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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: mamta22

Hmmm everyone has their own way to react and deal with the situation. Though I am not her fan but glad she told this. Some obsessed fans really goes overboard. Targeting family and friends is not acceptable. You are just a fan be a fan don't try to become their parents. But some fans are upset because she generalised it. Because all fans are not at fault. For some stupid fans why the whole fandom or some genuine fans will be blamed. But it's okay it's matter of time upset fans will understand her situation. Afterall she is also a human being.

Truly said. This was actually overdue. Some fans will still not understand or will misunderstand her. But you know something what I feel if this was going on for months she should have voiced it then and there. Just nip it in the bud. But i guess she didn't anticipate that it will go so far.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Itz high time she stepped in n stopped this circus. Harmless Shipping is one thing. Bt going around abusing her frnds, callng up n threatening her mother. Thatz simply not done. Yes, the celebrities sd be humble enough to be grateful to their fans for all the admiration. Bt that doesn't entitle people to go around poking their noses in her personal life or abuse her loved ones.


Kudos to the girl for being brave enough to put her foot down.


N nw people will go on abt hw kv never gets irritated with his fans. Mind u, kv hs been in this industry fr long. Bt still he felt the necessity to hide his wife n kids, n protect them from all these unnecessary trouble.

Edited by jhankarbeats87 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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She is such a talented and amazing girl. People should stay in their limits and stop intruding personal space of actors. I really adore this girl❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
#25

I think she should hire PR to look after her accounts to keep her self sane .She took a stand for herself that was really needed .But this is just start n part n parcel of being in limelight.And true fans will stay with her no matter what. Everone has ri8 to vent out their anger why not her ? Now fans saying why she blaming entire fandom .

Omg grow up people.

Hats off to KV for handling this madness so well n i respect him more now as to why he is protecting his family.


Poor girls mum made her account private .🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Edited by Dumpling - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#26

WELL DONE DEBA!!!!

I just came back from tt, but later on that.

People often forget that being an 'actor' is a profession. You work, create work bonds, make friends, create memories, enhance your skills, learn and grow. This you would do in any profession, right? You can be a teacher, a techie or an actor. If you dont share your personal details in your office space why do we expect actors to? Would you comment on a co-workers friends outside work? Would you comment on their marital status? Would you call them out for any of the mentioned before. No one will.

But people dont get it. They feel because they chose to spend their time hyping someone, doing trends or asking for MV's they 'own' that person. Really?

The girl broke down. I keep thinking, those comments on Vatsal were so vile and in a public domain, what would be in DM's? From her live it was very evident that its not just one friend and its extended to her family too. Who gives us the right? When did we leave basic human decency?

The girl lashed out because the 'toxicity' of the fans pushed her. She was the one who used to generously share fan edits even if they were shakhi/devir edits to show appreciation. She was pushed by people to do this. And yes, what right do we have to link her to someone so much so that we do not 'ALLOW' her to have friends or bash her family. People needed this reality check.

This required courage. She has 2 MV's lined up. No actor would want to do this right now. I am just imagining how much mental pressure fans had caused her to do this.She went off IG because she just could not do this.

Edited by black.snowflake - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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So a couple of days ago, i saw some shipper comments where they said people had stated tagging KV's aunt along with Deba's mom and were happy that both liked posts which they took as it 'meaning something'

Honestly, i wish KV would shake them a little too..people need to get their head right!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Smiley3262017


What do they mean she generalized, she can’t take individual names to point them , that comment from so called fans itself tells how stupid they are ..I used to like her for her talent but from today onwards I love her for her courage, I respect her now .. she is real Sherri .. more power to u girl ..

she always thanks fans and she was the first one to tell that they got this music video because of fans ..

Everyone has a different way of dealing with stupid fans , but I liked her style , straight forward muh phat , instead of trying to be nice and going in circles

This reminds me an IV of KV....where he said....Deba is a very black and white person.If she doesn't like anything ...she will say straight on the face.He may sugarcoat it ...but she is blunt straight away.I saw some comparing KV and Deba about handling fans....I say why to compare them...when both are different in nature.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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I honestly dont understand how people can compare two very different people on their behavior. It's quite evident that it affected her mental health.

And the way people deal with something is so different. We all know, KV is someone who gives it back with sarcasm and is very open in his opinions. Deba is emotional. I really thought she was about to break down when i saw the video!

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Posted: 4 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: black.snowflake

So a couple of days ago, i saw some shipper comments where they said people had stated tagging KV's aunt along with Deba's mom and were happy that both liked posts which they took as it 'meaning something'

Honestly, i wish KV would shake them a little too..people need to get their head right!

Ye kya padh liya maine...

Really ??

Kab hua..

O god....ooooo god....

As deba says....

Bohut hi lame tha bohut zyada lame tha....

Y r u dragging that bechari wd a family man ? Dono taraf ka problem hoga .. hadd hai...

Kv to sarcastic way mein karega . . Pata nahi .. samajh mein ata bhi hai ... Fans ko ?? He said clearly it's Shakhi and Nothing...

Aur kya kya proof chahiye bhai ??

Edited by -Snow-White- - 4 years ago

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