Anuj confession promo a Disappointment

The entire forum is so active on Anuj Confession. A forced confession that too to the Villain gang of four is totally unjustified to the artistically , slowly, gently Sculptured character Anuj Kapadia. For 26 years, the man is doing pooja to his Love. A man who very conciously avoiding even remote mention of Love. A man who was afraid that has he done or spoke anything wrong during his sickness or drunk state . A man who never wants to cross line, The most successful business man whose one eyebrow brings shiver to the opponent ..... just absorbs all kind of insults and humiliation from a family just because it is "HER" family. A Man who genuinely interested in the growth of HER.. A man who treats HER like a flower.... OMG ... .. When all these days we only want Anupama to confess first ... that too slowly ... after fully recovering from the toxic impact of her 26 years of abuse... Understanding the man... love ... and then the realisation and the grand confession s beautiful as it was carried by the MAN all these years..... ?

Why CVs ... a forced confession from Anuj that too to the dirty four ... Why? have yoy thought of How this instigated anger , a reflex action would affect this MAN for ever if the consequences are bad?

That's what I've been crying about in my recent posts.

I totally agree

Yes. I wish this is just a nightmare of Anupama ... just to kindle her senses.

I am totally disappointed looking at promo

1) everything looked so rush. I mean it's been only 2 months to his entry and they are showing for confession in such a horrific manner to useless people who don't even understand the meaning of love.

2) I am so so so angry that they are turning Anuj to Anupama part 2. Just because now there is no anupama to hear taunt toh Anuj ko daal do ? Why does he say jo kehna hai mujhe bolo. Why?? He didn't come back while Anupamaa was married he came after her divorce and that too is within his boundaries. Why the hell he let Vanraj show holding his collar. I wish Anuj would give him a very angry stare and told him leave his collar and called police and got Vanraj arrested. One night in jail and 2-3 slaps from police would get all these 4 stupid ppl set to place. They would dare not mess up directly with Anupamaa.

3) I wished the makers would show Anupamaa falling in love. At night thinking about him, wanting to spend time with him. Why can't they show that women can fall in love ? She proposing him. It would have been so different and inspiring for divorce and Middle age women too you can have a partner at any age. I am part of fb moms group, I see women posting they are divorced but wonder if they can ever get a partner or marry again. I

The makers are so rushed and for drama they have so many possibilities, rakhi Dave, kavya making baa do house hold stuff , vanraj Cafe burning down, vanraj going bankrupt , vanraj begging anupama for help. Baa begging anupama

Literally what I said in another post. Bear with me since this is going to be a long reply-

1) Some things I don't get about AK:

AK is supposed to be one of India's richest and most powerful, he doesn't have to take any of Shah's nonsense. There is a clear dichotomy in the way his character was introduced initially and is being written now and disappointed with the way they have shaped AK's character.

With him being Gujrat's richest businessman, he should be anything but helpless. With the kind of money, influence and power he has, it should be incredibly easy for him to f*ck somebody over in India and as far as the Shahs are concerned, AK doesn't even need to go full force.

Understandably he might be reluctant to do anything that may hurt Anu indirectly but are you seriously telling me that one of the top businessman in the country, presumably ruthless and shrewd (in his Business dealings at the very least to get where he is) would become a doormat to Shah's daily humiliation?

I get he doesn't want to go full force on the Shahs due to Anupama and that she would never support him, especially if it affects her kids in anyway. Surely, logically the first step would be to get them out of the way. Samar has already left the house and is more or less independent- if the dance academy isn't bringing in enough money, AK could easily get him employed in one of his ventures. That would leave Kinjal and Paritosh, striking a deal with Rakhi to get Paritosh on a leash and convincing Kinjal shouldn't be that difficult. Pakhi is young and still in school for her to be really affected by the ongoing drama at home. She could always move in with her mother if things get too rough for her at the Shah house. Once they're out of the way all he has to is get his legal team to pressure the Shahs into backing off and stopping their everyday drama.

A defamation case isn't something Anupama can argue against because she has acknowledged the Shahs haven't treated him right or even buying out the Karkhaana for that matter and allowing the Sha's to remain there and run their restaurant with the reminder that their livelihood can easily be take away if they don't watch their behaviour.

Honestly, I am kind of disappointed with the way they have shaped AK's character, I wish the writers would get their act together and start focusing on the quality and continuity of writing.

2) The love confession promo:

As for Anuj, him admitting he loves Anupama to the Shahs, I don't find it problematic since Anu wouldn't believe the Shahs. Vanraj, Kavya and Ba have been going on about Anuj being in love with her since his entry so at this point, to her it would seem like another one of those jealous rants, but Anupama finding out/overhearing him confessing does seem very premature.

It is very likely it could turn into one of those U-turn confessions where Anuj could always turn around and say: Yes, ok since all of you want to hear I love Anu and if that's what its going to get you to back off and leave her alone then yeah I do love her now back off and leave her and me alone.

3) What the writers have failed massively on:

IMO Anupama hasnt even been given the breathing space to live her life independently, adjust to her new circumstances and come to terms with life as an independent single woman. I wish the writers would focus more on Anupama's journey, her growth as an individual and how the dynamic between her and Anuj changes over time.

They could bring in the drama by showing the struggle she has to face by living on her own, working in a corporate environment, maybe she could go back to part time education or learn English and this could cause conflict with Pakhi as she joins the same college and becomes embarrassed by her mother. They could bring in Rakhi as a business partner for AK's Indian ventures and use that as a point for drama or get Vanraj to join AK's office due to the restaurant shutting down.

The possibilities are endless.

This is supposed to be Anupama's journey and instead of focusing on a venomous mother in law or a helpless father in law or the jealous new wife of her ex-husband, the primary focus needs to shift to Anupama and her journey with these characters stirring up drama every now and then. Once the focus shifts, it would be interesting to see the dynamic change between her and Anuj, albeit slowly and not as rushed as they are trying to make it currently

I agree. Somehow the makers are Obsessed with Shah family. As you said such a powerful man could have done anything indirectly but may be that would be slightly in conflict of his approach towards Anupama.

the primary focus needs to shift to Anupama and her journey

Yes. This is what is needed and to make this whole built up of Anupama's growth story.

I understand your anger on the CVs wish the CVs also understand.

Originally posted by: Moongdal

I am totally disappointed looking at promo

1) everything looked so rush. I mean it's been only 2 months to his entry and they are showing for confession in such a horrific manner to useless people who don't even understand the meaning of love.

2) I am so so so angry that they are turning Anuj to Anupama part 2. Just because now there is no anupama to hear taunt toh Anuj ko daal do ? Why does he say jo kehna hai mujhe bolo. Why?? He didn't come back while Anupamaa was married he came after her divorce and that too is within his boundaries. Why the hell he let Vanraj show holding his collar. I wish Anuj would give him a very angry stare and told him leave his collar and called police and got Vanraj arrested. One night in jail and 2-3 slaps from police would get all these 4 stupid ppl set to place. They would dare not mess up directly with Anupamaa.

3) I wished the makers would show Anupamaa falling in love. At night thinking about him, wanting to spend time with him. Why can't they show that women can fall in love ? She proposing him. It would have been so different and inspiring for divorce and Middle age women too you can have a partner at any age. I am part of fb moms group, I see women posting they are divorced but wonder if they can ever get a partner or marry again. I

The makers are so rushed and for drama they have so many possibilities, rakhi Dave, kavya making baa do house hold stuff , vanraj Cafe burning down, vanraj going bankrupt , vanraj begging anupama for help. Baa begging anupama

The last para of your post cracked me up🤣🤣 vanraj ka cafe jale, vanraj jale, baa gidgidaye, beta and bahu gidgidae🤣. Makes agar drame kw fan h toh you are such an anti-shah🤣. No offense, main bhi same hu😆

Originally posted by: --Priya--

Literally what I said in another post. Bear with me since this is going to be a long reply-

1) Some things I don't get about AK:

AK is supposed to be one of India's richest and most powerful, he doesn't have to take any of Shah's nonsense. There is a clear dichotomy in the way his character was introduced initially and is being written now and disappointed with the way they have shaped AK's character.

With him being Gujrat's richest businessman, he should be anything but helpless. With the kind of money, influence and power he has, it should be incredibly easy for him to f*ck somebody over in India and as far as the Shahs are concerned, AK doesn't even need to go full force.

Understandably he might be reluctant to do anything that may hurt Anu indirectly but are you seriously telling me that one of the top businessman in the country, presumably ruthless and shrewd (in his Business dealings at the very least to get where he is) would become a doormat to Shah's daily humiliation?

I get he doesn't want to go full force on the Shahs due to Anupama and that she would never support him, especially if it affects her kids in anyway. Surely, logically the first step would be to get them out of the way. Samar has already left the house and is more or less independent- if the dance academy isn't bringing in enough money, AK could easily get him employed in one of his ventures. That would leave Kinjal and Paritosh, striking a deal with Rakhi to get Paritosh on a leash and convincing Kinjal shouldn't be that difficult. Pakhi is young and still in school for her to be really affected by the ongoing drama at home. She could always move in with her mother if things get too rough for her at the Shah house. Once they're out of the way all he has to is get his legal team to pressure the Shahs into backing off and stopping their everyday drama.

A defamation case isn't something Anupama can argue against because she has acknowledged the Shahs haven't treated him right or even buying out the Karkhaana for that matter and allowing the Sha's to remain there and run their restaurant with the reminder that their livelihood can easily be take away if they don't watch their behaviour.

Honestly, I am kind of disappointed with the way they have shaped AK's character, I wish the writers would get their act together and start focusing on the quality and continuity of writing.

2) The love confession promo:

As for Anuj, him admitting he loves Anupama to the Shahs, I don't find it problematic since Anu wouldn't believe the Shahs. Vanraj, Kavya and Ba have been going on about Anuj being in love with her since his entry so at this point, to her it would seem like another one of those jealous rants, but Anupama finding out/overhearing him confessing does seem very premature.

It is very likely it could turn into one of those U-turn confessions where Anuj could always turn around and say: Yes, ok since all of you want to hear I love Anu and if that's what its going to get you to back off and leave her alone then yeah I do love her now back off and leave her and me alone.

3) What the writers have failed massively on:

IMO Anupama hasnt even been given the breathing space to live her life independently, adjust to her new circumstances and come to terms with life as an independent single woman. I wish the writers would focus more on Anupama's journey, her growth as an individual and how the dynamic between her and Anuj changes over time.

They could bring in the drama by showing the struggle she has to face by living on her own, working in a corporate environment, maybe she could go back to part time education or learn English and this could cause conflict with Pakhi as she joins the same college and becomes embarrassed by her mother. They could bring in Rakhi as a business partner for AK's Indian ventures and use that as a point for drama or get Vanraj to join AK's office due to the restaurant shutting down.

The possibilities are endless.

This is supposed to be Anupama's journey and instead of focusing on a venomous mother in law or a helpless father in law or the jealous new wife of her ex-husband, the primary focus needs to shift to Anupama and her journey with these characters stirring up drama every now and then. Once the focus shifts, it would be interesting to see the dynamic change between her and Anuj, albeit slowly and not as rushed as they are trying to make it currently

So well written ! I wrote about this in another thread & it seems most people want these things too - realistic and scenes without compromise. This is anu’s story .. we want to see her growth and evolution

also, Anuj with his swag - he needs to let people see the Mr. Anuj Kapadia. We see he’s Anupama’s soulmate but we also need to see him putting people in their place.

Originally posted by: --Priya--

Literally what I said in another post. Bear with me since this is going to be a long reply-

1) Some things I don't get about AK:

AK is supposed to be one of India's richest and most powerful, he doesn't have to take any of Shah's nonsense. There is a clear dichotomy in the way his character was introduced initially and is being written now and disappointed with the way they have shaped AK's character.

With him being Gujrat's richest businessman, he should be anything but helpless. With the kind of money, influence and power he has, it should be incredibly easy for him to f*ck somebody over in India and as far as the Shahs are concerned, AK doesn't even need to go full force.

Understandably he might be reluctant to do anything that may hurt Anu indirectly but are you seriously telling me that one of the top businessman in the country, presumably ruthless and shrewd (in his Business dealings at the very least to get where he is) would become a doormat to Shah's daily humiliation?

I get he doesn't want to go full force on the Shahs due to Anupama and that she would never support him, especially if it affects her kids in anyway. Surely, logically the first step would be to get them out of the way. Samar has already left the house and is more or less independent- if the dance academy isn't bringing in enough money, AK could easily get him employed in one of his ventures. That would leave Kinjal and Paritosh, striking a deal with Rakhi to get Paritosh on a leash and convincing Kinjal shouldn't be that difficult. Pakhi is young and still in school for her to be really affected by the ongoing drama at home. She could always move in with her mother if things get too rough for her at the Shah house. Once they're out of the way all he has to is get his legal team to pressure the Shahs into backing off and stopping their everyday drama.

A defamation case isn't something Anupama can argue against because she has acknowledged the Shahs haven't treated him right or even buying out the Karkhaana for that matter and allowing the Sha's to remain there and run their restaurant with the reminder that their livelihood can easily be take away if they don't watch their behaviour.

Honestly, I am kind of disappointed with the way they have shaped AK's character, I wish the writers would get their act together and start focusing on the quality and continuity of writing.

2) The love confession promo:

As for Anuj, him admitting he loves Anupama to the Shahs, I don't find it problematic since Anu wouldn't believe the Shahs. Vanraj, Kavya and Ba have been going on about Anuj being in love with her since his entry so at this point, to her it would seem like another one of those jealous rants, but Anupama finding out/overhearing him confessing does seem very premature.

It is very likely it could turn into one of those U-turn confessions where Anuj could always turn around and say: Yes, ok since all of you want to hear I love Anu and if that's what its going to get you to back off and leave her alone then yeah I do love her now back off and leave her and me alone.

3) What the writers have failed massively on:

IMO Anupama hasnt even been given the breathing space to live her life independently, adjust to her new circumstances and come to terms with life as an independent single woman. I wish the writers would focus more on Anupama's journey, her growth as an individual and how the dynamic between her and Anuj changes over time.

They could bring in the drama by showing the struggle she has to face by living on her own, working in a corporate environment, maybe she could go back to part time education or learn English and this could cause conflict with Pakhi as she joins the same college and becomes embarrassed by her mother. They could bring in Rakhi as a business partner for AK's Indian ventures and use that as a point for drama or get Vanraj to join AK's office due to the restaurant shutting down.

The possibilities are endless.

This is supposed to be Anupama's journey and instead of focusing on a venomous mother in law or a helpless father in law or the jealous new wife of her ex-husband, the primary focus needs to shift to Anupama and her journey with these characters stirring up drama every now and then. Once the focus shifts, it would be interesting to see the dynamic change between her and Anuj, albeit slowly and not as rushed as they are trying to make it currently

BOLD - very good points and we want to see her really really grow, become confident, understand her worth, love herself, respect herself, and then see how that endless support that stands beside her at every turn also deserves her love!!

hope its not a dream of vanraj or anuj.did the same happen in kusum dola?