A few questions on Sai - Page 4

If she finds all this didi nautanki is dikhava stop saying this to people its not concern inform to the person who is concern whom is samrat & he will take the decision if didi tries to manipulate than play a game in which she utter her own game from her mouth & i know sai is capable of this

You can't keep showing attitude of a wife to didi when u have zillion time says right on virat face that its a deal marriage & there can never be a relationship b/w them and she is not stupid & dumb she knows abt Sairat relationship & sai's feelings too

If virat said abt the commitment with didi even sai did said that she will not come b/w his commitment & everytime she has come in b/w using wifey rights so where is her promise in here

The fact is she just doesn't want to let go virat everything cannot go by as per what she wants,she needs to understand & she has never understood how deep her relationship is with virat just for that bullshit commitment that has blinded her that she neither can hear nor see clearly that virat loves her

Why the hell she is giving so much importance to that nautanki queen let her rot in her own hell that she has created for her

Sai didnt lie about pp "waiting for samrat". What she meant is that without Samrat's news- not knowing if he was even alive/dead was putting PP in a place where she was being forced by the family n virat to wait for him. And she deserved to get closure. She didnt mean it in the sense of pp waiting for her husband, etc . Sai has not painted a positive picture of pp in front of Samrat to mislead him. But virat has. Sai barely knows Samrat but virat is his brother.. Sai has been very clear about not trusting pp at all because of how pp has treated her for over a year. In every conversation- public and private Sai has been transparent in her notions about pp n her distaste for her. When she is doing something against her will just because Aai/devi/bua/virat etc made her do it, shes transparent about it. She does not pretend. She wears her real emotions on her sleeve. She has no interest in pp or anything pertaining to pp but shes always dragged into it n has been provoked by pp n CN peeps to say things and behave the way she does. She has been called out by both virat n CN peeps no matter what she does. If she exercises her wife haq, its wrong, if she chooses to not do so n call the marriage a deal, then also its wrong. Sai doesn't know what to feel anymore- shes confused n lost. She desperately wants to be in a normal marriage with mutual love n respect but shes been led to believe that such a dream is not going to be feasible. So she is now close to giving up....

This is about Sai

1 She said her father wouldn’t have allowed her to stay with a man who doesn’t love her or respects her then why didn’t she file for divorce? I always felt her efforts to leave have been halfhearted to give herself the assurance that she has taken a step like people do in diet, they’ll eat everything then add veggies saying vegetables means diet food. She said she wants to cut all ties with them then why not cut ties instead of same old her trying to leave then hoping Virat will stop her

Nope. Sai has never hoped that Virat will stop her. Every time she made the decision to leave, Virat's apologetic behaviour made her stop. Infact until recently she has been forgiving Virat for all his abuses because irrespective of his abusive behaviour he has helped her after her father's death and that thankfulness and more importantly Virat's remorse on his abusive behaviour always made her forgive him. But this time Virat had gone a bit too far and what's more troubling her is that he is not even showing an ounce of remorse. That's why she decided its over and is leaving. Yes, she kept hinting at the dinning table that things will change but not to tell anyone that she is leaving, rather to herself that .....all your (CN wasis) wishes will come true soon. If she really wanted to tell them, she would not be leaving stealthily. Also, divorce would not be her priority now..... rather getting the hell out of that house and finding alternate arrangements for her stay and studies will be her main concern. Who knows, she might have eventually filled for a divorce if not for the upcoming accident track.

2 Why didn’t she tell Samrat the truth? She didn’t attend the ritual because she knows Pakhi is lying to Samrat, She told this to Pulkit, Shivani and Virat but she never made an attempt to tell Samrat the truth, why? This truth affects him the most and she does claim that she cares about him in front of Virat but if she truly cared, wouldn’t she at least warn him Instead of lying to him repeatedly?

The reason Sai is not telling Samrat dada any of her suspicions is because she knows Samrat dada is already aware of the situation. If you guys remember, she keeps reiterating the fact that Samrat Dada is very smart and can see through everything. She knows Samrat dada is not one to be easily fooled. Why talk about Didi's intentions when she knows that Samrat dada is well aware of her antics and behaviour. Samrat's questions towards Didi and Virat are pretty good indicator of this fact.

3 She can’t attend a ritual where the marriage is not real then when she is leaving Virat knows that Virat doesn’t respect her and abuses her, why did she perform rituals of a wife with Virat?

As for her asking for wifey rights from Virat.....she loves him simple. Her asking for wifey rights has never been a question of her ego but her care and love. But for Sai her self-respect (not ego) triumphs over everything else. Even now if Virat needed her, she will come running. This is not because she wants wifey rights but to take care of him. However if claiming wifey rights is the only way to get things done then so be it. But sitting in front of God and praying for a relationship (Samrakhi) that's based on lies and deception....she does not want to be a part of it. Till date she performed various pujas (including welcoming Ganapati bappa) as a wife with Virat since as per marriage rituals she IS his wife. But, even those she did after the family convinced/forced her But that was before his recent revolting behaviour. Now given recent incidents....all bets are off!!

A lot of people feel that Sai has become timid given the toxicity at CN and is no longer the old Sai. IMO people's behaviour might change given the circumstances and emotional stance but a person's character is mostly same. Sai is was and always will be a fighter, just that now she has learnt to pick her battles. Instead of fighting a pointless battle with Virat and CN wasis, she chose to leave and fight a bigger battle called Life.

Lastly.....Yes, Virat has committed grave acts against Sai but his intention was never to hurt her. He is just not thinking straight. It's not an excuse rather a situation. The one good redeeming quality of Virat is that when he realises his mistake he genuinely feels bad for it. Also, Sai's nature to forgive is not her weakness but her biggest strength.

This is my take on Sairat!!

Originally posted by: -Yaz-

These are the answers I think we all want.

There is no denying that Kamal Sir would not want his daughter to stay in a marriage where she is not getting the love or respect she deserves, and she has given Virat one too many chances so why doesn’t she just permanently cut him off, divorce him, free them both of this ‘deal’ marriage.

Is it because subconsciously she has fallen for him and that’s why she forgives all his indecent acts when he utters an apology that means sweet eff all.

In regards to your second point, I have maintained that she should have told Samrat off her suspicions around Pakhis sudden changed behaviour, because it affects him just as much as it affects her. She calls him her brother right? Would she want her brother to ruin his life over a marriage that means nothing to the other party? Then why is she always causing a ruckus over it but not telling the main person this impacts the reason behind it.

The only reason I can see behind it, is that if Samrat finds out then he’ll divorce Pakhi and then they’ll be nothing stopping Virat and Pakhi getting together and again subconsciously she doesn’t want that.

Then Mrs I am always right, goes and does her wifely duty in front of the family, pretending like she has accused Pakhi of doing.

Yes the intention behind the pretence is different, but for someone who says she can’t participate in a charade, the rules miraculously change when it comes to her? That I have just never understood.

Sai needs to decide once and for all what she wants and not keep chopping and changing her mind when it suit her. If this marriage is a deal, then she can’t use her wifely haq when she pleases. If this isn’t a deal for her, then she needs to stop dangling that in front of the family and Virat at every given moment, because it’s getting repetitive and losing its value and honestly speaking getting very annoying.

First of all why she should tell Samrat about Pakhi's intentions.. Did Pakhi cried holding her hands give my Virat back??..If I am Not wrong samrat was more keen on knowing Virat's position in this whole situation.. She cares for Samrat so she did the needful to make him stay because Samrat clearly told if Pakhi agrees to stay in the marriage he will NOT leave CN....rest she left it on Samrat to see through..

SHE does wifely duties.. Wasnt it Virat who wanted her to do all these.. Go back to the episodes where virat used to get angry if he had found Sai studying and Not paying any attention to him..it was Virat who wanted her to claim wifye duties..She is the girl who hadn't grown up witnessing any spousal dynamics.. Then things would have been more easier for her to connect.. These is where her problem lies.. She too wants the marriage to work but with utmost transparency and rightly so.. Virat's flip flop attitude confuses her even more...When Pakhi called her so called wife Virat just stood the like a mute spectator..Everytime Virat does something Pakhi calls her husband dhokebaaz.. I don't think any spouse would like to here all these

Anyways she wasnt getting affected much until both devar/bhabi teamed up insulting her when Pakhi brought the Saree.. If I am NOT wrong she even ate the laddoo happily made by Pakhi the day she cancelled Virat's transfered..

She does have a fear of SamRakhi divorce happens she may have to leave.. But she would immediately leave CN if Virat tries to reunite with his EX....On that contrary she does not have any issues with SamRakhi divorce only she wanted clarity from virat.. Read my mind.. See my action.. Go with flow blah doesn't help always when the EX is poking in your 24*7 ..

She wants to stay in CN not just for Virat.. There are people who love her selflessly in CN.. Being an orphan she knows the value of a family.. Only for them she tried to make her level best comprises living in this mad house..

Most of the times the dil ke acche ghar ke bare made her feel like a servant or doormat.. They hardly considered her as virat's.. wife...uncountable times they have taunted her for wasting their money and food.. Why the same rules never applied to Karishma or Pakhi.. They too have asked her to perform the duties as daughter in law as per their convenience..I don't think they have ever bothered about Virat and Sai's privacy as a couple.. Then why she has to be careful all the time disclosing about her deal marriage?? They even asked Virat to take Pakhi ladhak.. but when Virat wanted to take Sai they called out..Now they are slightly giving her the entitlement of a Bahu because of Samrat and Pakhi because they are pretty well aware of Virakhi's past

All these events made her more confused..

I don't understand what's more annoying barging in someone's room, taunted by husband and his ex/vahini repeatedly, or countless apologies from husband when only it will be broken later on ..😕

Both Sai and Virat are imperfect.. They made their own set of mistakes.. But Virat's actions are crimes..

One can be financially sound but a roof with loved ones are more important.. We all want to be loved and valued.. And Sai is no difference.. She is very much a human..

I don't think she lied that Pakhi was waiting for Samrat. What she meant was that Pakhi was waiting for him so that she could take a final decision n move on. I do feel Pakhi wanted a separation .

Also, the reason that she isn't openly telling Samrat about Pakhi 's intentions doesn't stem out from any selfish motive. She can't really tell him openly, can she ? Kya proof hai Sai ke paas. She did hint Samrat though.

But now when she is somehow firm that her relationship with Virat needs to end, she is in a way paving way to both Virat and Pakhi to rekindle their past. So there is no selfish motive i believe.

Your other points I do agree with, vo sirf dhamki deti hai, Karti kuch nahi.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

No, She has not given him enough hints

The question is very clear, when she can tell Virat in clear words, why not Samrat when she said the reason of her interference is because she cares about Samrat?

*Edited by DT*

1 Divorce - When she regrets marrying him the first way to end any marriage is divorce, I don’t understand why she is not even thinking about divorcing him, I can understand if she has feelings for him, I wouldn’t have this questions if she wasn’t given dialogues which show she understands there is no respect and love or the dialogue to Samrat about domestic violence

2 Telling Samrat the truth - If she hadn’t made a big deal about caring for Samrat, I wouldn’t have expected her to tell him the truth. The truth is not about being Virat’s wife or not being Samrat’s wife, how come telling the truth to Samrat is treated like instigating him against Pakhi? This is a first