Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #95|Bhabhi Maa's Adbhut Pregnancy - Page 76

Originally posted by: Palak2812

Honestly Idk what wrong Raavi said.

I don't agree to weak part.

But there is nothing wrong she said. Isn't this all true.

I believe so. There was nothing wrong . It's not imp that if Shiva has romantic feelings for her , she will feel the same, At this juncture that is.... Dunno why adjustment and compromise or even weakness is seen negatively . She is at a stage where she was ready for it. Means she was willing to give Shiva a chance....let's say if Shiva is at stage 4 she is at stage 1 but that doesn't mean she won't reach stage 4 ..for some falling in love is gradual for some it's quick....for raavi to love Shiva he really needs to SHOW her love . Not hate and humiliation. The process of love can start with him being nice to her , like he is now.

I understand what she meant by " he is weak" . Shiva gave up way too quick without understanding what she wants. The real test of spirits is during the problem times..when we r low , under pressure .. I am sure when she will know of his great sacrifice, she will be floored , but nobody gained anything out of it and that's what shiva wanted , not raavi..he just assumed it will make her happy.. . she will realize his mistake also.. . But what shiva did were blunders n he needs to rectify them. Main being humiliating her and 2nd , sending the divorce papers. Probably weak is not the correct word here..he acted impulsively n also decided what's best for raavi.

The person who shouldered responsibilities with gombi at a young age is not weak. The way he holds onto dhara and his family , that's not weak. He needs a push..he needs clarity ..they must talk but they won't 😆 Coz otherwise what will they show in the next epi?😆

Originally posted by: Anu_V

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The only positive change I want to see in Shiva Pandya ever is to control his anger and nothing else. I wouldn’t mind if he doesn’t share all of his secrets or what he thinks with others. Sometimes he might share few things with Raavi and sometimes with Dhara or his mother and I am ok with it,

I am talking from my personal experience here. My husband is a great guy, perfect husband, son, brother and father to my wonderful kids. But to this date there are few things he will not share with me but is very comfortable in sharing with his older brother. I have never felt out or insecure at all. If he wanted to tell me, he would have and I am not the one to probe, nag him to share it with me as well. Likewise he will never ask me what I talked with my sisters or my mother and if there are things he doesn’t know. At the end, it has never affected our relationship because we understand each other so very well and It is definitely not about adjustments or compromise.

yes some of the things regarding their family they dont want to discus it with their wife its their self respect which a wife should understand it .

Originally posted by: mpks1

Deeps, one thing I would like point out that if somebody is changing for love, the outcome should be good and definitely not at the expense of his/her self worth or confidence. How many times since the Sneha Kaand Shiva has looked at his clothes every time Raavi was with her friends? many times. Even he gets FBs of Sneha insulting him, the first thing that comes to his mind is the clothes. Given a choice he would not change it at all but the writers are making him think that he is ready to change for Raavi. He is having to do all this by losing his self worth and of course confidence. But in return he might not even get Raavi back, so what does this do to his confidence and self worth, its going to further hit rock bottom, The makers are destroying the foundation of Shiva’s character by slowly peeling away his confidence and self worth at different stages. His brothers don’t respect him, neither do his sister-in-laws. His mother is the only one who showers love on him, she too is unable to talk to him and that’s about it. How would you feel if you were in Shiva’s shoes now? You will feel less confident and doubt your self worth.

Totally right.. he shouldn't change for anything..I really dnt want him to loose anymore confidence abt himself..

And worst thing would be if any of the family or ravi laughs at him if he wears any of that stuff ..to be honest.. even if the dress is good and it suits him..and everyone appreciates him. He shouldn't do that..becz even then he will never understand his worth in his own skin..

I did like him considering to change his style (note : only him 'considering'...nothing more.. )...becz that shows his extend of selflessness for ravi....but I definitely dnt want him to change anything abt himself .. I hope he decides against it himself after realising this will never work with him loosing himself or I want ravi to speak up and let him knw if he matters more to her or is it just his marriage with her that matters for her..

Shiva is strong person for his family in many ways always the pillar of strength and sacrifice for them but in terms of his relationship with raavi he threw in the towel first and for raavi that was his weak point. He might have been thinking he did the right thing by sacrificing his marriage to make ravi free and happy but nothing sort that happened and both ended up angry and miserable. On top shiva who is confident about himself in all ways but when it comes to raavi he doubts himself. Raavi now can't trust him and feels he will let her down again if she takes the first step toward reconciliation. Both lack communication with each other and mu keep on piling up. Only reason things are calm for now because gaumbi warned them for the baby's sake otherwise there would have been another ww3 happening in the house. Though a calm shiva is again being drawn towards raavi without the anger of her not feeling the same for him Coz after breakup shiva didn't handle well the fact raavi signed the divorce papers he bullied her into signing and kept on insulting her at every meeting lol raavi on the other hand can't forget her humiliation by shiva and him sending the divorce papers and has become gunshy about him and this marriage ever mending. If only shiva told her how he felt raavi would have melted in no time Coz from what we have seen she yearns for love and acceptance and if shiva even showed her a little she would open her heart to him in no time without any compromise.

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

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Originally posted by: _charu_

I believe so. There was nothing wrong . It's not imp that if Shiva has romantic feelings for her , she will feel the same, At this juncture that is.... Dunno why adjustment and compromise or even weakness is seen negatively . She is at a stage where she was ready for it. Means she was willing to give Shiva a chance....let's say if Shiva is at stage 4 she is at stage 1 but that doesn't mean she won't reach stage 4 ..for some falling in love is gradual for some it's quick....for raavi to love Shiva he really needs to SHOW her love . Not hate and humiliation. The process of love can start with him being nice to her , like he is now.

I understand what she meant by " he is weak" . Shiva gave up way too quick without understanding what she wants. The real test of spirits is during the problem times..when we r low , under pressure .. I am sure when she will know of his great sacrifice, she will be floored , but nobody gained anything out of it and that's what shiva wanted , not raavi..he just assumed it will make her happy.. . she will realize his mistake also.. . But what shiva did were blunders n he needs to rectify them. Main being humiliating her and 2nd , sending the divorce papers. Probably weak is not the correct word here..he acted impulsively n also decided what's best for raavi.

The person who shouldered responsibilities with gombi at a young age is not weak. The way he holds onto dhara and his family , that's not weak. He needs a push..he needs clarity ..they must talk but they won't 😆 Coz otherwise what will they show in the next epi?😆

@green...I agree here..thats why I want to know what she really feels for him or I want her to consider what she feels for him..try to talk with him.. becz the shiva right now is everything he could be. He understands her.. cares for her.. gives her space and respect..and still she is angry with him..why?..if she has no feelings for him why does he affect her now when he is not even fighting with her..

@red..but stage 1 means she just wants to keep up with a marrg without any feelings for him...not even liking..then we can't blame shiva for not wanting her to be in this marrg which was done becz of her helplessness and going by the diary he really believed what ravi wrote in the diary were her true feelings for him..the diary made him think she detested him...

@blue..this was what I thought his major mistake was.. he assumed and decided something so big on ravis behalf without even asking her ..

@pink...perfect explanation..😆

Ps..Sorry for all the colors..😆