Behaviour acceptable or not in real life

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I want to ask from girls in the forum.

How would you have felt if you would have in vidhi's place?

I as a girl would have been really uncomfortable if I'm taking a bath n someone messing up with the door. And I after coming out would have surely blasted him in out for entering my personal space. And if that person would not be from family than obviously I would have judged his intention.

Even if the door was locked from inside but still highly scary to feel someone doing something with door.


In a country like India where there are so many issues on girls safety such behaviour is completely unacceptable where Pratik says he doesn't mind anyone walking inside when his sister is having a shower. He is so pathetic.


Such misogynistic behaviour should not be accepted. And better Salman or BB take some action

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Naaju

I want to ask from girls in the forum.

How would you have felt if you would have in vidhi's place?

I as a girl would have been really uncomfortable if I'm taking a bath n someone messing up with the door. And I after coming out would have surely blasted him in out for entering my personal space. And if that person would not be from family than obviously I would have judged his intention.

Even if the door was locked from inside but still highly scary to feel someone doing something with door.


In a country like India where there are so many issues on girls safety such behaviour is completely unacceptable where Pratik says he doesn't mind anyone walking inside when his sister is having a shower. He is so pathetic.


Such misogynistic behaviour should not be accepted. And better Salman or BB take some action


Why didn't she blast pratik immediately? Why the late reaction ? She only opened this topic once they realised that kaadi is gone, uske pehele she was fine, matlab it didn't bother her much na ?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aarzoo47


Why didn't she blast pratik immediately? Why the late reaction ? She only opened this topic once they realised that kaadi is gone, uske pehele she was fine, matlab it didn't bother her much na ?

NOBODY can be okay with something like this, so it's stupid to try and defend Pratik with a statement like 'It didn't bother her much na?' Seriously? 🤢 How pathetic.

Vidhi was being smart about this. She recognized that this guy wanted to use this situation that happened with her, in his favor. She knew he's desperate to make the 'I am cornered, I am a victim, I am shouted at by all HMs' - so she did not want to give him that glory.

I infact loved how maturely she handled it in the LF, where she told him - if anyone was showering, Boy or Girl, it would shock them. She was being very reasonable with Pratik and didn't ask for an apology, but tried to make him understand.

That made Pratik look worse, as Vidhi did not capitalize on the 'woman card' or make this a 'woman thing'. She did not allow Kundra or anyone to make this a woman thing, as she told Kundra that she clearly knows how Pratik is trying to flip this sensitive issue, into a game strategy for himself.

So her handling this so well, exposed Pratik even more. He's looking very negative.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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@TM - It'd be VERY scary and very uncomfortable. I'd feel vulnerable and at the risk of being exposed and being scandalized. How dare he try to mess with the lock when I am in shower would be my question.

But beyond that, the most disrespectful thing would have been, that Man shamelessly standing infront of everyone and saying, "I was only thinking about my game. I don't care who was inside, that's not my concern."

That's a Narcissist right there. A vile, toxic person right there. Nothing Heroic about it.

Nobody's game can stoop that level.🤢 You cannot be THAT DESPERATE to win the show, that you leave your morals, your conscience behind.

You say you don't care about her being behind the door, naked and vulnerable when you're messing with the lock and at the same time cry, 'Maa ki gaali mat do'? What a bloody hypocrite.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yea. It was pretty disturbing to see the clip. I would not feel comfortable and would freak out. It's not okay to justify every wrong action for the game. You have to have some decency and respect for people. How does someone have absolute zero humility and grace to accept their wrong actions on this show? Plus, then trying to portray himself as the victim. Like, you're going to go and do something to freak out someone but then you should be the one feeling bad?🤔


PS: I don't think my outrage over Pratik would have differed even if it was a guy in the bathroom. It's still not okay to do that.

Edited by soni595 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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In this house boy girl are kept in same house, sleeping together etc. But it doesn't mean that they forget personal space of opp gender.

It's common sense to not tamper the door when someone is inside.

This is the education ppl r demanding these days to give boys so they stop normalising offences against women.


Also Pratik saying that he would not mind someone walking inside when his sister is inside deeply disturbed me. I would kill such a brother if he would have said that about me.

And saying such thing also means that if something was kept inside and he wanted that to go ahead in game he may have walked inside when the girl was in shower.


Vidhi was not disturbed so much and HMs didn't judged Pratik intentions because they r under surveillance. In real life situation no one will believe that person breaking the latch had good intentions and muh tod denge uska.

In workplaces it is mandated by law to have separate washroom for women where women r working because of same reason.


There was also a case of rape in covid camp in washroom. That's why I'm saying that action should be taken on Pratik on serious note.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Acash Dadlani in S11 used to sniff panties of girls when they were sleeping. He is giving me the same vibes

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aarzoo47


Why didn't she blast pratik immediately? Why the late reaction ? She only opened this topic once they realised that kaadi is gone, uske pehele she was fine, matlab it didn't bother her much na ?


Seriously? If this is the argument, then there is no debate.


Sorry if the comment was personal. But, my 'intention' wasn't to make it so.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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If i was at home I would have literally freaked out and this toh is a show.

I get his intentions were not like that.. that’s a given but when he knows some one is having a bath why the he’ll do this? The girl would have been very embarrassed and hearing the noises when you are having a bath is scary man. This prateek guy has totally lost it. Josh mein hosh kho ra hai and becoming a horrible player. Plus hes like a ziddi bacha. Hating him

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I really dont understand the fan following he has.. even celebrities support him. His words and actions both are highly unacceptable. I dont want to talk about his looks but seriously what is wrong with this guy.

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