Vanraj was shown 48, Anupamaa 42..
Now she is said to be 43..so he must be 49(his bday was shown)..so Anuj would also be 42-44...(Gaurav is 39 btw)
And he is competing with man 6 years younger to him..he has so much insecurities, may be due to his unfortunate childhood and adulthood he tries to compensate that by being over defensive..
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