Why can’t they give refreshing look to Anupama?? DT NOTE Pg13 - Page 10

Sristi had posted this in SM thread. I would have preferred she had dressed up like this for the reunion.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/158584739

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I knew it since long time that Anupama has some psychological issue but I was not aware with the name which you said “ Stockholm syndrome “

The thing is who will focus on her psychological issue and help her ? Seeing her attitude, it’s very difficult for people like her to accept it as first step !

Stockholm syndrome is a relatively rare psychological disorder but it is as real as the anger a person may feel about his/her abuser.

I agree with how people who need psychological help find it hard to accept that they need help and take that first step and so far no one around her has even felt the need to adress anupama's mental health not even her darling son.

I am hoping for anuj to be the educated positive influence in her life who would make her see that asking for help and getting professional help for psychological issues is not something to be afraid or ashamed of. The show has been one that challenges the stereotypes of the society soo i am keeping my fingers crossed that anupama's mental issues will be addressed properly and with due professional help.

Depression and other mental issues aren't openly talked bout in indian tv shows soo a track where anupama recognises her problems and seeks to resolve them with anuj's guidance and support would be a refreshing change from the constant bickering involving rakhi dave and kavya "v" shah.

Devika is such an amazing vibe

Love how she supports Anu no matter what

It's interesting that Devika & Anu are the same age, have similar stories but Devika was able break free & carve her own identify. She looks young, fit happy & healthy

I m hoping they give her a makeover soon . She looks so pretty when her hair is fully open and so much younger

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Originally posted by: Krithzz

Chemistry looks good and Suits the characters here. There is reason. Firstly both were classmates but anu got married early and had 3 kids soon and she was made doormat and she herself never took care of herself and they say girls age soon compared to boys due to many reasons,changes they go through ( nowadays ladies do maintain and look younger than boys,partners ) and initial promo vanraj do say Anupama she looks much elder than her actual age .

In bengali version also actor playing Anuj( Rohit) is younger than lead actress in real life . they just have some 4 or 5 years age difference and he is fitness freak also in real life just like gaurav in real life and just like here also in Bengali version also he ( character of Anuj/Rohit ) looks younger than lead actress ) this is to show difference in life styles and how their life was or is.

Anuj is man who don't judge his partner, friend by their looks .even if they were married.. man like Anuj would have respected ,loved his wife ,gf ,mother of his kids , friend like Anupama even if they are of same age but she is now looking drained ,tired or aged this will not make any difference to him. That's the difference between him and vanraj or men like vanraj

caught you!🤣🤣🤣

jokes apart, agree with all the points.

But still makers can give new look to anupama during this track. In fact it will be good track that anupama realizes what true love is in anuj's company and first and foremost she will start loving herself then fall in love with anuj

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Muje lagta hai anupama ki dusri shaddi hogi toh he wo Yaha jayegi otherwise yahi rahegi !!

agar bengali version dekha hai to pehle koi ye to bataye ki anu ki dusri shadi hogi ya nahi because i highly doubt that. Anu is always under the influence of toxic shah family and people like vanraj, kavya, baa, toshu will never let her live peacefully and happily

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

agar bengali version dekha hai to pehle koi ye to bataye ki anu ki dusri shadi hogi ya nahi because i highly doubt that. Anu is always under the influence of toxic shah family and people like vanraj, kavya, baa, toshu will never let her live peacefully and happily

Suna hai Bengali anupama ka shaddi ho gaya hai Anuj ke sath after lots of drama!

Why to blame others when you have no self worth and would love to lead doormat life?!

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Suna hai Bengali anupama ka shaddi ho gaya hai Anuj ke sath after lots of drama!

Why to blame others when you have no self worth and would love to lead doormat life?!

chalo drama ke baad hi sahi atleast she gets married to the man who actually loves her ab bas bengali version ko follow kar le makers creativity ke naam par jyada dimag na chalaye

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

chalo drama ke baad hi sahi atleast she gets married to the man who actually loves her ab bas bengali version ko follow kar le makers creativity ke naam par jyada dimag na chalaye

Arey baap re ! Bengali version toh isse bhi zyada gaya guzra orthodox hai! Better they follow Marathi version! Uder itna orthodox and illogical drama nahi hota hai!