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Posted: 3 years ago
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My questions at the moment.

What will you people do if your partner cries about his ex after a few months or years of your successful relationship? What will you do if he keeps her memories only to cry about it in front of you?

What will you do if your partner spends some time with his/ her ex without your knowledge?

What will you do if your partner said he had a soft corner for his ex and justifies that as a reason to cross the boundary despite being in a relationship?

What will you do if he broke the promise he made for you when he was with his ex?

Forgive and cuddle him?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Ye bhi kya koi puchne ki baat hai? Chamata maar ke usko apne life se bahar kardungi.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I will just divorce him and move on with my life because I am not going to be anyone's second option.

Let him sulk over his ex girlfriend and their beautiful memories when I will be building a stable and happy life for myself.


No one, absolutely no one deserves to be treated as a backup option for their partner. PERIOD.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Not at all 😡

I will tell him go and live with that Ex and mujhe bakash de

I have better things to do other than doing baby sitting to a fully grown man.

Self respect and self love >>>>>>>>>>anything else

Trust and loyalty >>>>>>>>>>>>Love

✌✌

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Ok, I'm answering my own question.

I won't stand there to watch him do the crap to me. I will definitely not give him the rights to stay in my life.

I can forgive anything but infidelity.

I'm not a MAHAAN.

My self respect is worthier than the bullshit relationship and that guy. So I'll make sure I throw him far far away from my life.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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If my husband or partner acts like this, I will never believe him when he says he loves me. What sort of love is this, that disrespects me, my affection, and wounds me to the point where I begin to doubt my own value?

I’d like to keep my head high and walk out.

It’ll be hard, relationship is bumpy ride but if partner can’t make you feel secure about your own self and your relationship, then it’s better to travel without him. He’s not trustworthy anyways.

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Originally posted by: Hopeful_Heart

Ye bhi kya koi puchne ki baat hai? Chamata maar ke usko apne life se bahar kardungi.

So expecting Pallavi to even give him a chance shouldn't be an option. Haina? 😎

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: -abz-

My questions at the moment.

What will you people do if your partner cries about his ex after a few months or years of your successful relationship? What will you do if he keeps her memories only to cry about it in front of you?

What will you do if your partner spends some time with his/ her ex without your knowledge?

What will you do if your partner said he had a soft corner for his ex and justifies that as a reason to cross the boundary despite being in a relationship?

What will you do if he broke the promise he made for you when he was with his ex?

Forgive and cuddle him?

Ill never forgive him for that . Yes I’ll

Give him options to clarify his stand with his ex . If it’s like hi hello kinda healthy friendship with ex and her family where Im also present then it’s ok but nothing more than that . No crying , no memories or spending time will

Be accepted by me ever . I don’t think anyone can. My self respect is ultimately important for me . Can’t bargain on that ever

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Trina2021

Ill never forgive him for that . Yes I’ll

Give him options to clarify his stand with his ex . If it’s like hi hello kinda healthy friendship with ex and her family where Im also present then it’s ok but nothing more than that . No crying , no memories or spending time will

Be accepted by me ever . I don’t think anyone can. My self respect is ultimately important for me . Can’t bargain on that ever

So you will be your priority.

Pallavi should be her priority right?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I will tell myself.. Stop seeing mhrw episodes before sleeping, so that I can stop imagining myself as a female lead in an itv serial 😂. With full-on serialo wale dukh dard 😂

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