Raghav is lying ?? But why ?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Trina2021

We saw something in the hotel We assumed something else and Raghav interpreted the entire episode to his better self and also himself in another way . Now what he told Keerti is altogether different . Now which version is true I wanna know plz .

We saw him getting mellowed down on his ex but resisted but then again gave into her demand of that drinking game , got sloshed , hallucinated Pallavi but Easha decided to ignore that and closed the gap . Which indicates she knew what she’s doing but still took advantage of him in a way . So according to this scenario Easha took advantage of him and cannot be termed as cheating

Ragahv interpreted as a mistake where he mistook her as Pallavi lost control and did it . In this scenario it was a cheating for sure but not intentional per se

Today he clearly said he had soft corners for Easha and being emotional he did all that . No mention of being drunk or hallucination was mentioned . So according to this scenario he actually accepted that he cheated on her bcoz he got emotional and slept With her . No violation or hallucination was mentioned

Now someone plz tell me the reason behind all these . Why’s he telling something none of us witnessed . Does he want Easha to be safeguarded and make sure that keerti doesn’t hate her if and when she comes to the RR mansion ?
I’m thoroughly confused here . What’s going on with him Is he falling for Easha and At the Same time feeling bad for Pallavi ?
OR

he didn’t fall for Easha but just to safeguard her hurting his own wife whom he claims to love more than his own life

Something else ??

I’m at a loss here . Plz explain . Thanks

@Bold: I did not see the episode don’t intend to see it and I did not read the updates either…so iam going by what you have mentioned here..

If this is what he confessed then he said The Truth..because this is what I felt about the entire hotel fiasco…lot of emphasis is given to the actual DEED but I personally feel Raghav crossed all lines of marital boundaries even before he hit the bed in an inebriated state…the whole ‘Imagining Pallavi’ was just to give a little bit of savings grace to the already ‘fallen’ Raghav…just imagine had they not come up with the imagining part..it would be like Raghav made love to Esha knowing she is Esha…that would have been The End of Raghav, we could have easily buried him & put a wreath over him…basically a convoluted situation to give an escape route to Raghav to minimize his sin and or to salvage him in future…. I am not buying it coz he cheated Pallavi even before he ended in bed..

The minute he got to know about the breakup truth and her abusive marriage…Raghav felt overwhelmed and got driven by his underlying emotions for Esha…he let his guard off..he let Pallavi’s husband slip away without a second thought and got consumed by Raghu, Esha’s boyfriend….whatever he did later was as Raghu to Esha his girlfriend because Pallavi’s husband would have never shared a room with his Ex after knowing she still loved him..ME TOO knock knock.. blown Esha’s wounds, locked eyes with her, let her hug him and confess her feelings, make her feel comfortable, cheerfully remembered their fond memories, let her know that he still remembers her favorite food & habits and above all broken his promise to Pallavi to not to drink and willingly get sloshed…A quick reminder that Esha asked him to leave the room but it was Raghav who chose to stay with her..and he had no compulsion to share even a single peg with her..

It’s simple let’s ask ourselves will Raghav as Pallavi’s husband do any of this…the answer is No…Raghav very well knew his intentions while he was engaging Esha as a boyfriend and yet he continued with it…he didn’t stop himself once because he did not have the WILL and he was completely Comfortable and Happy about what he was doing…Raghav had no COMPULSION to do anything that he did that night…He exercised his choice driven by his emotions and feelings for Esha so it is CHEATING….

That’s the reason I say Raghav can never be redeemed for me..deed done or not…he willingly and happily took the rights and gave the rights to another woman while being married to Pallavi…this is SIN…i want to punch his face for calling it a mistake..and he continues to sin by not telling Pallavi the truth, still meeting his Ex…assuring her that he still feels for her and pushing Pallavi away and making her feel inferior, unwanted, less worthy…this is cruel…in real world this can permanently damage people for life and even drive them to death…I can never forgive Raghav simply because what he has done and continues to do to her is INHUMAN…mistakes can be forgiven..Sin needs atonement…

Originally posted by: Anu1975

@Bold: I did not see the episode don’t intend to see it and I did not read the updates either…so iam going by what you have mentioned here..

If this is what he confessed then he said The Truth..because this is what I felt about the entire hotel fiasco…lot of emphasis is given to the actual DEED but I personally feel Raghav crossed all lines of marital boundaries even before he hit the bed in an inebriated state…the whole ‘Imagining Pallavi’ was just to give a little bit of savings grace to the already ‘fallen’ Raghav…just imagine had they not come up with the imagining part..it would be like Raghav made love to Esha knowing she is Esha…that would have been The End of Raghav, we could have easily buried him & put a wreath over him…basically a convoluted situation to give an escape route to Raghav to minimize his sin and or to salvage him in future…. I am not buying it coz he cheated Pallavi even before he ended in bed..

The minute he got to know about the breakup truth and her abusive marriage…Raghav felt overwhelmed and got driven by his underlying emotions for Esha…he let his guard off..he let Pallavi’s husband slip away without a second thought and got consumed by Raghu, Esha’s boyfriend….whatever he did later was as Raghu to Esha his girlfriend because Pallavi’s husband would have never shared a room with his Ex after knowing she still loved him..ME TOO knock knock.. blown Esha’s wounds, locked eyes with her, let her hug him and confess her feelings, make her feel comfortable, cheerfully remembered their fond memories, let her know that he still remembers her favorite food & habits and above all broken his promise to Pallavi to not to drink and willingly get sloshed…A quick reminder that Esha asked him to leave the room but it was Raghav who chose to stay with her..and he had no compulsion to share even a single peg with her..

It’s simple let’s ask ourselves will Raghav as Pallavi’s husband do any of this…the answer is No…Raghav very well knew his intentions while he was engaging Esha as a boyfriend and yet he continued with it…he didn’t stop himself once because he did not have the WILL and he was completely Comfortable and Happy about what he was doing…Raghav had no COMPULSION to do anything that he did that night…He exercised his choice driven by his emotions and feelings for Esha so it is CHEATING….

That’s the reason I say Raghav can never be redeemed for me..deed done or not…he willingly and happily took the rights and gave the rights to another woman while being married to Pallavi…this is SIN…i want to punch his face for calling it a mistake..and he continues to sin by not telling Pallavi the truth, still meeting his Ex…assuring her that he still feels for her and pushing Pallavi away and making her feel inferior, unwanted, less worthy…this is cruel…in real world this can permanently damage people for life and even drive them to death…I can never forgive Raghav simply because what he has done and continues to do to her is INHUMAN…mistakes can be forgiven..Sin needs atonement…

it took me some time to realize that I completely agree with what you wrote

i had to rewatch what happened and put my real world heart into perspective but yes everything you said is true

Personally for me I just cannot say Raghav is a cheater because my heart screams otherwise when I see him in guilt in the episodes now, I know he loves Pallavi and that he didn't engage in all those activities with Esha to MAKE Esha fall for him, in MHRW land he did everything with Esha without the INTENTION of cheating, however it completely was

As you mentioned, he KNEW that she had feelings for him and he continued to further ignite those, unintentionally yes, but he definitely did not act like a HUSBAND, he forgot everything that night and his actions proved it

I completely agree with you that this kind of treatment for a spouse can be DAMAGING, he continues to sin and he is now emotionally hurting Pallavi by distancing himself as well

since this is a show and my heart goes out for Raghvi, Raghav can be redeemed for me but definitely in a real world case, absolutely NOT

In fact I think this track is not mainly about the one night stand, but about how this distancing and everything will take a toll on Pallavi, I think they are going the route where they explore how damaged she comes BEFORE knowing the truth even

with all the insecurities and doubts she will have, she already started worrying that she is not "good enough" for Raghav, just wait until Esha comes to RR mansion

Esha will be everything that Pallavi THINKS raghav wants, and this will internally cause her so much trauma as a wife, forget the truth coming out for now, that will just be rubbing salt in the wound at the end

but the girl is about to lose her confidence and break if this is where the track is going, and I would actually like to watch this, it's definitely something that happens IRL

Originally posted by: Trina2021

Well he tried to tell her the truth today . It’s not his fault if his wife had her AirPods on . Right ???🤣

Just like he wanted to sleep with his wife but instead he slept with chipkali...its not his fault he thou it's his wife🤣

You said it 🤗. Faithful husband who values his wife above anyone else, would never do what Raghav did and is still continuing to do. Thanks for penning it down in detail.

I feel it will be injustice to never address how he emotionally cheated on his wife who was roaming in riots late night being worried for him and still continues to love him so much no matter how much he gaslights her.

More than Pallavi’s guilty husband, he’s behaving like Esha’s concerned boyfriend these days. I strongly feel Pallavi leaving him is need of hour.

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

it took me some time to realize that I completely agree with what you wrote

i had to rewatch what happened and put my real world heart into perspective but yes everything you said is true

Personally for me I just cannot say Raghav is a cheater because my heart screams otherwise when I see him in guilt in the episodes now, I know he loves Pallavi and that he didn't engage in all those activities with Esha to MAKE Esha fall for him, in MHRW land he did everything with Esha without the INTENTION of cheating, however it completely was

As you mentioned, he KNEW that she had feelings for him and he continued to further ignite those, unintentionally yes, but he definitely did not act like a HUSBAND, he forgot everything that night and his actions proved it

I completely agree with you that this kind of treatment for a spouse can be DAMAGING, he continues to sin and he is now emotionally hurting Pallavi by distancing himself as well

since this is a show and my heart goes out for Raghvi, Raghav can be redeemed for me but definitely in a real world case, absolutely NOT

In fact I think this track is not mainly about the one night stand, but about how this distancing and everything will take a toll on Pallavi, I think they are going the route where they explore how damaged she comes BEFORE knowing the truth even

with all the insecurities and doubts she will have, she already started worrying that she is not "good enough" for Raghav, just wait until Esha comes to RR mansion

Esha will be everything that Pallavi THINKS raghav wants, and this will internally cause her so much trauma as a wife, forget the truth coming out for now, that will just be rubbing salt in the wound at the end

but the girl is about to lose her confidence and break if this is where the track is going, and I would actually like to watch this, it's definitely something that happens IRL

Today we saw a pallu who is becoming underconfident.. doubting herself.. calling herself a typical housewife.. I was shattered and shocked to be honest . I am like hey dear you are a gem Don't you ever even think like that. She is getting upset and any woman in her place would. Just imagine a man who claims that he loves you but is ignoring you rudely behaving with him.. not even looking at you .. that situations is making her to self doubt. I really felt for her.

And about Raghav the way he said emotions Mai beh Gaya I was like what is he even saying !??? Wasn't he imagining pallu!!??? Why on earth he is taking the onus on him that means he still is concerned for that aurat???? Itz a sin and more is the way he is treating pallu. Ok I understand you are guilt stricken but you are completely Ill treating your wife and concerned for your ex ???!!! Are you really taking your wife for granted ????? Ok I feel he is in that state where he doesn't want to loose pallu but then why he is not letting his ex get out of his system totally??

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

You said it 🤗. Faithful husband who values his wife above anyone else, would never do what Raghav did and is still continuing to do. Thanks for penning it down in detail.

I feel it will be injustice to never address how he emotionally cheated on his wife who was roaming in riots late night being worried for him and still continues to love him so much no matter how much he gaslights her.

More than Pallavi’s guilty husband, he’s behaving like Esha’s concerned boyfriend these days. I strongly feel Pallavi leaving him is need of hour.

I think we're going the route where Pallavi is going to go through a lot of mental trauma

she will doubt herself, feel horrible with Raghav's indifference (it has already started)

and with Esha coming to RR mansion it will just multiply all that, for Pallavi Esha will be what she thinks Raghav wants

and she'll keep pushing herself down with these thoughts, and when the truth comes out it will be the final straw

she will probably break so badly, and it won't even all be about the one-night stand

it will be due to the fact that Raghav's ignorance caused her to doubt herself so much that she has no confidence anymore, that will be what weakens her

and then the truth coming out will just be like her insecurity comes to life, everything she has been thinking would come true, and that is that she wasn't good enough for her husband so he slept with another woman

It would have been better if he would have accepted pallu's whisky v/s nimbu paani offer bach jaata 😔

And that I really really Love you pallu session should be stopped ..warna with each assurance she will be inn for big shock after knowing his warangal activity 😔

Hope he comes out clean warna pallu should really make him run never ending marathon behind her 😆

And esha don't know what's wrong with her ..more than solving her sob story she is interested to know pallu's story what's her plan ..😔

Originally posted by: SruthySudeep

Today we saw a pallu who is becoming underconfident.. doubting herself.. calling herself a typical housewife.. I was shattered and shocked to be honest . I am like hey dear you are a gem Don't you ever even think like that. She is getting upset and any woman in her place would. Just imagine a man who claims that he loves you but is ignoring you rudely behaving with him.. not even looking at you .. that situations is making her to self doubt. I really felt for her.

And about Raghav the way he said emotions Mai beh Gaya I was like what is he even saying !??? Wasn't he imagining pallu!!??? Why on earth he is taking the onus on him that means he still is concerned for that aurat???? Itz a sin and more is the way he is treating pallu. Ok I understand you are guilt stricken but you are completely Ill treating your wife and concerned for your ex ???!!! Are you really taking your wife for granted ????? Ok I feel he is in that state where he doesn't want to loose pallu but then why he is not letting his ex get out of his system totally??

I think Raghav meant to say he became emotional and let his guard down as a HUSBAND, which is absolutely true

he became Esha's boyfriend RAGHU, he was not Pallavi's husband and so he wasn't thinking rationally, I think that is what he meant, he isn't saying he suddenly developed feelings for Esha

and this is exactly what I'm saying, he's not telling Pallavi the truth because he knows she'll be broken

but he's making an even bigger mistake by HIDING IT now, because he's causing her to self-destruct

she's losing her confidence and morale, she's going to be hurt either way as LWR said today, but Raghav ignoring her is causing even more damage, that too BEFORE the truth comes out

Didn’t she once say not telling/hiding the truth is also similar to lying (massage scene)

When the truth is out, I feel the anti- Raghavi gang is also going to rub it in how she was never Raghav’s choice, she was Amma’s choice.

This may lead to her complete breakdown and possibly the emergence of a new Pallavi

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

it took me some time to realize that I completely agree with what you wrote

i had to rewatch what happened and put my real world heart into perspective but yes everything you said is true

Personally for me I just cannot say Raghav is a cheater because my heart screams otherwise when I see him in guilt in the episodes now, I know he loves Pallavi and that he didn't engage in all those activities with Esha to MAKE Esha fall for him, in MHRW land he did everything with Esha without the INTENTION of cheating, however it completely was

As you mentioned, he KNEW that she had feelings for him and he continued to further ignite those, unintentionally yes, but he definitely did not act like a HUSBAND, he forgot everything that night and his actions proved it

I completely agree with you that this kind of treatment for a spouse can be DAMAGING, he continues to sin and he is now emotionally hurting Pallavi by distancing himself as well

since this is a show and my heart goes out for Raghvi, Raghav can be redeemed for me but definitely in a real world case, absolutely NOT

In fact I think this track is not mainly about the one night stand, but about how this distancing and everything will take a toll on Pallavi, I think they are going the route where they explore how damaged she comes BEFORE knowing the truth even

with all the insecurities and doubts she will have, she already started worrying that she is not "good enough" for Raghav, just wait until Esha comes to RR mansion

Esha will be everything that Pallavi THINKS raghav wants, and this will internally cause her so much trauma as a wife, forget the truth coming out for now, that will just be rubbing salt in the wound at the end

but the girl is about to lose her confidence and break if this is where the track is going, and I would actually like to watch this, it's definitely something that happens IRL

I respect your opinion…

But I can’t forgive Raghav not in this life…for the sins he has committed and continues to commit, for the trauma he will be putting her too the damage he will cause her…all this for loving him beyond anything in her life…she will feel humiliated as human, woman and wife when she gets to know that she was trying to seduce a man who pushed her away coz he slept with another woman and she will die a thousand death when she gets to know that he had the audacity to bring the woman he slept with under the same roof to live with her…no human deserves this…writers can bury Raghav 6 feet underground and put a wreath over him or Put him over a pedestal and treat him as God by whitewashing his character in their own convoluted way for all I care…