Anuj's behavior towards Vanraj and Shah

I found his attitude towards Vanraj and Shah odd. When GK and Anuj were discussing in car. Gk mentioned that Devika had updated Anuj re Vanraj. How he was torturing her.

When you love someone so much, you can let go of person knowing that atleast she is happy. Here he clearly knows that she was tortured a lot. Husband had extra martial affair for 9 yrs. He even saw multiple times how V tries to dominate her. Inspite of all that he told that's her personal stuff.

If you love someone so much and they are being tortured so much,you can be cordial towards but not helpful or friendly. He shouldn't have offered job to Kavya.

I found it odd that he said it doesn't affect to him what V did to Anu.

I don't know if I were him and someone hurt the person I love I would not at all be so cordial with them.

Thoughts .?

Originally posted by: Moongdal

I found his attitude towards Vanraj and Shah odd. When GK and Anuj were discussing in car. Gk mentioned that Devika had updated Anuj re Vanraj. How he was torturing her.

When you love someone so much, you can let go of person knowing that atleast she is happy. Here he clearly knows that she was tortured a lot. Husband had extra martial affair for 9 yrs. He even saw multiple times how V tries to dominate her. Inspite of all that he told that's her personal stuff.

If you love someone so much and they are being tortured so much,you can be cordial towards but not helpful or friendly. He shouldn't have offered job to Kavya.

I found it odd that he said it doesn't affect to him what V did to Anu.

I don't know if I were him and someone hurt the person I love I would not at all be so cordial with them.

Thoughts .?

I found it unsettling too. Knowing how Vanraj and Kavya have treated Anu in the past and continue to do so, he should not have offered that position to Kavya. If it were any random businessman, this decision would make sense. Because then he would not have any personal connection to Anupamaa, past or present. Then this would be a personal issue he would have no concern with. But Anuj, despite his love being one-sided, cares for Anupamaa. And so her mental wellbeing should have been a priority, keeping in mind Devika has literally told him everything. He constantly keeps saying that he hopes he hasn't made Anupamaa's life difficult but now he really has. The CVs constantly give way to character inconsistencies to make sure Kavya and Vanraj are somehow around Anupamaa to make her life hell. Such a disappointment.

Hmm...ya. car scene with gk looked odd. He avoided what gk was saying or was trying to. may be he wants Anupama to face it herself and be stronger. May be that's the reason he selected kavya along with her being good at office work also. Though he said vanraj that may be we will work on some next project if possible.🤪

Originally posted by: ...manal...

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I found it unsettling too. Knowing how Vanraj and Kavya have treated Anu in the past and continue to do so, he should not have offered that position to Kavya. If it were any random businessman, this decision would make sense. Because then he would not have any personal connection to Anupamaa, past or present. Then this would be a personal issue he would have no concern with. But Anuj, despite his love being one-sided, cares for Anupamaa. And so her mental wellbeing should have been a priority, keeping in mind Devika has literally told him everything. He constantly keeps saying that he hopes he hasn't made Anupamaa's life difficult but now p really has. The CVs constantly give way to character inconsistencies to make sure Kavya and Vanraj are somehow around Anupamaa to make her life hell. Such a disappointment.

Exactly. At one side he has so much love for Anu but is pretty chill with the family who troubled her so much.

I know the show has to get in Kavya to bring in drama but they should have done it differently, not through Anuj. It seems odd he is helping the people who are bringing Anu down still. At home she has no option but to beat but atleast at work place she would be in peace minus Kavya.

What anupama has suffered is suffered by many housewives in India. Anupama though tortured whole life was considering herself lucky when she was getting married to vanraj second time.

Anupama is still living in Shah household and helping vanraj in his restaurant.

So when anupama has no grudges why would anuj have. Also he is dealing professionally with Kavya and vanraj.

Also it's a daily soap so again vanraj Kavya anupama and anuj will work at same place. So more drama happens.

just a guess - anuj might thought of keeping kavya in front of anu ... so she remembers ...who she is.... and anu has to focus on her self respect, her career, her life.... to show vanya their place...

kind of constant motivation....

In fact, I am using this technique - it helps me.

I have couple of pictures from my worst time of life.... I kept it at my desk at work and at home, one in my handbag!

when ever I am in trouble / nervous ... need some motivation ... I look at that picture... and think... this is nothing in front of what I went through... and succeed!

I think a lot of this goes down to what Anuj said in the office scene. He has one thing he’s not happy about with Anupamaa that she doesn’t realise her worth. He is also an advocate of women fighting for themselves and he can see that she is doing absolutely fine. But I do know if the line is crossed in front of him he won’t stand back. When he finds out about their behaviour to pay he will give it back to them with interest. Another main thing is he doesn’t want to cause further problems for Anupama - he himself doesn’t have a reason to dislike Vanya they’ve not done anything to him. So if he were to change his attitude towards them they would all point out that it was because of Anu. So he is also not causing problems on that front. As for employing Kavya there are two reasons he keeps his business and personal life separate also Kavya has to be at the office otherwise who will update the shahs about MaAn 😆

Anuj very well know how much important the family is for Anupama he already made clear earlier conversation and woh apni ladayi khud lad sakti hain I am just her friend. If they would have mistreated her in front of him they he would have not allowed. His love is selfless he will not do anything such which he knows can affect there family he was concerned about that meri wajah se ussse problem na ho agar Anupama will ask him she want to get out of that toxic life then he will show them and her woh aage badke uski personal life main involve I don't think hoga when all know he use to have crush on her which he love still but hides kitne din tak he can now at same work place

He is shown top class business man he wil not bring professional and personal together ......