*~*TAZBU (SaiShi and RaghVi) AT 18*~* Ghar More Pardesiya - Page 94

Originally posted by: Trina2021

Really hope so . I don’t want that woman to gain any sympathy for even a minute from anyone of Rao family . Also that bts with Raghav & Amma was confusing . I thought Amma is going to give him a big one like she gave to Easha but here she’s consoling him and crying for him . Ab uski khudki beta bhi to thi na hotel room mein with Easha . Then how some Easha gets slaps and violence while Her own son gets consolation ?🤔

It is because as a mom she knows what Pallavi means to Raghav and she now knows that the ONS might mean Raghav and Pallavi might never reconcile. As a parent we are always partial to our children - yes you know they have erred but you just can not stop being their support system. That is why they say the love of Parents towards their children is unconditional. We might have n number of conditions but when it comes to our kids every thing takes a back seat because at that point all you are concerned about is how to reduce your child's sufferings. Doesn't make Amma Rao bad or unjust - it just is the way it is in real too.

Originally posted by: fria319

Idk. I don’t think they’re going to do a fake pregnancy drama. They’re already showing her take poison (that’s fake). What are they going to show she did that bc she got pregnant and didn’t know what to do? Idk. Seems far fetched. What would make Pallavi then realize that E planned it all and find out the truth?

I think the bts with Amma and Raghav kneeling is him asking forgiveness from his mom for once again messing up. And crying to her that he doesn’t know how to be without Pallavi etc.

Episode thoughts - it was good. Glad Pallavi is working to be her own person - everyone has wanted that for a very long time. They’re showing Pallavis conflict really well.

I’ll never understand what people don’t get about deeply loving someone. Even if that person hurts you the most, you still care for them. Betrayal doesn’t negate love. There’s a whole process to stop loving someone and even then I don’t think you truly ever do. You can stop being in love with someone but I don’t think you stop loving them as a person. And even then the love won’t just stop in one day. Pallavi can’t turn off that switch in one day.

Precap. Eh. Pallavi defending Esha - is she going to assume Esha was the innocent one? Idk how I feel about that. I hope not. I get stopping R from hitting E but it’s not like P ever stopped him before - like from hitting K. Twice.

Did the writers gain a conscious. Lol.

There were some rumblings about emotional blackmail from Raghav on MF. I feel two ways about this. Because I understand what people are saying. I’ve been in a situation where my bf at the time messed up. I wouldn’t hear a word of his explanation I was already at my limit and this instance pushed me over and I broke up with him. The entire time everyone was telling me to give him a second chance, him crying asking for a second chance all felt like emotional blackmail. I knew he had to do it for himself, to tell himself he tried to salvage the relationship, but I didn’t want to hear it. So I get it. It does feel like emotional blackmail/manipulation at times.

But I also get the other side - no one who loves their partner and still wants them is going to easily give up on their relationship. It would be unnatural to just give up just because she left. The only time Raghav can or should really give up is if Pallavi completely ends it - I.e returns the mangalsutra, swipes her sindoor and hands him divorce papers. She says she won’t forgive him but she hasn’t immediately asked for a divorce yet or a formal separation. Tbh if she didn’t want him anymore, that’s what she’d at least say. But truly, she’s conflicted and speaking in her rightful anger, sadness and frustration right now. She needs a moment to gather herself and her thoughts and decide what she wants for her future. Bc she can’t be in limbo with him. So eventually they’re going to have to reach a point where she decided to truly leave or truly stay.

If raghav really loves esha and slept on his own will then there is no point for pallavi to stick to this relationship. Here raghav told many times on Esha face he loves only his wife and he regret that night. No matter how hard is he should have told pallavi which he didn't done and he is facing his consequence now. Pallavi don't deserve any of this and deep inside she knows raghav only loves her but he broke her trust.

Here both husband and wife love each other unconditionally and esha took advantage of raghav, which needs to be out on open.. pallavi left raghav and she also told she hates him. On one night did everything will change???

Raghav will go dead end for pallavi and pallavi how much hard she try she can't stop loving him, yes he broke her trust and she hates him, angry, disappointed all emotions ragging on her but still love is their on both sides and that's what will bind them together. When love is so deep and they value themselves so much, relationship can't be end just like that. Why she didn't asked divorce then?? Because she can't.. love will over power every emotion and same love won't allow opposite person to forgive easily for their mistakes that's what pallavi going through now and top of it raghav isn't making easy for her, he don't leave any chance to get her forgiveness back.

Good she is trying to focus on herself otherwise anyone will go crap because of depression and pain but on back mind she always think of him.. As a wife I really get it what pallavi going through. No one easily won't give up their relationship or marriage just like that. It's hard but that's what a life is..

Fria - always do what you want and which makes you happy. Hope you doing good now..

Originally posted by: Trina2021

Really hope so . I don’t want that woman to gain any sympathy for even a minute from anyone of Rao family . Also that bts with Raghav & Amma was confusing . I thought Amma is going to give him a big one like she gave to Easha but here she’s consoling him and crying for him . Ab uski khudki beta bhi to thi na hotel room mein with Easha . Then how some Easha gets slaps and violence while Her own son gets consolation ?🤔

For a change I am ok with Amma consoling RR.

It is out of character as she has always been the first one to pelt a stone at her son. But someone has to drill that sense to him. Farhad is also out now.

I want Raghvi con, morning after and a few happy scenes before curtains are down.

Ru, pls do ur thing, thank yo!!!

Today is last day of shoot

Confirm by jai in his live

Originally posted by: Trina2021

Really hope so . I don’t want that woman to gain any sympathy for even a minute from anyone of Rao family . Also that bts with Raghav & Amma was confusing . I thought Amma is going to give him a big one like she gave to Easha but here she’s consoling him and crying for him . Ab uski khudki beta bhi to thi na hotel room mein with Easha . Then how some Easha gets slaps and violence while Her own son gets consolation ?🤔

Pallavi is there to do the honors right. Probably the only unique one piece mil who enjoyed watching her son get beaten up by her dil. My all time favorite side character Amma Rao 😂😂😂😂

Going to miss this show so much.😢

Originally posted by: sai2311

For a change I am ok with Amma consoling RR.

It is out of character as she has always been the first one to pelt a stone at her son. But someone has to drill that sense to him. Farhad is also out now.

We do not have the same expectations from everyone - Similarly we do not feel the pain of others as much as we feel the pain of our children. Amma knows what Pallavi means to Raghav and yes with the ONS truth out she knows that Raghav might never get Pallavi back in his life. At that point as a mother what should she do ? Abandon him again to his own fate ? or stand with him and console him? She can see that Raghav is truly repenting and whatever happened was a genuine mistake as she knows that Raghav does not love Esha. And none of them know that in the drunken unconsciousness Raghav kept on calling out to Pallavi - I really want that part to also come out. That Raghav was calling out to Pallavi but Esha still went ahead and took advantage of him.

I feel Amma will say to Pallavi that it is up to you whether you want to accept Raghav or not and that is why Raghav is crying. Pallavi will go away to D house and Raghav is like totally lost and Amma might be consoling him. I don't think Amma is going to force Pallavi to be with Raghav after the ONS is out that is because she loves Pallavi and Raghav both equally and she knows that she can't force Pallavi to be with Raghav after this kaand.

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Today is last day of shoot

Confirm by jai in his live

Oh really - Do you have the live ? Someone was supposed to visit the sets na. Please get some good news about last day of shoot.

Originally posted by: fria319

Idk. I don’t think they’re going to do a fake pregnancy drama. They’re already showing her take poison (that’s fake). What are they going to show she did that bc she got pregnant and didn’t know what to do? Idk. Seems far fetched. What would make Pallavi then realize that E planned it all and find out the truth?

Yes we don't have time left to show pregnancy drama, of they wanted to stretch the track, it made sense.

I think the bts with Amma and Raghav kneeling is him asking forgiveness from his mom for once again messing up. And crying to her that he doesn’t know how to be without Pallavi etc. I want Amma to console him and not judge him, hear his whole truth. She's the reason he's so messed up rn, she needs to rise to the ocassion and be the mother he deserves.

Episode thoughts - it was good. Glad Pallavi is working to be her own person - everyone has wanted that for a very long time. They’re showing Pallavis conflict really well.

I’ll never understand what people don’t get about deeply loving someone. Even if that person hurts you the most, you still care for them. Betrayal doesn’t negate love. There’s a whole process to stop loving someone and even then I don’t think you truly ever do. You can stop being in love with someone but I don’t think you stop loving them as a person. And even then the love won’t just stop in one day. Pallavi can’t turn off that switch in one day. Yes I'm glad that they didn't show her switched off from next day. The conflict, the turmoil all was needed, she will take time to come to terms with it.

Precap. Eh. Pallavi defending Esha - is she going to assume Esha was the innocent one? Idk how I feel about that. I hope not. I get stopping R from hitting E but it’s not like P ever stopped him before - like from hitting K. Twice. I think she just wants to tell Raghav that he was the married party and hence he can't pass the guilt to Esha. He is equally if not more responsible. It's more of her righteousness speaking. I'm waiting for P to trash E once the truth of is out.

Did the writers gain a conscious. Lol.

There were some rumblings about emotional blackmail from Raghav on MF. I feel two ways about this. Because I understand what people are saying. I’ve been in a situation where my bf at the time messed up. I wouldn’t hear a word of his explanation I was already at my limit and this instance pushed me over and I broke up with him. The entire time everyone was telling me to give him a second chance, him crying asking for a second chance all felt like emotional blackmail. I knew he had to do it for himself, to tell himself he tried to salvage the relationship, but I didn’t want to hear it. So I get it. It does feel like emotional blackmail/manipulation at times.

But I also get the other side - no one who loves their partner and still wants them is going to easily give up on their relationship. It would be unnatural to just give up just because she left. The only time Raghav can or should really give up is if Pallavi completely ends it - I.e returns the mangalsutra, swipes her sindoor and hands him divorce papers. She says she won’t forgive him but she hasn’t immediately asked for a divorce yet or a formal separation. Tbh if she didn’t want him anymore, that’s what she’d at least say. But truly, she’s conflicted and speaking in her rightful anger, sadness and frustration right now. She needs a moment to gather herself and her thoughts and decide what she wants for her future. Bc she can’t be in limbo with him. So eventually they’re going to have to reach a point where she decided to truly leave or truly stay.

Regarding emotional blackmail, I understand Fria how him just pestering Pallavi can come across as not giving her a chance to decide what she wants to do but you know who gives up on their relationship. Raghav hasn't been able to tell her the whole truth, how sorry he is, how difficult it was for him to lie and why he lied, his insecurities and fears that are deeply ingrained in the deepest corners of his heart, he needs to bare his soul open to her. She needs to hear all that - not to forgive him but to understand him.

Yes, Pallavi knows she won't return but I don't think she'll ever think of going as far as asking for a divorce. She's not impulsive like Raghav. She will take her time to come to terms and only then decide what she wants to do.