Applause for Sam n BK - Page 3

Originally posted by: Nja91

I hope that even after hesitation briefly due to the brutal reminder of their current status n their strained dynamic he will call Sai as his wife. I'm gonna be really pissed n upset/sad if he says anything else....theres really no use of this while soulmate, bhagwaan hand in Sairat marriage n being together n Devis superstition if Virat doesn't even acknowledge her as wife ....

Originally posted by: Potterhead3009

I absolutely agree with you and this is one of the reasons I primarily fell in love with Virat as a character. Also the reason Sanrat is one of my favourites. I just didn't remember the last time Virat took a stand. So, my reply was more of a shot at the way they are writing story and dialogues for him very selectively rather than me criticising Virat as a whole. Because today, I wished he spoke a word. At least one.

You are also right... if we see as in real time, it's been more than 2 months we got good SaiRat scenes or Virat taking stand for Sai and shutting people up.... not only you, many of us even forget that SaiRat had so many beautiful moments.... this track has took toll on all of us and it will take time to come out of it or forget it yo enjoy SaiRat like before...

Even I wish today he would have spoke something or the other as she was gonna put their personal matter in public... I guess he was apprehensive to speak to Pakhi or reply to her infront of all citing to their past... if he calls her he should address as tum and not aap.. and in relation she is his bhabhi... and also if he says something it will be an insult to her which he don't want to do in public citing to his moral values (although she deserves much more) as even Samrat is present there when he can do the job why to even reply to Pakhi..... and Sai has already done for their side, so it's over from his side. ( I could not understand how to put my POV about his POV, hope you understand)

This is strictly my POV and I am not supporting Virat, and whatever may be situation, he would have spoke something in his own polite way...

Originally posted by: Nja91

I'm gonna run the risk of speaking for Potterhead n myself (hopefully I am not wrong about potterhead's opinion! ) to say that we all acknowledge that Virat HAS taken a stand for Sai. But its just that we cant remember the last time he did so🙈😅. Until accident there was many many days of so much negativity n mute spectator behavior that we cant remember the last time Virat spoke up n took a stand for his wife firmly n consistently.

Hey.. even I said samething in my reply to her comment... it's been very long that we forget what good has happened before anniversary track.... seriously it all took toll on us and takes time to one out of it and see SaiRat like before...

There is something about some actors wether they act so mean or so well you just love it, like neilsha , kishori mam is also an actor who brilliantly plays all shades of a character. I loved her character when she was mean now when she has been better than old bk , ho can't we love her.

Lekin ek baat hai i dont understand ki pakhi ki problem hai kya, sai ko virat care kare tab dikkat hai hi, lekin jab samrat, ashwini , bk ,ninad devi sab uski parvah hai tab bhi dikkat hai. pakhi aur karishma itna jealous hote sai sa, unhe yeh tak dhyan nhi rehta usne un sabka pyaar hasil kiya hai, free mai nhi mila pakhi ki trh. Uski struggle ni dikhti , they should be ashamed to be called woman.Sonali also.

Makers had gone too far in their copy paste n their angsty drama that they have kinda killed the essence of Sairat a little bit especially of Virat as a person/character. Now they are finally trying to get back some romance, some yearning, some Sairat moments again....lets just hope they do a good job.

Originally posted by: ssoujanya

You are also right... if we see as in real time, it's been more than 2 months we got good SaiRat scenes or Virat taking stand for Sai and shutting people up.... not only you, many of us even forget that SaiRat had so many beautiful moments.... this track has took toll on all of us and it will take time to come out of it or forget it yo enjoy SaiRat like before...

Even I wish today he would have spoke something or the other as she was gonna put their personal matter in public... I guess he was apprehensive to speak to Pakhi or reply to her infront of all citing to their past... if he calls her he should address as tum and not aap.. and in relation she is his bhabhi... and also if he says something it will be an insult to her which he don't want to do in public citing to his moral values (although she deserves much more) as even Samrat is present there when he can do the job why to even reply to Pakhi..... and Sai has already done for their side, so it's over from his side. ( I could not understand how to put my POV about his POV, hope you understand)

This is strictly my POV and I am not supporting Virat, and whatever may be situation, he would have spoke something in his own polite way...

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I agree with you! Lets not judge his love for Sai for his weakness. He has shown/proven his love way too many times. But his weakness is what he is enduring the fruits of. He did mistakes, and was responsible for what happened today. Sai too was responsible, but his withstanding of Pakhi made her behave that way and her inexperience in these matters made it worser.

Virat is a private person, he is silent for several reasons one including his reluctance to speak about his past with pakhi or allude to it in public. He never stopped Sai from fighting her own battles. Last time he shut up pakhi, rather very harshly was on the birthday night, inspite of Sai disowing him.

Today I felt his hurt more than Sai. He loves her, and realizes it too. He has this constant fear that Sai might not love him back. Now living in separate rooms is painful and shameful for the person for whom this marriage is so important. I feel for him deeply today. But what is love without these tests!!

PS: This is my opinion. Please dont judge me or make this wonderful thread into war zone :). Lets keep this as review thread. Neerja takes so much pain writing it 🤗

I completely agree with you... we can never question his love for Sai for his flaws, he did hurt her and same way Sai also did hurt him with or without knowing that she is doing so....

All his mistakes has overpowered whatever good he has done for Sai. Even though we can forget that but Sai will not because of which it was tough for her leave him with all those good memories... he celebrated her bday in very grand way... from vaada track to anniversary track, whatever Sai said how many times she disowned him, he was patient because it was his mistake to talk all those things during their marriage... but all those patience and resolve broke when Sai behaved that rudely on their anniversary because of her own insecurities. He was hurt very badly which in turn turned to anger gradually when she stopped his transfer. It took big blow for him to come out of it.

The way he was brought up plays major role in not giving back many times. Sai gives back because she was brought up that way and had independence to do or talk the way she likes. Mostly he doesn't give back to avoid confrontations but his this silence is interpreted by different people in different way and creating problems and spoiling his and Sai relationship. He must have to realise this some day.

Still he has fear that she will leave him and find someone better. But now he is keeping his emotions in check. He should learn to keep his emotional nature in control which is root cause of all problems in his life.

Np yaar. this is my opinion of him and from original KD character of Rono.

He is protecting her honor stil...initially because he had a soft corner and also was responsible for her plight. He didnt know her vileness. Slowly he knew her intentions but doesnt speak against her, because she is his brother's wife. Some people just have positive outlook. Virat is one of them..he still thinks she could move on, just that she did not get a chance. What pakhi spoke in cafe is so dishonorable. he would not let that in front the family. He protects her, as a woman, as his brother's wife. In KD, he was more explicit when he cleared his stance on cafe incident that it is upto samrat and pakhi to decide about their marriage. Thats how detached he is to her personally. But not at humane level which I really like about him. He puts his/Sai's happiness at the cost of a woman's honor. He does that with Sruthi too. Whether it is right or wrong is debatable. As a husband, it is wrong. As a police officer and duty minded person he might get some support there. Seeing him just as Sai's husband, doesnt do justice to his whole character is what I believe.

With Sai, he is sure of what she means to him. He is confident that he can be a good husband. What he does with Sai, is due to his lack of assertion of her status in his life, partly I still believe that he wants to give her a chance to choose. I dont believe he cant explicitly tell his love for her, if not for this only reason. He is confident about his love and his stand for his wife. He thinks she doesnt understand him well to appreciate his efforts. Thats why the frustration. Now coming to him not able to shut up Pakhi in front of Sai, is mostly due to the situations. Pakhi comes in between when they fight to add fuel. He might be staying silent or agree with pakhi, because most of the time Pakhi uses reverse psychology and sympathises with him. THIS IS HIS MISTAKE, to fall for Pakhi's words. Going forward also, he will never say anything against her in front of his family, mostly because she is his brother's wife. He shuts up Sai, because she is his wife, that too if Sai behaves arrogant. He did not stop her when She was standing up for Shivani, or her own studies or for mohit or for anyother good reason. He did stop her when she wants to meet Amay, or talked rudely to family members which he thought would go against her. Sorry I could not recollect all these scenes but just summarizing few events.

In short, I believe his mistake is to stay mum when Pakhi comes between him and Sai during their fights. Because it fed Sai's insecurities. Not shutting her up in front of family, is none of his business. Samrat is there for it. Just wait for confession to happen, he says Sai directly how he lost respect for Pakhi. Not shutting her up publicly doesnt mean he has soft spot for her, he is just adhering to family rules. As a husband, he assumes the right to correct Sai. And I also believe husband and wife SHOULD correct each other. Sai according to him, has to tone down a bit so he corrects her. He also knows otherwise that Sai is a better human being, 24 carat gold hearted.

His worst acts with Sai, I attribute to his frustration and are situational. All 3 times..PD ousting due to lack of trust, Ajinkya due to jealousy and the recent one due to his own heartbreak. All 3 places he acted selfish in his love which is very human. All 3 are not normal situations either. In a regular life of wife and husband, how many times such situations will occur? And if they occur, and if both are in love will they result in same consequences as before? Hence I would advice Sai to wait and give him chances till they build love and trust, if at all she comes to me for advice :P

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

According to me he don't have spine to take stand for his loved one's against anyone not only his family members. He kept silent even when pakhi insulted his mother. He takes strong stand only when it costs him. He lost his cool at pakhi infront of everyone after coming from GC, stopped his family by raising his hand. He did all these when he felt he is about to loose sai. Remaining times sai is accessible to him so he don't feel the need to do anything for her. He shows biasedness towards authoritative people & vulnerable people in that house. He don't mind if his whole family disrespects his mother but he will wonder if his mother speaks against them. Same with sai. He gets his raja beta image from that authoritative people. If he went against them for others then he will loose that image. Pakhi stands in authoritative gang. Speaking against pakhi means letting authoritative people in that house to pounce on him as he knows they will support her always. This is my observation. I might be wrong too.

Hmmm.... possible...gotta think about it.

Still doesn't make sense that he is so clueless about Pakhi's intentions when the girl was agreeing to live with him under any terms and conditions. If he had the intelligence of a normal person, this story could not be stretched so long IMO.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Hmmm.... possible...gotta think about it.

Still doesn't make sense that he is so clueless about Pakhi's intentions when the girl was agreeing to live with him under any terms and conditions. If he had the intelligence of a normal person, this story could not be stretched so long IMO.