Narcissists like Vanraj and people like Baa thrive on having authority over others. Kaavya pe inn dono ki chalti nahi hai toh gadha kisko banaayegein? Anupamaa ko. The fact that Anupamaa lives in the same house as them gives them every opportunity to continue with their ways even though they no more have the right to do so (not that they ever had the right to dehumanize her).
I mean Vanraj keeps referring to himself in first person 😆 and Baa is the first to point fingers at Anupamaa at the slightest of her errors but rarely ever at her son who is a certified chauvinist pig. What did you expect? I for one am not surprised at all. Vanraj and Baa only pretend to have realised their mistakes and changed their attitude towards Anupamaa when it is convenient for them. One mistake from Anupamaa's side and they show their true colours. People like them never change. Anupamaa needs to grow a spine and not give them that kind of authority over her. But that will take time. She has been a victim of mental, emotional and physical abuse for most of her life. This is all she's ever known. She won't change overnight and one shouldn't expect that from her either. Unlearning abuse is a very difficult journey, especially with people continuously gaslighting you. Also, you need guidance and support in such situatuons, which she doesn't really have. Devika isn't always around and her children are absolutely useless. There's Baapuji, but the minute he emotionally blackmailed Anupamaa into staying under the same roof as her abuser and the woman he cheated with, he already did a disservice to her. Basically, Anupamaa needs professional help to change her life a.k.a a therapist. But this is an Indian television show and you need to be very progressive to show someone getting mental health help. Which let's face it, is never gonna happen. Because mahaan people don't go to therapists. 👏
Edited by ...manal... - 3 years ago
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