Unlike everyone I didn't like pakhi in today's episode

A girl sees her mother humiliated every single at home will that girl like it....please ladies out here tell me if u ever see how anu is disrespected , humiliated n made to cry every single day ur mother too face the same will u say what she said today to anuj....while her father is enjoying his martial bliss n her mother is alone....I get it she is a teenager usse samjh nahi ayega akele pan ke bare mein how alone is her mother n how her father moved on with a partner but baizati toh samjh ati hai naa...n I m sorry anuj but u r wrong here ...this is selfishness...u have not seen how much she is insulted n treated like low servant everyday,tumne sirf devika se suna hai aur 10% dekha hai..not seen all....we all here don't have any relationship with Anupama but we too r triggered when Anupama is humiliated n hate it to core but uski khudki beti pe koi asar nahi...woh hass hass kar apne papa se aise baat karti hai jaise uske papa anu ke saath sahi karte hai....main nahi keh rahi apne papa se baat na karo but when he is trash talking to her mother can't she speak up.....bas fayede lene boldo....meri mumma papa ki bhi ladai hoti hai ..but if my father does anything wrong I immediately stand in front of him telling him he is wrong ....par yaha toh character assassination humiliation aur pata nahi kya kya kar raha hai woh uski maa ke saath...main aisa kabhi bardasht nahi karti

N I tell u this girl will be biggest hindrance in our dream to see Anupama out of shah family....woh hone nahi degi...aur vanraj usi ka istemaal karega to keep Anupama in check n under the same roof🤬😡😡😡😡😡

Same here dear. I just created a post for the same topic.

I don't like their convo. Believe me.

Originally posted by: tintin0602

Same here dear. I just created a post for the same topic.

I don't like their convo. Believe me.

P2 like P1 is biased towards their father and can't see much beyond his needs and perspective. She was fine till the IDIOTS arrived. She noticed the fathers body language and gauged the tamasha to follow like her Dada.

I have dealt with children for decades as a professional and can tell you that most children are unable to understand why adults can't work things out. It is very traumatic when it creates bitterness and rancour the way it is in Shah House.

To make matters worse you have your dad with his present wife, your brother who is your hero moving away alone and the paragons of toxicity who unleash a new act every day. P2 was on the verge of PTSD. Her reptilian brain seeking self preservation makes her speak out because Anuj gave her the reassurance.

Pakhis world is crumbling and can do nothing about it. It was her please for help.

I didn’t like Paakhi one bit either. Her dad the nasty can bring another woman home and her mom has to bear that but is not allowed to fall in love with another or move out of the house. Anupama is not a good mother is the conclusion I have arrived at, 2 out of 3 of her children are selfish, self centered individuals.

Will agree. I found her perspective a bit one dimensional tbh. Fine, she wants success for Anupama but still the whole "mom and dad are together" was just bit too controlling on her end.

I get that kids would want to see their parents together but parents are also humans and adults to decide for their life. It still shows her denial mode in some form or the other to the opposite person though she might proclaim herself to be selfish.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

P2 like P1 is biased towards their father and can't see much beyond his needs and perspective. She was fine till the IDIOTS arrived. She noticed the fathers body language and gauged the tamasha to follow like her Dada.

I have dealt with children for decades as a professional and can tell you that most children are unable to understand why adults can't work things out. It is very traumatic when it creates bitterness and rancour the way it is in Shah House.

To make matters worse you have your dad with his present wife, your brother who is your hero moving away alone and the paragons of toxicity who unleash a new act every day. P2 was on the verge of PTSD. Her reptilian brain seeking self preservation makes her speak out because Anuj gave her the reassurance.

Pakhis world is crumbling and can do nothing about it. It was her please for help.

Didn’t like pakhi either… she has never taken stand for her mother blind supporter of her dad

I second you dear. I too did not like pakhi's convo with anuj

Teenage excuse and all let it be on one side. But as u said can't she see her mother being humiliated every single day by her own father her grandmother her so called bestie??

She has never taken a stand for her mother but when it comes to being against her mother she happily joins with her bestie and insults her mother and gets back to her mother when she realises her so called bestie has betrayed her. I mean get a grip girl. Try to understand things. Woh itna bhi choti bacchi nahi hai ki she cld not understand what all her mother is going through.

And i feel (not only for anupamaa but generally for all women out there) ultimately it is anupama's life and her decision to do what she wants in her life.

U know what somehow this basic right to live their own life to take their own decisions r being stolen from mothers by all of us. We expect them to live for us till their last breath while we live our own life acc to our own wishes. We expect them to make sacrifices for us by not prioritising themselves while we prioritise our happiness first.

It is high time pakhi realises ANUPAMAA HAS HER OWN LIFE TO LIVE AND SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO DO SO. SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE HER HAPPINESS AND PRIORITISE HERSELF FIRST. it is 100% right and i say this strongly.

Pakhi cannot expect her mum to be all alone all her life and live with her ex husband under the same roof where she is being humiliated and her wings r being clipped off every single day by that same disgusting ex husband of hers and her ex saas .

Whether to be alone or have a life partner it is wholly upto anu to decide.

Pakhi saying my dad has made mistakes. Pls pakhi. Stop saying it is a mistake. That man

1.had an Extra marital affair for 8 years

2. Did not have the courage to lose his unpaid servant in the name of his wife for his domestic needs and to look after his parents and children so hid his affair

3. Upar se treated anu like a slave and harassed her mentally everyday

4. Disrespected her at every single turn

5. Used her just as a wife material to bear children but never gave her the respect and love as a wife

6. Clipped off her wings by stopping her education and chaining her to kitchen

7. Did not speak up when his mom insulted anupamaa 24x7 . Wait oh yes he was the prime one in insulting his wife how wld he stop his mom from insulting her .. 🙄🙄

8. Such a male chauvinist who always wanted anupamaa to be under his feet and trample her whenever he wanted to do so. 😠😠

9. Never ever gave respect to the wedding vows taken with her and treated her poorly

10. Turned his own kids against their own mother and supported them in disrespecting her and calling her a loser. (Wonder how ppl call him an ideal father🤢)

Some things might seem trivial but underneath it lies HUGE RESPECT ISSUES. And anu never got the respect as a wife , as a mother ,as a daughter in law, not even as a human being.

So pakhi pls stop being selfish for heaven's sake and let ur mom decide her future.

Pakhi is a cat on the wall. She can become the 5th idiot.