~*Off we go Starboard side #3*~ Strictly Invitees only - Page 45

Originally posted by: laughingmonkey

Liyah, ab tumne bola toh jyada nahi sochti hu!.

Originally posted by: Owia

Liyah, ab tumne bola toh jyada nahi sochti hu!.

Good girl 😃😃🍉🍉

Originally posted by: laughingmonkey

Anjali, I also felt the same. Iss drama ke baad, Sai toh zindagi bhar alcohol touch karne se darega😂😂

Also I think Esha is the worst till now. And I don’t usually say that about any actor. I can handle anybody. I was surprised that FB scenes, she was tolerable, like it was okay. But that phone returning scene, did you see her expressions? She looked like she wanted to hurt someone at that point. And yesterday’s scene was unbearable. Couldn’t handle it at all. I think that was the most torturous part of the episode for me yesterday. Poor Sai! ACP is better. She doesn’t have to change her expressions either way so the constipated look works. Keerthi ka frustrated expressions are a little off. I liked her in that ab isme Bhagwan kya karenge scene. She is so much times better than Esha. Thats what I said yesterday, with this lady’s acting, it’s not convincing at all that Raghav was so in love with her in the past ( the initial scenes were ok) . Now that we’ll have to put up with more of hers is making me mich michi.

Ashok was awesome !!!

Also Ren, I’m glad to see you continuing in the same mode. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
We’ll all have the last laugh. And as you said the worst is over. For once I’m really glad with the speed of the tracks. This scene I felt was far too long as compared to their other scenes. If it was EK or anybody else, chaar din tak yahi dekhna padta. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
And Sahu, zyaada mat socho. Don’t let this pull you down. Raghvi was good and will be good. We will get there. Tab tak ke liye hum tazbus ko overtime pe rakh lenge 😃
And Anjali, A —->C & today some B as well.

I want to see more of A😎🍉🍉

I've not seen esha scenes these past days. May be she's worse than laxmi. Keerti is much better than these 2 ever can be... 🤢

Yes glad the tracks are fast moving atleast cringefest is over soon.

too much michmichi as u rightly said. I didn't know u watched IB too.

Not watching the episode did me real good Liyah. Kal update dekh ke dekhungi shayad. I need some detachment badly. So I'm in a way glad these unpalatable episodes are on air. From last Monday I've not enjoyed the episodes, it's never happened before. Inko koj trp nai aani.

Waiting for Saishi dose

Originally posted by: laughingmonkey

Surbhi is adorbs. I've met her. Super fun and chill just like Anika.

Yes breaks are good and I agree this show just reels you in.. it's part Saishi and part raghvi and none sicku.

Also, manifesting no consummation and Saishi contents.

Originally posted by: laughingmonkey

Sai posted stories today.. Shivi liked couple of posts no content till now😒

Raghvi KO dekh nai Pa rahi.. SaiShi mil nai rahe I am bored🤔

Originally posted by: fria319

It can’t be a short take. I’m confused on how I feel 😂🤣🤣

I’m not mad at Raghav. I’ll give you the tldr: he gets so drunk he’s hallucinating that Esha is Pallavi. Esha doesn’t correct him. And yes it’s implied that they do the deed.

I am disappointed in his decision to continue drinking. He clearly didn’t know what he was doing but can I say this all was allowed to happened bc he was drunk? Is that victim blaming? Is he a victim? Is he not?

Sober Raghav would have never done this, obviously. Esha did make advances towards him while knowing he thought she was Pallavi - so I guess that makes him the victim?

I’m just confused about where I stand on this which is why I’m not mad at him but I am disappointed. He does have a history of hallucinations so I mean can I really place any blame on him? Is this r*pe? Is it not, bc he wasn’t forced? He pulled Esha closer to him thinking it was Pallavi. So he was tricked.

But at the same time, he made that decision to drink - and to keep drinking. He knows he can’t handle his alcohol anymore. Esha egged him on but she didn’t trick him about the drinking game.

It was a drunken mistake, but is that any consolation to a spouse? Either way he cheated right? He chose to drink right ? Is Eshas manipulation of the situation enough to place all the blame on her ? It’s not like she pinned him down. She’s gross AF for what she did but she didn’t force herself on him. Or did she because she pretended to be Pallavi?

: Fria, I have to do this training as a part of my job with Q&A on consent and harassment and so on. Even when you consent to intimacy and change your mind after that, the other person cannot force you or coerce you physically or emotionally (e.g. guilt-trip). If you're not your senses to give them a straightforward answer knowing it's them, they cannot move forward with it. Esha wasn't as drunk as as Raghav because she clearly heard him calling out Pallavi (and got shocked for a few seconds) and still chose to be delulu about it so yes, the way I see it, it's her fault. Raghav only held her hand thinking she was Pallavi because it gave him comfort and I don't think he was in a state to go ahead with anything after that. EVEN if he was, (for the sake of argument) Esha could've easily rejected his advances and physically distanced herself. If she wanted to, she could've found about 50 different ways to not pull that stunt but she didn't.

and before anyone starts, if this happened to P the way it happened to R, I would be just as confused and asking the same questions.

Tbh I’d like peoples opinions. I’m not sure what to think. I think it definitely is clear Raghav would’ve never done this if he was sober or if he wasn’t hallucinating, so it’s not his fault?

I’m sad it had to come to this. He’s definitely going to keep it from Pallavi tho. And that will be his downfall.

also please no one say this is victim shaming bc I don’t know if what happened to him was actual assault or just a drunk mistake. Or both. I am confused tbh. Maybe someone can clear it up for me.

I had a work event and after that I finally found the courage to FF through the epi. This is the first I FF-ed practically the whole episode.

Also, why do you sound scared?😆 I totally get what you're saying and your confusion. I kept going back to the Mandar track and wondering how things would've turned out if Mandar had succeeded *shudders*. But then again, ITV MUST show its FLs as saaf, swacch, pavitra vi**ins because they are easily perishable items😳

People on SM are doing maatam that Raghav-Esha did to deed but like I mentioned earlier, I'm 99.99% sure they didn't but it will be implied for the next 2347 episodes that they did.

My biggest issue with whatever happened so far:

1. Raghav should not have said yes to that first peg. Esha wasn't even insisting back then so IDK why he had to go out of his way at that time.

2. Raghav agreeing to a drinking competition. Up until yesterday I was so hoping Esha spiked his food or something because didn't he show (not a direct promise but it was implied through his actions) Pallavi like, literally two days back that he won't drink because she was his 'Limited Edition'? (LOL the irony) Esha was drunk by that time but Raghav was in his senses. Who in their right mind gives in to such a strange demand, (like dude he didn't even put up a fight) that too when it's your ex and you both are in a hotel room all alone?

3. I'm so disgusted seeing the way s***al abuse is treated so casually in the show. First with Mandar spiking Pallavi's food and now Esha trying to get close to Raghav while he is unconscious and is in no position to give consent. It doesn't matter that he imagined Pallavi but the fact that Esha heard it, knew he was imagining Pallavi and STILL chose to ignore is what I can't wrap my head around. I hate when ITV shows do this, as if harassment and attempt to m***st ain't that big a deal. I try not to let fictional shows get under my skin but this kind of thing triggers me so much. I know nothing happened to Raghav but he is still the victim in that moment when he is not in his senses, or are we going to ignore it because he just made some really dumb choices prior to that (but won't that be victim blaming)? Is it because he's a man and it doesn't matter? What is this obsession ITV makers have?

4. Minor thing but Sicku (and ITV in general) has no clue how to write realistic female characters. Not all exes have to turn psychos. Not all women who are ambitious are gold-diggers. Not all women who have many guy friends are 'easy' iykwim. I'm so disgusted and done with these tropes.

Originally posted by: s_kavya

I have manifested already let's see if we get something.. Fingers crossed 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Sai posted stories today.. Shivi liked couple of posts no content till now😒

Now I want Shivi to post something!.

Originally posted by: s_kavya

Raghvi KO dekh nai Pa rahi.. SaiShi mil nai rahe I am bored🤔

Kavyaaaa congratulations on color change🤗 Chalo isi baat pe daaru peeyo I'm challenging you🤣

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

Hello 🤗

Thought to remain with written update for my own peace. I can't watch this crap, go to hell sikku🤬

Sunny should join as interpol officer 😤😤 always gets right Intel using his smart brain 😎

Born smart 😎 should go to rehab center first to stop his drinking habit at first place

Esha - all the best for your ex retrieving mission👏

Pallavi - I just pray 🙏 you remain strong hope God always protect you 😔❤️

Cvs serving poison in the name of tadka🤢

Gayuuu this review is beshhttu🤣

My respect for Sunny has increased manifold kya din aagaye🤣 Esha I dare you to trap Sunny if you're so smart. I have full faith in him now, Keerti ko bhi peeche chhod dungi main🤣🤣🤣