Bapuji really a well wisher of Anupama ? - Page 2

Bapuji, for me, is the living example of this quote by Martin Luther King:

"In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends".

While Anu was still their DIL, his wife and son continued to torment her for years. She faced every kind of abuse, be it physical, mental and emotional, in their hands for years. Later on even his grandkids joined the bandwagon. But this man, despite being the head of the family never had either voice or courage to stop those abuses. He just compensated his failure with repeated chant of "Tu meri beti hai"... And every thing was honky dory for long.

When Anu divorced with his son, he gave her a part of his house. It served so many purposes. His old age was secured with the service of a 24x7 nanny called Anupama, his wife still had a punching bag who she could still expect to cook theplas and massage her feet, his grandkids still had an outlet to vent. More importantly, his petulant son still had an object he could subject to constant humiliations and his present DIL Kavya got a readymade scapegoat who she could attribute all his miseries to.

I won't deny Bapuji being Anupama well-wisher (especially after his stand wrt to Anu's partnership with Anuj) nor will I deny his love for her. But what is the use when his actions, words and gestures have neither came on appropriate timing, nor with required intensity.

Originally posted by: chenjulia110

Agreed with your post!!!

Except for the part that leela has no excuses

She clearly does. Her excuse is that she is just an orthodox old hag with a jet black heart that has no scope for change at all. But dont blame anupama's baa 😭. She is just old 😭. The poor dear. I already have an obituary prepared for her death. All that is left now is for the old baa to die asap.

Daadi sa still had her moments of immense love for jagya and it pained and broke her heart when she saw him in pain and lonely. And it made her all the more human. Because she was in constant battle with her mind and heart. Where she knew her dearest grandson's happiness lies with anandi but anandi's happiness lies with shiv. The emotions were brilliantly portrayed and brought such a depth to the show and the plotline.

Baa here is modern enough to let his son live with both wife and ex wife but not modern enough to think about ex-daughter in law's (who she calls a daughter) well being?

What century are we living in? I sometimes wonder if this lady would have gone all out and would have asked anupama to perform sati had vanraj died without his cheating being find out. I wont even put it above the evil hag.

This is the biggest question. What century are these losers living in? I am glad Kinjal reminded them that it is 21st century. She should make a ringtone of that dialogue and set it in every loser's phone. At least hearing it day and night will put that in their head.