Originally posted by: Dipsdj
Even if sanju was engaged or not,sid shouldn't have hurried.u met spoke to girl whom face u didn't see,only thing u saw was tattoo,then u try to find her.once u know about her u send her gifts nd call on a date.that was wrong move of sid.he should first try to know her,as a person how is she her nature all.but na his meeting with her was not good then also he dared to call her on date nd expect her not to be angry on him plus reason he gave if I wasn't engaged to monu u could have liked / accepted me.now instead of correcting all his mistakes he is still in sanju thought nd dreaming about her.a few seconds talks can't make u fall for any girl nd u go nd propose her nd then expect she accepts ur proposal with questioning u.even though sid is cute guy he doesn't know the reality of life specially girls like sanju who r rough nd tough from outside but inside daily face so many emotions that hurt them.
See Ganju is an impulsive guy. He felt some type of a connection with Sanju and immediately considered it love. I get him rushing into the relationship. It's who he is. But I don't think he has realized that he and Sanju have similarities, which is what connects them. He just thinks he feels differently for a tattoo wali ladki.
See in many ways both Ganju and Sanju are trying to find themselves and looking to fly. Ganju does that, but without aim. He doesn't know what he wants from life. He's had it easy and enjoys that. In some ways he's like Karan from Lakshya. Just aimlessly roaming around enjoying life. Sanju is tied down by her gender and her family. She's a girl from a small town who is expected to settle down, have kids, and take care of the house. She wants to break free of that and fly, but she doesn't know how. That's what Ganju connected with. The girl whose trying to break free and fly. He just doesn't realize it.