Anupama's growth

I really feel Anupama has not grown much from her college days and she has to evolve a lot to become a really mature person. She behaves like a kid yes she is a mother but still she seems not grown up . I know it sounds harsh but its truth. Even Advit said apne baare mein sochiye jo khud se pyaar nahi kar sakta wo doosro se kya krega🥱usne kaha tha theek hoye par apne liye. I think Vanraaj one dialogue was true wo 25 saalo se jaha thi wahi hai. Means usne kabhi khud se bhi koshish nahi ki . Aur aisa nahi hai ki kuch seekhne se liya ghar se bahar nikalna hi zarori hai ghar pe bhi bahut kuch seekha ja sakta hai agar ichaa ho to. Agar insaan seekhna chahta hai to wo ghar ke kaam ke baad bhi time nikalta hai par i think Anu hamesha mind mein doosre kya kar rahe hai yahi sochkar jeeti thi kabhi apne baare mein nahi socha to isme dosh usse ka hai naa.

jaha tak baat hai uski school mein cooking classes aur dance academy ki to wo Anu ka comfort zone hai means its nothing new she was doing. She already know cooking and dancing. But now i feel her real new learning and journey will start with Anuj guiding and teaching her.

Lets ask vanraj didi he really mean anupama khuch seekhe . Jub bhi anupama khuch seekhna chahti thi for eg agar usne first time school mein naukri ki ya driving seekhna chahi tub to vanraj yahi kehta tha ki anupama se ki tumhara kaam to bus mere liye khana banana, khana parosna kapde dhona aur bache paalna hai

Aur yeh bhi kaha ki agar tumhaari naukri ki wajah se ghar ke kaam ko effect pada to tumhaari naukri chud wale denga

Agar vanraj ki aisi hi ichaa thi anupama khuch seekhe to jub anupama ne naukri karni chahiye ya khuch seekna chaha to vanraj anupama ko. Kyon rokta tha

Vanraj ko agar wakai mein yeh tha ki anupama ko. Khuch seeke aise vanraj anupama ko mock nahin karta ki tumhe yrh nahin woh nahin aata . Sabse pehle vanraj anupama ki padhai complete karata hai aur anupama ko free karta ki tum jo seekna chahti ho seekho but yahan to bus vanraj bus khaali anupama ko bus mock karna hi jaanta hai

Aur vanraj ko koi right nahin hai anupama ki insult karne ka

Aur seekne ke liye ghar mein mahol bhi to hona chahiye. Agar main khuch seekhne chaloon aiur ghar ke 2,4 log roj rioj mujh pe sawari ho jaayen aur isi tarah mujhe mock aur ya jhagda ya taunt karte rahe to kya main khuch seekh paaongi . Nahin. Yahi haal anupama ka raha yeh vanraj toshu kavya to bahut habit hai ladne. Yeh log to 24 ghante non stop lad sakte hain but anupama ki habit nahin hai itna ladne ki isiliye anupama haalat se compromise kar jaati thi

I beg to differ from you. Anupama was kept in a false world where she was made to feel caring for others is her karma. She was denied even simple pleasures like a visit to Mumbai while Kavya had gone with Vanraj on so called Business Trip which had all of what h e and Baba Yaga think will happen on the Mumbai business trip.

Anupama has grown temperamentally. She never stopped trying though the monster mom and son and the bratty kids always ridiculed the effort.

Like GK congratulatea Anuj for his effort till the end and enjoying the process Anupama has savoured every single opportunity or new experience. She has moved with a growth mindset unlike Baba Yaga, Vanraj or Kavya who have made their job/ taunting and demanding respect as their defining moment.

Vanraj , baa , Kavyaand Paritosh treated the arm wrestling as some sort of world Cup victory. This shows the reptilian mind fixated on survival. anupama on the other hand challenges herself, takes risks, acknowledged she can fail yet what mattered is she will be resilient. She has a positive , exploring disposition. She never thought to advance herself at the cost of others. She tried to move forward but was constantly belittled by family including her highness Rakhee Dave.

She has been so mature to look always how to make things better. Being childlike is amazing like the way Anuj celebrates the asking of phone number from Anupama,

The way Kavya acts around Anuj or vanya smirked as Anupama struggled to open the laptop is being childish. When things don't go their way bickering and bad mouthing folks.

anupamas EQ is high. Her initiative good, her task and people orientation are excellent unlike Vanya or Baba Yaga or Rskhee.