This was soooo needed!!!(link updated) - Page 8

Originally posted by: mishbir_7

this was much needed, without even being a celebrity like her even I have / would've put out my frustration for ppl invading my personal space or disturbing my family.

Ppl in the name of shipping are just too much on TT.

I mean come on even Rrahul Sudhir can't comment on anything they are connection that to KV's jealousy ( so someone for the bdy wish has said don't do this to jeejaji) blah blah seriously. why cant fans just let the actors be nice friends, they don't even realise they are hampering their friendship or making things awkward between the two.

KV-Deba's camaraderie was too much for thz kind of obsessed shippers, they dunno the some fans dilemma/ agony where they die to see their show leads sharing this kind adorable thing. then thz ppl would've known.

No wonder KV maintained his private life this way coz at the end shippers don't let the family breathe ( some even doesn't let the small children).

Sorry to disagree. This level of craziness shipping may be the result of the same . And this much hatred for her friends may be also the result of the same. May be I am wrong .

But yes everyone has their own way of dealing this celebrity life and fans . But I love Deba for her truthfullbess and transparent nature and she is bold too. May be some fans will unfollow her, but then be it . Good if those type will unfollow.

Originally posted by: Hanji1234

Sorry to disagree. This level of craziness shipping may be the result of the same . And this much hatred for her friends may be also the result of the same. May be I am wrong .

But yes everyone has their own way of dealing this celebrity life and fans . But I love Deba for her truthfullbess and transparent nature and she is bold too. May be some fans will unfollow her, but then be it . Good if those type will unfollow.

I kind of disagree here. KV's status will not solve this. Tomorrow she will do a new show, and if her friends comment, fans will make the same vile comments because they might ship her with that co star.

People need to understand that there is a line you can't cross. You can't call up a her mother and say she is with some guy. It's plain wrong. You can't bash her friends... irrespective of her co-star's status.

Honestly people know everything and still chose to ignore.

Originally posted by: Hanji1234

Sorry to disagree. This level of craziness shipping may be the result of the same . And this much hatred for her friends may be also the result of the same. May be I am wrong .

But yes everyone has their own way of dealing this celebrity life and fans . But I love Deba for her truthfullbess and transparent nature and she is bold too. May be some fans will unfollow her, but then be it . Good if those type will unfollow.

Originally posted by: Dumpling

Too much transparency can be harmful sometimes and some people cross that boundary and invade your personal space.

But how come everyone will hide their respective family ?? Family means parents , respective partner, sibling . And clearly now a days every family member is in SM. So no way you can hide .

But yes going and telling her mom about guys is too too low!!!
I saw some comments on YT videos and see some real sensible people are trying to tell some that don’t force it on them , and then they started scolding them with bad language, saying what’s your problem if KV doesn’t have and some said why they will trust these(so called hidden stuff) as KV himself never said . They think whoever saying this facts are haters trying to create hate for him .

One way I feel pity on the celebrity, other hand I can see they have tremendous faith on their idol also . They idolize them personally. Not for their work only .
Ohh god this celebrity work is too complex and dangerous I think . With money and fame may be this also comes as a package.

Originally posted by: Hanji1234

But how come everyone will hide their respective family ?? Family means parents , respective partner, sibling . And clearly now a days every family member is in SM. So no way you can hide .

But yes going and telling her mom about guys is too too low!!!
I saw some comments on YT videos and see some real sensible people are trying to tell some that don’t force it on them , and then they started scolding them with bad language, saying what’s your problem if KV doesn’t have and some said why they will trust these(so called hidden stuff) as KV himself never said . They think whoever saying this facts are haters trying to create hate for him .

One way I feel pity on the celebrity, other hand I can see they have tremendous faith on their idol also . They idolize them personally. Not for their work only .
Ohh god this celebrity work is too complex and dangerous I think . With money and fame may be this also comes as a package.

This is 2nd time deba had to explain it to fans to stop doing this to her .so that tells that being in celebrity shoes is not easy unless you follow Ignorance is Bliss and keep your near n dear ones away no matter what people gossip about you.

Ohh god is it? She is said this before also? tough for her must be .😔

Originally posted by: mallukumari

She made a comment about things that have been happening. If they didn’t do anything then there would be nothing to take personally. It’s because people think what they are doing is “healthy” shipping. There’s no such thing. I hope this puts the brake on unnecessary devir posts.

I’m glad she said what she needed to say.
I don’t understand this “healthy” , “pleasant” shipping business that some fans think they do. Ship the characters as much as you like,but shipping the actors based off of the little info you gather from interviews and BTS!? Like Really??There’s some cringe level pro max stuff floating around on TT and IG. Such a shame for “fans” of a show that talked about aspects like victim blaming, emotional manipulation and toxic obsessive love.

Originally posted by: black.snowflake

WELL DONE DEBA!!!!

I just came back from tt, but later on that.

People often forget that being an 'actor' is a profession. You work, create work bonds, make friends, create memories, enhance your skills, learn and grow. This you would do in any profession, right? You can be a teacher, a techie or an actor. If you dont share your personal details in your office space why do we expect actors to? Would you comment on a co-workers friends outside work? Would you comment on their marital status? Would you call them out for any of the mentioned before. No one will.

But people dont get it. They feel because they chose to spend their time hyping someone, doing trends or asking for MV's they 'own' that person. Really?

The girl broke down. I keep thinking, those comments on Vatsal were so vile and in a public domain, what would be in DM's? From her live it was very evident that its not just one friend and its extended to her family too. Who gives us the right? When did we leave basic human decency?

The girl lashed out because the 'toxicity' of the fans pushed her. She was the one who used to generously share fan edits even if they were shakhi/devir edits to show appreciation. She was pushed by people to do this. And yes, what right do we have to link her to someone so much so that we do not 'ALLOW' her to have friends or bash her family. People needed this reality check.

This required courage. She has 2 MV's lined up. No actor would want to do this right now. I am just imagining how much mental pressure fans had caused her to do this.She went off IG because she just could not do this.

Very very very well said.. and I absolutely salute them for telling in a straight forward manner .. what's wrong is wrong

Originally posted by: anjali9996

I completely agree with u, I don't think what she said was wrong , but going on live and addressing it directly has given the gossip to people to speak more on it , this will be negative publicity for her

Gossip guys will anyways gossip.. no matter what she did or said. She did what she did because she was not able to take it . It's good to take such things out of your system. I am sure this too shall pass... She will do fine work wise as she is very talented..

Originally posted by: black.snowflake

WELL DONE DEBA!!!!

I just came back from tt, but later on that.

People often forget that being an 'actor' is a profession. You work, create work bonds, make friends, create memories, enhance your skills, learn and grow. This you would do in any profession, right? You can be a teacher, a techie or an actor. If you dont share your personal details in your office space why do we expect actors to? Would you comment on a co-workers friends outside work? Would you comment on their marital status? Would you call them out for any of the mentioned before. No one will.

But people dont get it. They feel because they chose to spend their time hyping someone, doing trends or asking for MV's they 'own' that person. Really?

The girl broke down. I keep thinking, those comments on Vatsal were so vile and in a public domain, what would be in DM's? From her live it was very evident that its not just one friend and its extended to her family too. Who gives us the right? When did we leave basic human decency?

The girl lashed out because the 'toxicity' of the fans pushed her. She was the one who used to generously share fan edits even if they were shakhi/devir edits to show appreciation. She was pushed by people to do this. And yes, what right do we have to link her to someone so much so that we do not 'ALLOW' her to have friends or bash her family. People needed this reality check.

This required courage. She has 2 MV's lined up. No actor would want to do this right now. I am just imagining how much mental pressure fans had caused her to do this.She went off IG because she just could not do this.

so so so true and correct . This two paragraphs are apt .