My Question to Janta. - Page 10

Originally posted by: -abz-

I would rather want her to walk any without turning back at Raghav. He is not worth even for a revenge.

Absolutely. No man worth his salt is worth the time if he can't keep his wife happy and safe. That's the basic thing a husband should do. He has failed in that matlab there is no use wasting your time on such a person.

Originally posted by: -abz-

I'm glad that you agreed to it. Thank you. She does not deserve such a toxic person for a husband.

I'm not sure what you think I've agreed to so let me clarify just in case. In a real world situation these two would never have married and fallen in love. They wouldn't have been the right fit for each other.

On the show I feel like they have never been on the same page regarding their relationship. Yes they were both lonely and found companionship and love in each other in an unexpected manner. She chose to forgive him for assassinating her character after he tried to make amends. She didn't need to choose to be remain married to him after the 30 day period was over, but her feelings were strong enough that she accepted him as a husband.

Emotions are not enough for a relationship to sustain. You need respect and understanding too, and dare I say some level of compatibility, which has always been lacking in their relationship. Respect isn't just about being polite or gentle with words and actions, it's also intermingled with being able to accept a person for who they are. In this regard there is a major imbalance in their relationship which I doubt is going away anytime soon. To make matters worse, they never discuss things properly or work towards a combined goal.

Raghav and Pallavi are both flawed and their imperfections are often on display in the show in various forms. I believe that if someone does something wrong s/he should face the consequences, whether it be a punishment they give themselves or are given by law, close ones, etc. In Raghav's case his mistake was to not be able to control the temptation of alcohol but I understand totally why he wasn't able to. I don't find him guilty of anything beyond that on that night. He should tell her the truth ASAP, rather than her finding out from someone else, because if she finds out of from elsewhere then he will bear her disappointment, frustration and potentially loss of trust (although him hiding things should not come as a surprise). I don't find him guilty of crossing the line with Esha intentionally, but based on reading various posts here I get that not everyone feels this way and I understand.

As to whether either of them is toxic, well again it's a matter of perspective. I don't think they are but I respect your opinion if you feel Raghav is. Our life experiences shape us and color our view of the world differently from one another. In this regard, I expect you see their relationship and the current track differently than I do, and I'm totally fine with it.

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

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Why does the woman need to adjust, forgive and forget every time? Equality ka zamana hai, the same rule applies for everyone. Shouldn't it be?

Neither a man nor a woman need to adjust to any wrongdoing by their spouse, definitely not for social pressure. If they genuinely want to forgive and give their spouse another chance, it's their wish. If they want to leave, that's also their call. We can't dictate this.

Milind is an example of a man who puts up with being mistreated by his wife as well as all the disgusting things she does to other people.

I'm surprised nobody is calling out BWA for the way she was eyeing SNS, that too in her own house and with her husband and kids around. I didn't see a hue and cry about her 'cheating' her husband then and she's living perfectly fine with Milind.

If the roles were reversed I can only imagine the backlash, yet almost no one speaks up about this, just because he's a man. It's fine to talk about equality and bring up women's issues but the other side of the coin is the injustices that men face, which can be even worse because social conditioning prevents them from being able to ask for help.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Neither a man nor a woman need to adjust to any wrongdoing by their spouse, definitely not for social pressure. If they genuinely want to forgive and give their spouse another chance, it's their wish. If they want to leave, that's also their call. We can't dictate this.

Milind is an example of a man who puts up with being mistreated by his wife as well as all the disgusting things she goes to other people.

I'm surprised nobody is calling out BWA for the way she was eyeing SNS, that too in her own house and with her husband and kids around. I didn't see a hue and cry about her 'cheating' her husband then and she's living perfectly fine with Milind.

If the roles were reversed I can only imagine the backlash, yet almost no one speaks up about this, just because he's a man. It's fine to talk about equality and bring up women's issues but the other side of the coin is the injustices that men face, which can be even worse because social conditioning in prevents them from being able to ask for help.

You know Jean everyone is going in circles 😆😆😆.

It's better to agree to disagree and leave it at that.

Humare bolne se P isn't going to change her stance. She will do what she needs to/ wants to. Let's relax and enjoy the show. 🤗

Originally posted by: joliefemme

You know Jean everyone is going in circles 😆😆😆.

It's better to agree to disagree and leave it at that.

Humare bolne se P isn't going to change her stance. She will do what she needs to/ wants to. Let's relax and enjoy the show. 🤗

Indeed. I'm going to stop debating this further for now.

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Originally posted by: joliefemme

You know Jean everyone is going in circles 😆😆😆.

It's better to agree to disagree and leave it at that.

Humare bolne se P isn't going to change her stance. She will do what she needs to/ wants to. Let's relax and enjoy the show. 🤗

Ren 🤗I love you and you already know that.

Pallavi is the one wronged here. And I love her for what she is... with her perfections and imperfections. Her decision is only going to display the strength of her character. So I am going to cheer which ever way she chooses to pick. Its not my place to judge her decisions.

Originally posted by: euphoric

Ren 🤗I love you and you already know that.

Pallavi is the one wronged here. And I love her for what she is... with her perfections and imperfections. Her decision is only going to display the strength of her character. So I am going to cheer which ever way she chooses to pick. Its not my place to judge her decisions.

I know 😳

But yeh toh hum kabse keh rahe hai. Koi sun hi nai raha 🤣🤣🤣

I ain't judging blindly supporting P in her decision and R in his penance.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

You know Jean everyone is going in circles 😆😆😆.

It's better to agree to disagree and leave it at that.

Humare bolne se P isn't going to change her stance. She will do what she needs to/ wants to. Let's relax and enjoy the show. 🤗

Seriously agreed Ren. 🤗

Everyone's so going in circle round and round but what can they do. Nobody gave a disclaimer to never connect to a show 😂😂😂.

Hamare bolne se neither P is gonna stop trusting and being a human and neither can Raghav stop acting like an idiot and running around his ex gf aka one true love 😂😂. Bass fitrat hai badalti thori hai 😂😂

Originally posted by: unicornwriter

Seriously agreed Ren. 🤗

Everyone's so going in circle round and round but what can they do. Nobody gave a disclaimer to never connect to a show 😂😂😂.

Hamare bolne se neither P is gonna stop trusting and being a human and neither can Raghav stop acting like an idiot and running around his ex gf aka one true love 😂😂. Bass fitrat hai badalti thori hai 😂😂

You are right, everyone is going in circles. No one asked us to be connected to a TV show but I don't mind. My experience to date with MHRW has been good so I don't mind watching this track and seeing where it takes Raghvi. I feel badly for those whose viewing experience has been spoiled by this track. Sicku should not have gone so extreme.

Ofcourse fitrat nahi badalti itni jaldi. Pallavi has always been naive and gullible to trust the wrong people (D family, Mandar, Raghav, Keerti and Esha). Sab uski acchai ka fayda uthate hai. Unfortunately, the creatives didnt show any growth in her in this aspect. After so many bitter experiences, one would have been less trusting but what to do, she needs to meet the standards of ITV female leads.

Aur is show main sabhi apne ex ke peeche bhagte hai leaving their current spouses. It's nothing new, it is best to take it with a pinch of salt unless one has high BP and doctor ne mana kia hai, they should not.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

You are right, everyone is going in circles. No one asked us to be connected to a TV show but I don't mind. My experience to date with MHRW has been good so I don't mind watching this track and seeing where it takes Raghvi. I feel badly for those whose viewing experience has been spoiled by this track. Sicku should not have gone so extreme.

Ofcourse fitrat nahi badalti itni jaldi. Pallavi has always been naive and gullible to trust the wrong people (D family, Mandar, Raghav, Keerti and Esha). Sab uski acchai ka fayda uthate hai. Unfortunately, the creatives didnt show any growth in her in this aspect. After so many bitter experiences, one would have been less trusting but what to do, she needs to meet the standards of ITV female leads.

Aur is show main sabhi apne ex ke peeche bhagte hai leaving their current spouses. It's nothing new, it is best to take it with a pinch of salt unless one has high BP and doctor ne mana kia hai, they should not.

Iss show ne toh exes ko hi main lead bana rkha hai uspar toh kya hi kaha jaye 😂😂. Sometimes i am like yeh show hai kiska btw 😂😂.

Writers ne pehle Pallavi ko bhagaya ab Raghav ko bhaga rahe. Bhagwaan jaane what Sicku wants to show so ironic in this.

I have a special long list of complaints from the makers where Pallavi's past is the biggest complaint. Dude i have a feeling that maybe her past might explain why she trusts people so much.