Originally posted by: fria319
I dont fault him for getting assaulted.
I fault him for making bad decisions that led to him being in a vulnerable position with someone who couldn't be trusted to maintain her boundaries.
She hugged him and confessed her love for him while he was sober. After that he still chose to drink, and drink excessively.
Its harsh to hear, but I'll be blunt, someone who makes bad decisions, their bad decisions are still on them. The decisions. If that led to them getting hurt by another person - that hurt is on that other person. That's why I don't consider this victim blaming. I'm not blaming him for getting hurt. I'm finding fault in his decisions that allowed him to be in a vulnerable state around anyone.
Esha was clearly drunk, she just wasn't as drunk as Raghav. Would that absolve her too?
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