Home is where we feel we are understood, accepted and loved. It is to do with our heart and how we are made to feel by the actions and words of those around us.
When Baba Yaha taunted Anupama where her place was, Anupama reminded that she was never given a place in the hearts of most Shah's.
Kinjal thinks it is a blessing to be a Shah.
Samar on the other hand feels a heart connect with Anuj. He puts the safety and wellbeing of Anupamas loved ones. Samars bravado is going to land him in a mess and he does not want Anupama being targeted for it. He feels the peace that kinjal and Nandini feel in the care of Anupama in Anuj.
Unconciously we veer towards people we feel a soul connection a Dil Ka Rishta.