meeting to Anuj regarding karkhana deal later when deal was not successful she feared cheque will bounce coz of no amount in her account she req Anu to deal with rakhi as she know how to handle her .

I feel this is d main reason of blaming Anu for their wrong deeds in order to get a solution of her .

Deep down Toshu also knows that the allegations that he is putting on his mother are all rubbish but then he is his Papa's son...just as vanraj blamed kavya and baa for whatever happened between him and dolly he also blamed anupamaa without thinking much

Later on he blamed Anuj also ki us ki wajah se us ki maa par aise gande ilzaam lage aur us k character par ungli uthaya gaya....I was like dude pehle decide kar le tu ki kehna kya chahta hai....are you blaming anupamaa for doing aashiqui with Anuj or are you blaming Anuj for making his mom's life tough😂😂😂

Bhai us bande ko khud nahi pata ki us ka stand kya hai....he is just frustrated to jo mooh me aaya bak diya🤢

I don't know why vanraj and Toshu always assume that volume will succeed when logic won't...bas chillana chaalu kar dete hai zor zor se jab koi in se koi logical question karta hai🤡

The Shahs are terrible problem solvers because they dont think for a minute the cause and effect of issues. They live in ivory tower of fantasy that all is well as their life goes on unaffected.

The moment something happens to shatter their world of make believe, they need a scapegoat. Their accusations are so bizarre and demeaning that for the sake of her sanity and peace all around Anupama always thought out solutions.

The problem is solved and they go back to their old ways without finding a solution.

There are folks who when they suffer like others to suffer too. All his life whenever he has been in pain it was Anupama that tried her best to alleviate his pain. So much so he never got into the habit f analysing problems. Remember the way he kept running when he got his panic attack when Kinjal thought of breaking up. It was Samar who restrained him and Anupama that tended him. His coping mechanism was to get drunk and scream at all. The ones left in Tamashah House are worse Problem solver so like a 4 year old he comes whining to his mom and resorts to hurting her so that he has company in his suffering.

Once Anupama gets o know and he guilt tripped her she would not hesitate to go on her knees.He does not want others offering their point of view as like his papa and his Mama, he only wants to see what he wants to see, hear what he wants to hear.

Well said

Actually in reality also people starts to shout or start blame game instead of finding solutions I don't understand what people get from shouting or blame game . Be calm try to find a solution

Again in this case anu dont have anything to do coz she never asked Kinjal to stay back its solely kinjal's decision or I can say stubbornness which till date I could not understand Kinjal wanting to stay with shah house even when anu left .

Anu can't do anything in it coz she can't force Kinjal to move in to penthouse .

absolutely. Ladla and his ladla love to play the victim card. They cant think beyond themselves.